if a guy has been chasing you for ages and ages, even when you were in a serious relationship with someone else, he is really interested in you?even if hes still chasing you now that your not in a relationship anymore?
how can you tell if a guy is really into you and not just "playing" you or enjoying the chase?
2006-11-05 23:05:04 · 9 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call his bluff!!
2006-11-05 23:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jane E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the 'you' that you are about to let him catch up with, the same'you' that he evidently has been fantasizing to be with "ages and ages ago".or has recent (maybe not so recent) relationships both of you each have had provided alot of luggage that will be brought into a here and now relationship? I chased my now x-wife for three yearsjust to become her boyfriend then she dumped me for a guy that messed her head all up and gave her 2 children then he dumped her and only then did she consider being with me.I married her but the baggage we both had brought into the relationship from previous was just too much to keep it working as a marriage ps I dont consider the kids to be baggage and although divorced she said she only filed to see if I would contest it... I still love them so much for proving it though. now I am just a deadbeat I guess. word to the wise
2006-11-06 07:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how will you feel if you do nothing and the chance is lost and someone else takes him?
what do you want to happen and for how long?
at this time of the year hundreds if not thousands of people want to be with someone because of Christmas & New Year, be true to yourself and go for what you want.
2006-11-06 07:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by JAYFIRE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date him, (best and safest try a double date) and I'm sure by your feminine intuition you will find out. Good luck
2006-11-06 07:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by jove46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to be certain. If you like him why not get together with him and see how it goes.
2006-11-06 07:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by huggz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well give the poor fello a chance and see what goes on from there and talk to him :)
2006-11-06 07:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
there's only one way to find out - spend some time with him and see if it comes to anything!
2006-11-06 07:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you'll never find out unless you give him a chance
what do you have to lose?
2006-11-06 07:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disappear and see what happens
2006-11-06 07:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lavender 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋