i met a friend of one of my friend last week in a club. he is a real gentleman and we were very well togheter, but we had some "touching" during we were dancing. Now I have regrets as i feel like a b...ch!! I don't have news from him now and really regret my behaviour. what could I do now? I'm feeling I really like him and don't want to loose him... do you think he's thinking I' m a dirty girl?
2006-11-05 22:46:28 · 14 answers · asked by missllola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it was touching under the trouser...
2006-11-05 23:18:22 · update #1
you can't change the past, so you have got to think about ways to make the future work. try to see him again in a casual setting, one that will highlight what a "good" girl you are. don't mention what happened. he probably doesn't want to talk about it anymore than you do.
2006-11-05 22:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by domangelo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened and you cant take it back so there is no good to come out of punishing yourself,,,listen,,you got drunk and now you know what can happen given that amount of drink,,simple,,dont drink so much next time,,if you know his number,,call or text him and make light of it say something along the lines of,," hi,,its me,,the drunk one,,soooooo,do you remember what happened? lol" you may or not get a reply but we have all done stupid things when drunk so you,re not the first and you wont be the last,,he gets in touch or he doesnt but you will at least have tried.
2006-11-06 06:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think so He just thinks you are a bit sexy when you are drunk. Do not drink to get drunk always drink to feel good so look around that guy if he is meant for you he will show up some palce
2006-11-06 07:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him, touching is not as bad as having sex. Besides it takes two to tango. The both of you touched, not only you so talk and work it out.
2006-11-06 07:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's just as embarassed and regretful as u r. i say leave it for a few days then send him a lighthearted text / email saying you're really embarrased bout that night and you hope things can still be cool between you guys. good luck!
2006-11-06 06:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fine -dont listen to people that call you or him any derogotory statements -YOU ARE NOT A DIRTY GIRL AND HE IS A GENTLEMAN
4 words- "go on the attack"
get him
pounce on him
you have committed yourself dont second guess yourself
dont pull back now
CLEOPATRA HIS @SS
its up to you-good luck
2006-11-06 07:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what YOU think is so much more important !! Talk to him, tell him how embarrassed you feel , you can tell a lot about him and him about you by by seeing the reaction.
Be honest - with him but with your self first !
2006-11-06 06:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by boobird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. If he's a real gentleman, and your friend, then I think he'll understand.
2006-11-06 06:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by Lena 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't waste your time in what he is thinking or what he will understand from that. you have realized it, is the biggest regret, now
talk to him, and tell him that "please forget me, i don't want to loose you."
2006-11-06 06:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a real gentleman wouldn't have participated in "touching" on the dance floor....he's a dog...he's probably put off that you didn't put out....
2006-11-06 06:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by JaneDoe 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋