he was taking several glances at a girl wearing a skirt.
When he realize I was looking at him ( looking at the girl) he acted defensive.
2006-11-05 20:08:55 · 37 answers · asked by Jacq 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Weeell, i've been there before. it upset me a lot because he didn't just "look", he gave "several glances" to "several girls" "several times" whenever we were out.no matter what anyone says, its awful.its also absolutely rude to you.i'll guess, not only were you jealous, you felt insulted.the thing i worried most about was, if the girl and other people noticed what he was doing,they'd ask themselves why and check me out, too.maybe even feel sorry for me.i didn't like that thought one bit.i'll tell you what, there are men who are real gentlemen who wouldn't do that.if you're he's girl, he should give you undivided attention, have eyes only for you when you're together.that's what he'd also want from you.no, its absolutely normal that you're upset.i think its just really rude what he's doing.you wouldn't want to be rude enought to check other guys out infront of him, would you?although he does deserve an equal dose of his own medicine.honey, if you're beginning to feel insecure all the time, its not always because there's something wrong with you, although you can help yourself and do something about it.but most likely there is something he's doing to cause it
2006-11-05 20:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by out of my wit's end 2 · 3⤊ 4⤋
No you shouldn't be upset because he looks at other girls, that's normal and all guys glance, what you should be doing is loving and trusting your boyfriend, because that's what love is about. I mean being upset only cause's more problems, and if you don't trust your boyfriend you and him aren't meant to be together, so let the little things go, and realize how much you trust him and things should work themselves out.
2006-11-05 20:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Only G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal for guys (and girls) to keep looking at other attractive people. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you become blind. However, I think if he's blatantly looking at other girls in front of you, then it's a little disrespectful. Let him know how you feel. If he keeps doing it, start obviously checking out other guys and see how he likes it.
2006-11-05 20:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looking is cool. How did you get together? he must have looked at you!
Going further than that...there in the problems lies.
Be grateful that all he's doing is looking.
You can't tell me that all of a sudden you went blind too when you got together with him.
Just as long as there is no action with what you and he looks at..then things are cool
2006-11-05 20:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by BadBill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's natural for a person to look at someone that is kind of an attraction because i turn around and look at other men when I'm with my bf i don't see any thing wrong that just natural in my opinion. look but don;t touch.
2006-11-05 20:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by nazwats 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's a harsh reality that men do check out other women.... But it's something that just has to be accepted.
It's the basic thought of:
You can look at the menu, just can't order.
If he orders, then you should be upset and dump his caboose!
2006-11-05 20:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by cutebastardette 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A friend of mine always said ' i can window shop but the goods are always at home'
theres nothing wrong with looking, as long as it doesnt go past that. Are you saying you've never checked out a cute guy since you've been with your boyfriend?
2006-11-05 20:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by life_vamp 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, he just looking, but he cheats on you yes. If you want you can tell him you saw him looking at other women and don't approve of it or else I will look at other guys. or just look at other guys even at their asses, and smile when he is talking to you like. That will get him upset and you tell him "now you know how I feel"
2006-11-05 20:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why be upset cause you look at guy's when he's not around and don't say you don't.To me it's ok to look and if ur wit ur girl or if da girl with her man go ahead and tell each other what's on ur mind and say oo i think she beautiful or hott.looking does not hurt just no touching cause i know when yall girls are together yall do alot of sight seeing just like what us guy's do.If you ask me ur over reacting and looking for and argument.
2006-11-06 16:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by muddyboy01 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just let him know nicely that you are not okay with him looking at other girls while you are together. My girlfriend does not mind me looking as long as I am not with her and she simply told me that. It is a matter of just trusting him while you are apart. I know I would NEVER cheat on my girlfriend and it is simply the nature of being a guy and as bad as that sounds it unfortunately is true. Don't get mad at him because as soon as you get angry he will stop listening. Just let him know you don't like him looking at other girls.
2006-11-05 20:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by geoffzaz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋