Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

My boyfriend refused to be called as a boyfriend, he says we are sleeping friends, is it possible to be sleeping friends? and he left another country but he promised to come back one day but he did not said when, now I can not reach him on the phone and mails. Should I wait him?

2006-11-05 23:13:37 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the sign to know somebody likes you or that you are atrectiv to somebody?

2006-11-05 23:11:56 · 2 answers · asked by Ade 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in a relationship with a guy , its been 4 years, aithough i love him, i have this feeling that he doesn't anymore. i have tried talking to him, but he syas he doesn't care like he used to about me. i really am confused cos another guy who is willing to go extra miles for me, but he used to be a classmate of my boyfriend while they were in the university. pls help me. am really confused

2006-11-05 23:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by nina-reality 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 23:09:40 · 20 answers · asked by joe 1 in Friends

we are both nearly 29 and have been going out for a few months, her brother and sister both have young kids but I want to wait a year or two before taking the final plunge and having kids, I am not planning on splitting up after having kids so want to make sure we are suited before even talking about it really.

any tips to get her to slow down without appearing cold, i do love her very much and definitly want kids soon myself but not that soon.

2006-11-05 23:09:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, i broke up with my boyfriend because it wasnt really working! He told me ' fine, if u want to break up, we are over!!' that was it, end of story! Well the problem is that we have to work together! and now he is ice cold to me!!! like nothing happend! I tried being nice around him, but he was so cold that i got so mad at him, i just could stop myself!

I dont know how to act around him now, do i pretend he is nothing more then someone i work with, do i ignore him, be nice to him.....
and dont know.... please help!

And why was he all cold??? i dont understand? he is mad at me, i ask him, he doesnt hate me, ask him that as well.... i dont get him, please help, i dont want to have to quite my job, but cant stand him being so cold!!!

2006-11-05 23:08:15 · 5 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 23:07:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-05 23:05:33 · 12 answers · asked by daniel a 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am studing English in college too.This is my secound marriage .
We have some cultural personal diferences.Infact the first time I
asked him to marry me .I was in really bad situation(finantial and emotional).his parents was strongly disagreed because it was his first marriage and they prefer to choose someone who was younger than me,or one of their reletive.Now ,even after 12 years his parents try to destroy our life .Every night his mother call him
and wants him order him somethings .they say ,It's not your business.
he is our son...My husband is gree with them .they make him beave impolitely with me.and the worst part is that they made me to talk and keep in touch aginst my real feeling.they threatend to devorce me .I am worry because of my son .if I stay here I have to pretent
some fake behavior and if I want to go How ?without a high education certificient ,money ,close friend ,supportive reletiveor even pa
rents (they have died when I was a child)what do you think?

2006-11-05 23:05:10 · 17 answers · asked by bookshopfish 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like to know about you.

2006-11-05 23:05:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if a guy has been chasing you for ages and ages, even when you were in a serious relationship with someone else, he is really interested in you?even if hes still chasing you now that your not in a relationship anymore?
how can you tell if a guy is really into you and not just "playing" you or enjoying the chase?

2006-11-05 23:05:04 · 9 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Singles & Dating

Really need some serious advice. I really love my boyfriend who I've been with 2 months. We've talked about having sex (it would be the first time for both of us. i'm 21, he's 25) and we both want to, but when I'm round his (I stay every weekend) nothing happens. We have great fun with each other, we're just not having sex. I really don't know what to do- I really love him and want to be close to him, but am worried this is becoming too big an issue for me, but I can't stop thinking about it, and what might be wrong. Should I just try not to think about it and concentrate on just being around him and doing stuff together, or does sex make that much of a difference in a relationship that I'm not being paranoid or over the top about it? How long have you waited before having sex, first time ever and first time with a new partner? I really don't want to spoil what I have with him- I love him too much, and really miss him when we're not together.

2006-11-05 23:04:06 · 29 answers · asked by jowigley 2 in Singles & Dating

i like to know about you.

2006-11-05 23:03:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex of three months from summer of 2005 is still in touch with me via text message. We broke up because he just runs a mile when things get serious with a girl or so he claims. He text me last Monday asking how I was etc. I ignored the text, then last Saturday Night, he text me again, asking why I didnt reply etc. It basically came down to me telling him I have to move on and asked him why he was still in touch. He said he liked me alot and would like to be a with a woman with my personality but gets scary around women when things look serious. I want to text him this morning and say my goodbyes to him because this is really hard for me, still being in touch. He doesnt want committment but I do.

2006-11-05 23:03:15 · 9 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Singles & Dating

I have picked out an 18k,1/3ct diamond ring,I'm not a rich guy this ring costs 1,300.00.Is this enough?I intend to spend my life with this girl and I really want to get this right,please help!

2006-11-05 23:02:46 · 19 answers · asked by devorobin 1 in Weddings

I seem to realize the insincerety amongst people of today in terms of thier relationship to others and also the fact that they tend to hide feelings that are actually sincere about people they have affection for! Some find it difficult actually telling these people thier feelings out of shyness and others, i think have othet reasons that tend to make things too late in the end! Is there a remedy?

2006-11-05 23:01:06 · 1 answers · asked by Eljose 1 in Singles & Dating

And if so,Then why do we love someone we hate? I love my boyfriend so much you guy's!He's everything I pray'd for!But if we have an argument,he'll dig deep and perpously hurt my feelings .I mean he'' rips my heart out'' and it's then thet I realize thet never in my life have I ever hated anyone as I do him! Yet I love him also! How is this possible? No" *****" anwsers please!

2006-11-05 22:59:43 · 18 answers · asked by lkayj4 3 in Singles & Dating

Well, mine not so good at all.Maybe somebody have same expierience and some advices? Nobody from my class inspires me to have friendship with them.I'm arguing with everybody, sometimes it is not far from fight.No really I want sometimes kick somebodies ***.hrrr... I'm so angry.Some all the time talks about my outlook and I hate that cause there is nothing so so about my outlook, when they have nothing to tell anymore and I made them silent, they just start to talking **** on me.That is so anoying...

2006-11-05 22:59:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-05 22:59:03 · 9 answers · asked by pattabi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 22:58:54 · 18 answers · asked by daniel s 1 in Singles & Dating

I love one guy but I also like another one in a special way..is this wrong?

2006-11-05 22:56:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The love of my life cheated on me with a friend of mine. She cries and promises that she did not enjoy it, and she never meant for it to happen. She left me and moved to an apartment with him but they did have seperate rooms, she took all of our things there. I begged her to come back, when i finally gave up and decieded to move out of town she decieded she made a mistake. Granted we did have our problems in the years before this, and i certinally was no angle as far as being a great hubby. But still I remained faithful! So were back together now and she tries so hard to fix what she has broken, i still find myself not able to trust her. Was she really just fed up and just trying to get my attention? Should I trust her? We have ten years together and when we make love she looks into my eyes the whole time. She aid she was not herself and that she her friends telling her it was cool, i figured the friends thing already.Can friends really convince you that its ok to cheat on your spouse?

2006-11-05 22:56:14 · 34 answers · asked by Mr. Know It All 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She's a Roman Catholic.. Very pious girl, Divine.., Studious, Clever, Witty, Helpful, Friendly, Understanding, Beautiful..
She's so boyish! She avoids every girly things.. No boy'll feel like speaking to a girl when speaking with her.. Everyone likes her b'coz she is so good to relate with... She hears everyone!
But, She made me to feel like a man.. She was the only one to create such a feeling in me allthro my 22 years... I don't know Y..
She's a good friend of mine.. We'll speak at least twice a day without reasons.. She'll give all her academic projects to me.. She believes me.. She thinks I know everything and asks for suggestions on any subject.
On 12'O clock one night, I said, 'I like her so much and I'm always thinking of her!' and she said,' How can we be so thick friends without liking' :-) I'm very open, she knows that when i want to tell her my love.. I will.. but, i think of her studies & dont want to disturb her..
Someone say, does she know my love for her.??

2006-11-05 22:54:50 · 10 answers · asked by Artin 3 in Friends

2006-11-05 22:52:21 · 14 answers · asked by shweta p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What should singles be looking when deciding to settle down? What was the deal break besides being in love with that person?How do you handle arguments differently than you did when you were single?

2006-11-05 22:49:50 · 9 answers · asked by Moca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 22:48:33 · 12 answers · asked by venus 1 in Friends

We are in the twenties, and 5 months together. Recently she told me about how disappointed she is when I didn't tell her what I don't like about her, and that I hide my sad feelings. However, I always found out that whenever I am honest with her and told her what I don't like about her, she will get upset. She is getting upset either way... What should I do??

2006-11-05 22:46:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a friend of one of my friend last week in a club. he is a real gentleman and we were very well togheter, but we had some "touching" during we were dancing. Now I have regrets as i feel like a b...ch!! I don't have news from him now and really regret my behaviour. what could I do now? I'm feeling I really like him and don't want to loose him... do you think he's thinking I' m a dirty girl?

2006-11-05 22:46:28 · 14 answers · asked by missllola 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not looking for high street chains though but more quirky sites. AND they must deliver within the UK for a reasonable price

2006-11-05 22:44:42 · 13 answers · asked by lucyt20 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you think It a turn on when you know a guy Is married or do you think Its a turn off and If he asked you to fool around would you say yes or no .

2006-11-05 22:43:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce