okay, i broke up with my boyfriend because it wasnt really working! He told me ' fine, if u want to break up, we are over!!' that was it, end of story! Well the problem is that we have to work together! and now he is ice cold to me!!! like nothing happend! I tried being nice around him, but he was so cold that i got so mad at him, i just could stop myself!
I dont know how to act around him now, do i pretend he is nothing more then someone i work with, do i ignore him, be nice to him.....
and dont know.... please help!
And why was he all cold??? i dont understand? he is mad at me, i ask him, he doesnt hate me, ask him that as well.... i dont get him, please help, i dont want to have to quite my job, but cant stand him being so cold!!!
2006-11-05 23:08:15 · 5 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this why people say no affairs at work.
don't let it happen again.
2006-11-05 23:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I understand now why people say don't date someone at work :) althou its pretty hard to avoid it I mean where else are you supposed to meet men when you're at work all day! Anyway, back to your situation. I think you have done everything in the right - I even think that getting mad with him was totally ok! he needed to see that it was getting to you big time. althou it doesnt seem to have helped with his behaviour. I would recommend being distant but professional with him. he now knows how much he;s getting to you - so now act like you;re so over it and that it doenst bother you and he will soon drop the act. i reckon he was just being all distant to get the reaction from you (which you gave him...but you're only human, that was a human response) so now if you ignore him he will drop the act in time. dont quit your job cos of him though, i'm sure in time it will work out!
2006-11-06 07:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to accept that he is hurt and upset whether he says he is or not. Just leave him be and get on with your own life and work. Dont quit your job. It doenst matter whether you get why he feels like he does. You arent together anymore. Move on, and just act your normal self around him. It isnt worth you stressing about something you cant change.
2006-11-06 07:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ended it with him and he has to see you every day,,he is hurt and so is his pride,,,go to work,do your job and treat him as you do anyone else,,so he doesnt want to laugh at your jokes or smile at you as you are passing,,so what,,you cant just expect someone to carry on as normal after you split,,some people are just like this,,it is his problem yes but dont play his game of sulking because it will just end up you snapping at him one day because he is ignorant,,accept he cant yet face you without the anger and get on with work,,that is the reason you are there.bet you,re glad you weren't married,,he would have been a pig to end it with then.
2006-11-06 07:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the only place you see him is at work..then be cold to him..don't worry about him..just do your job and go on with your life...How did u except him two act....
He is hurt and is trying to hurt u in return.
2006-11-06 07:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by buggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋