This guy won't let me leave and gets angry...he knows I love him but I must say goodbye but he so stubborn and won't let me go..he has to cuss and get mad at me? Why is he so selfish and can't understand..?
2006-11-05 20:29:13 · 18 answers · asked by andingjuniorhighstudent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know him not IM I want to say goodbye and it over...
2006-11-05 20:31:31 · update #1
14 & 15 year old boys act selfish and immature because........... they are 14 & 15 year old boys and ARE immature!
Give them another 20 years to mature and catch up to us gals!
2006-11-05 20:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're a teenager, your mind has not caught up to your body. A 14-15 year old may appear more adult-like than a 10 year old, but their mind is only a little more mature.
To put it bluntly, they're still selfish children. It's something that is difficult to see until you get even older and can look back with experience.
Accept that you cannot change this person, and do what is best for you whether he gets mad or not.
2006-11-05 20:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am kind of the same way...minus the cursing and attitude. I hate letting go of my gf of two years when she has to leave. I know that she plans about fifteen minutes to leave. I would guilt trip him. It works on me. Tell him how you hate having a great day then having to leave on a sour note. Also, let him know what time you are going to leave when you first get there so there are no suprises.
2006-11-05 20:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by geoffzaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because society around them provides countless models of selfish, "me first, me only" behavior. What else would you expect them to be? Are you not selfish yourself?
Selfishness aside... Regarding his behavior when you want to leave, that should instantly tell you that he's not worthy of your "love." Find someone who respects you and himself.
2006-11-05 20:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by trws1966 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's still a child honey. Get away from him, he's trying to be controlling and take over your will!
Get out while you can 'cos you got years ahead of you to find a good guy.
2006-11-05 20:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jan Frost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you both truly love each other it wont matter, just make sure hes not using u 2 be going out with an older chick
2016-05-22 03:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a boy and he's 14-15. They are all like that. Espcially my brother!
2006-11-05 20:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by ★☆✿❀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer of your question is bcuz the boys are already grow up and they like to have many girls many crush. and the reason why he dont like to left you is cuz he likes you but he cant tell you maybe bcuz he is shy to you and to tell his feelings infront of you!!! so good luck and if you want you search for other boy who really likes you and u likes him then im sure you will not have any problems!!! good luck
2006-11-05 20:39:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not just 14 or 15 year old males that are like that...we are all like it.....and we get worse with age
2006-11-05 20:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by michael b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go hit the books, honey.
2006-11-05 20:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by daisy770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋