Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

hi, ive been with my boyfriend a few months, and he has become very clingy in several areas, he follows me, wants to do everything, buy and pay for everything, compliments me 24-7, i cant do or say a thing wrong, he suffocates me with affection, wants to see me all the time, said he loved me a month in etc etc and it has become too much, i an independant and have my own life, and also children, i have spoken to him and said that it feels very intense was going to fast and i felt overwhelmed, he said hed back off and slow things down, but he doesnt seem to get exactly what i mean, how do i get it through to him that i dont want a shadow, or to be continuously touched 24-7, etc etc without using the words clingy, needy etc as i think they are a bit harsh, i dont want to charector assasinate him either by reading him a list. i do like this guy, and take these things away we get on great and can really see a future, but cant handle the clingyness at the minute.

2006-11-05 20:36:19 · 22 answers · asked by redblueswirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

After 10 years of marriage, I can say without a doubt, our marriage is dull, lifeless, boring......and meaningless.

We barely say a few words to each other nowadays and it's mostly about kids. When we were dating, there was a certain thrill about meeting, but now it's just a routine daily thing.

In my life, I've had two relationships, the first was my first girlfriend, the second my wife. I'm looking for excitement in my life again and have been innocently flirting with someone as work...I'm wondering if I should take it to the next level.

Before anyone steps in and says do something wild and adventerous with your wife, I've been down that path, and am not interested anymore.

The main reason to stay in the relationship is for the kids.

2006-11-05 20:35:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's this girl that I bent my whole life around, she has no ideal that I truly love her, no matter how hard I try she still leaves me for the bad guys, and I am really fed up with it, because I have so much advice for other's but when it happens between me and her, I can't get over her, she's the one I want to share my life with and she is totally blind and can't see the love that I have for her, she ended up getting pregnant by a guy that just up and left her, but Im still able to see past that and want to love her and her child as my own, so I do I deserve this?

2006-11-05 20:35:31 · 12 answers · asked by Only G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i got 2 younger brothers and they are always bugging me, i want to know whether or not my brothers r just brats or whether or not it is normal.

have you ever punched them or hurt them in anyway on purpose
i know i have (plenty of times)

2006-11-05 20:35:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This always seems to happen to them whenever we have sex?

2006-11-05 20:34:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 20:34:15 · 5 answers · asked by arjit m 1 in Friends

2006-11-05 20:33:55 · 12 answers · asked by Hmmm 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had a relationship that has turned sour. I have lost contact from some friends, which has left me with nothing to do. I was thinking of getting an extra job to fill the emptiness. I live in an area that is tough for social situations. What advice do you have?

2006-11-05 20:32:52 · 10 answers · asked by barnesb 1 in Singles & Dating

How much is the success rate? I'm a 19 yrs colledge guy.

2006-11-05 20:32:27 · 14 answers · asked by justin1 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy won't let me leave and gets angry...he knows I love him but I must say goodbye but he so stubborn and won't let me go..he has to cuss and get mad at me? Why is he so selfish and can't understand..?

2006-11-05 20:29:13 · 18 answers · asked by andingjuniorhighstudent 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 20:29:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Is marriage a must in a girls life? I may be left alone as per the rules of nature may be after a few years.I do not have any siblings too. I have a good job in hand. I am fairly healthy too to look after myself. But i have a fear and always i imagine myself being alone till my end most of the times.Most of the times i get horrible dreams of my own dead body being rotten for 3 days.I feel very depressed at times.. I want to become strong and prepare myself mentally to live alone at my best without any complains. I do not want to expect myself to be protected from anyone else...but i want to work for myslef and others if possible. Can anybody suggest me how to lead life this way without any expectations and fear and enjoy every moment. looking forward for some good motivating practical answers.

2006-11-05 20:27:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As far as I know, they were not a couple, but my wife was "licking the floor" for him.
She knew him 6 years ago.
She says that the name of my son is nice and that's all, but also she admitted that the only guy with this name she ever knew was this "impossible love" of her.
The guy lives a few miles from us now.
As far as I know, there is no contact between my wife and him.
Anyway this bothers me a lot.
Thanks for any advise.

2006-11-05 20:27:08 · 13 answers · asked by danbraun06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i have got few internet friends ...r they trustworthy..i have a internet friend whom i used to love...

2006-11-05 20:27:01 · 8 answers · asked by mayaresh_111 1 in Friends

u may think that i am really bad person, actually i have started a new relationship with new girl at the same day in which i broke up with my ex girlfriend, shall i tell that new girl about that?

2006-11-05 20:26:35 · 11 answers · asked by repentant 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 20:25:01 · 18 answers · asked by flirtydesirablenurse 1 in Weddings

2006-11-05 20:24:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what it is this girl say she likes me and is willing to dump her boyfriend for me and i don't know whether i soud cause she has been with him for nearly a year now

2006-11-05 20:21:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 20:20:02 · 15 answers · asked by sbc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-11-05 20:17:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2006-11-05 20:16:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how u can identify the love frm a person?

2006-11-05 20:15:49 · 7 answers · asked by FATHIMASHARIQ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm goin to my friend's wedding next week and i need some ideas of what to buy for her!!!

2006-11-05 20:11:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he was taking several glances at a girl wearing a skirt.
When he realize I was looking at him ( looking at the girl) he acted defensive.

2006-11-05 20:08:55 · 37 answers · asked by Jacq 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends's husband aged 30 behaves in a very moody way, restricted her from all the channels of communication. She( aged 24) is a housewife n had an arranged marriage. He has bed wetting problem, beats her very often arrogantly and does not allow her to talk to even her parents, neighbours etc. kindly suggest some remedy for her.

2006-11-05 20:07:14 · 6 answers · asked by rathu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i'm 26 and my husband is 26 we've been married for 5 years now. He works out of town alot and this is the issue in the past few months our sex life as been non existant. I know this is personal but need to know if anyone else has been threw something similiar....we've been intimate maybe 3 times in 2 months i've talked with him and he just says he's tierd is it me or am i seeing the first sign of being unfaithful...i trust him with everything but this is something that's really bothered me so what does everyone think...am i crazy or do i have a reason to question this issue....thanks for any opinion's ......

2006-11-05 20:05:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Noottt that this situation is happening to me, but I have known quite a few people who have been in this situation.. and I was just sort of wondering how they should have handled it?

2006-11-05 20:04:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you also mention why you used that particular method for that particular relationship?

2006-11-05 20:03:48 · 9 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 20:02:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a guy I've been dating for a few month. During each date, he asks me what my plans are for the week and tries to make plans for next date. But in between dates, I don't hear from him. The night before a date, he emails me and starts asking for the details of the date. Is he into me? Or is he just playing? Or what is he doing?

2006-11-05 19:59:35 · 8 answers · asked by Sweetie 3 in Singles & Dating