There's this girl that I bent my whole life around, she has no ideal that I truly love her, no matter how hard I try she still leaves me for the bad guys, and I am really fed up with it, because I have so much advice for other's but when it happens between me and her, I can't get over her, she's the one I want to share my life with and she is totally blind and can't see the love that I have for her, she ended up getting pregnant by a guy that just up and left her, but Im still able to see past that and want to love her and her child as my own, so I do I deserve this?
2006-11-05 20:35:31 · 12 answers · asked by Only G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honestly, I am touched by your story. It is the power of love!
I am fourteen now and I am also experiencing love now. I really love and care for her and believe that I would do everything for her. However, she told me that she didn't have that special feeling towards me. Maybe she has not realised how much I care for her. What I hope now is for her to wake up someday and receive me in her heart.
So, yes, follow your heart, if you really love her and she also feels the same, then you deserve that.
2006-11-05 20:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maann G, the only reason im replying to your message cause you just replied to mine about should i stay or leave and thats the best DAMN answer i have ever heard. but i have to give you a little more detail. how can i give you deeper details for your opinion?
on your note MANNN guess what this happen to me this guy was in your shoes, and everything about this guy was perfect. Same way you feel is the way he felt about me, i got preg too, and he said the same thing, but the thing was. we were high school sweethearts, and i felt like the way i flet then is the same way i would feel now. I WAS REALLY SCARRED. so i avoided the whole situtation, I mean think about it IS THERE REALLY THE PERFECT MAN AND OR WOMEN out there. thats a scarry thing to even think about. Cause your feeling would get so deep, but you will be afraid to lose such a GOOD THING. If i were you i would back off a little and go date a bit. Maybe she will see it then start asking questions. Somtimes from a women point. If we can have a great guy give you all we need and never put his foot down, then oh well. She seems more like a tough cookie rather then a soft and sensual type girl. Tell her how you feel for the last time. And then move on, TRUST me there always someone looking for just what you are giving.
2006-11-07 09:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're just addicted to your own emotional pain. Maybe you want to feel better about yourself by "saving" this girl. Whatever your motivation, you should put it in a very separate category from "love."
You need to give yourself some time and space away from her. Talk to other girls. Don't look for one to latch onto, just talk to them. Find out what they're about. Some will be losers. Some will be OK. A couple might be pretty nice. All of them will be different than this girl you're stuck on now. That experience will help you make he time/space away from her permanent, which is really what should happen.
If she ever gets her life together, well, great for her. You can be happy for her then. But in case she never does, there's no point ruining your life by jumping aboard a sinking ship.
2006-11-06 04:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by trws1966 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are three things required for a relationship to work, any relationship, which includes your relationship with your significant other, doctor, mailman, grocer, the bank, your family, etc. These are like, trust, and respect. If one of these is absent, you don't have a relationship. Love is not included in here because you can still love someone even if one of the three is missing.
2006-11-06 05:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by olivia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admire your tenacity. But it seems like this girl can't appreciate the love you're giving her. Do you think that is something you want for your life? Believe me, I know the lure, pain, and obsession of unrequited love. But real mutual love is so much more. Do yourself a favor and find a woman who will return the love you're giving.
2006-11-06 04:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure do deserve to have someone who treat you better than the girl you're with now. You should dump her like the piece of trash she is and find a good woman, I know she's out there. Good Luck.
2006-11-06 04:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't...you deserve a woman that will treat you with the same love and respect you give to her. Keep looking....the girl you love is not the one for you.
Good Luck.
2006-11-06 04:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is not too big, your boundaries are simply screwed up.
She may not know how to recognize/accept unconditional love, or whatever kind you are offering. Sounds like you each need a baggage handler, ie. professional help.
Do this for yourself regardless of what direction she is headed.
2006-11-06 04:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by gettin'real 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend , this gal isn't for u .. Even if u climb on top of te mountains, she will neva fall for u . Go out there n meet some1 who luvs u .. Donn force matters . Gud luck
2006-11-06 04:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the saying "When you Love something set it free, if it comes back it was yours, if it doesn't it never was."
2006-11-06 04:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋