Is marriage a must in a girls life? I may be left alone as per the rules of nature may be after a few years.I do not have any siblings too. I have a good job in hand. I am fairly healthy too to look after myself. But i have a fear and always i imagine myself being alone till my end most of the times.Most of the times i get horrible dreams of my own dead body being rotten for 3 days.I feel very depressed at times.. I want to become strong and prepare myself mentally to live alone at my best without any complains. I do not want to expect myself to be protected from anyone else...but i want to work for myslef and others if possible. Can anybody suggest me how to lead life this way without any expectations and fear and enjoy every moment. looking forward for some good motivating practical answers.
2006-11-05 20:27:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your fears are natural. I bet everybody goes thru them at one point or another in their lives. I know I've thought of it that way too but one thing u have to remember is not to dwell on them for too long. Many times the things that we fear the most are the things that never come.
We don't know what will happen in the future so u are only wasting your time dwelling on the negative instead of focusing on the good things. Marriage is something that u have to want to do. It's not a "have to" kind of thing. When the time is right, u will know. In the meantime, focus on the good things in life.
2006-11-05 20:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have friends? I would of liked to know how old you are. Maybe you will live in senior housing and have lots of friends who will take note of you. Talk to your doctor about how you are feeling or join a club or church ???? Good luck to you
2006-11-05 20:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those others u wanna work for as well, yeah bring them in.
why don't u try going for another relation, it might work out this time. or just get a pet dog (no offense to all the guys out there,lol)
good luck
2006-11-05 20:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be negative... , be positive, after rain it will be fine, tomorrow will be better for you, be happy.. Smile whatever in any circumstance
2006-11-05 20:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋