i am in a relationship with a guy , its been 4 years, aithough i love him, i have this feeling that he doesn't anymore. i have tried talking to him, but he syas he doesn't care like he used to about me. i really am confused cos another guy who is willing to go extra miles for me, but he used to be a classmate of my boyfriend while they were in the university. pls help me. am really confused
2006-11-05 23:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by nina-reality 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he says he doesn't care for you anymore. maybe the love has disappered. people change. life changes. i know sucks right. but yea. so i would say go for the guy that would do anything for you because chances are your current boyfriend has no more feelings for you. dump him. move on girlfriend.
2006-11-05 23:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do dont get invloved with this other man. It will be a big mistake. You need to sort out your current relationship before anything else. Talk to your boyfriend and ask him what he wants to do because you cant carry on like this. There is no point in carrying on a relationship if one of you doesnt feel it. Life is too short. If you do break up take some time for you before getting into a new relationship. If this other man is so keen he will wait for you and give you the space you need to get over your cuirrent boyfriend.
Good luck.
2006-11-05 23:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy doesn't feel for you as much as he used to anymore, he said it himself. Let me just warn you that if you do stick around even though he has told you he's not feeling the same way he used to about you anymore, he WILL end up walking all over you. This is happening to my friend and it's very painful to see her geting hurt like that by him. We have told her he doesn't care for her no more but she just makes up excuses that it's her fault and so. With her being in denial he off course walks all over her. So be careful. My suggestion is get out and take the new guy.
2006-11-06 00:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what u probably have not done is talk to him. Not just say "oh do u love me?". Gurl show ur man ur dedicated to him, but still give him his space. I'm going through the same thing, but our relationship is younger. Real young! Just be like u want to take extra steps in yall relationship .
2006-11-05 23:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by beautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-11-05 23:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by MoneyPls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋