Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

Well my friend keeps riding up my a$$ about how she doesnt like my boyfriend and she says I have to dump him because Im her best friend. She tells me the only reason she doesnt like him is because we dont hang anymore but just last week I hung out with her for 2 weeks in spokane should I tell her off??????

2006-11-05 16:22:26 · 23 answers · asked by ferretgirlsnickers 1 in Friends

We met a few girls up here camping but nothing happened. Why would he tell me that if he swares nothing happened.

2006-11-05 16:21:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My finacee and I got engaged about a year and a half ago now. And we are getting married next summer. So she has had her ring for a while. We decided to put off getting married until she finished her undergrad. Anyways, I really wanted to take her ring and have a bigger stone put in it. Is this possible? And does any one know a good (fairly inexpensive) way to go about this? Anyone with experience? Anything helps.

2006-11-05 16:21:06 · 7 answers · asked by kelsdaddy01 1 in Weddings

Alright, i know im preaching to the choir, but i face this cycle on a regular basis. I try so hard to be affectionate towards girls, complament them, be polite, offer things to them, open doors, smile... And ill tell you what, its all BULLSHIT!
I try to be a good guy, and the world takes a big **** on me. For example: i take this girl out, buy her a nice dinner, have a nice conversation with her, even watch this chick flick, (hated it) and i find out she's dating some dirt ball now who's been in trouble for drugs/theft. seriously, WTF is wrong with girls today? What they say want, and what they really want are so different...
Maybe i should be a ********? the thing is, ive tried playing the "Rude guy who doesn't care" and THAT DOEST WORK EITHER! i don't understand what im doing wrong!!!!
don't girls want a guy to appretiate them? be honest with & spend time with them? IM a decent guy, above average looks, and im in college with a job... so whats going on?

2006-11-05 16:21:03 · 27 answers · asked by Billy Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

3 months ago i got back together with an ex gf from high school. after we broke up in high school she was obsessed with me for 3 more years of HS and i have always still liked her and cared about her. so she met this guy and they were together for 2 years. they talked about moving in together and marriage and all that. so one day she ims me out of nowhere and i saw that she was really hurt with the break up. so i was there to be someone to talk to. after talking for a few days we started hanging out and got back together. she told me she was sure that she was done with him and she wanted me. a month later she says i need to give him a chance and breaks up with me. then a few days later says i cant do it. al i think of is you. so we get back together. 2 amazing months go by and everything is perfect. then out of nowhere last friday she calls and says i cant be with you. i cant hide the feelings for him anymore. we have never been in a single fight and now she just wont talk to me at al

2006-11-05 16:20:36 · 4 answers · asked by diiirk9 1 in Singles & Dating

Am 38, happily married and have a child. I met this 23 year old guy online, chatted with him, spoke to him on the phone and became emotionally very close to him very fast. We met after a month. I was not prepared for anything further. But as it happened he made the first move and i didn't stop him. Now i feel am in love with him. We both don't want any commitments or to get together permanently. But we are deeply attached to each other and want this friendship. We are separated by distance and he wants me to visit his city. Am both worried and also wondering what that visit will lead to. I have no expectations from him but I can't break away too. Can i continue as a friend?

2006-11-05 16:19:55 · 17 answers · asked by amconfused 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont know what to do, whenever ive asked anyone out ive been stood up, or denied, so i dont know what to do, im one of her best friends, but i dont know how to say i like her, without it looking like thats all i want. Im also really insecure when it comes to girls, and also, there are alot of girls that say they like me, but i dont like them, so i dont know how to show that without coming off like a jerk.

2006-11-05 16:19:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you feel it is safe to explore the idea?

2006-11-05 16:19:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Am 38, happily married and have a child. I met this 23 year old guy online, chatted with him, spoke to him on the phone and became emotionally very close to him very fast. We met after a month. I was not prepared for anything further. But as it happened he made the first move and i didn't stop him. Now i feel am in love with him. We both don't want any commitments or to get together permanently. But we are deeply attached to each other and want this friendship. We are separated by distance and he wants me to visit his city. Am both worried and also wondering what that visit will lead to. I have no expectations from him but I can't break away too. Can i continue as a friend?

2006-11-05 16:19:03 · 4 answers · asked by amconfused 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well actually shes at her friend's house...so im guessing im actually asking whether girls put thier friends before somebody they like

2006-11-05 16:18:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got this big crush on this girl. i met her in this year of school. im preaty shure im friends with her. u no im not like her best friend but she has called me as her friend. so i dont get to talk to her that much because when her friends are around her i get isolated. but if its like just me and her we get talkin like friends do. so anyway what do i do now. i like her so much.

2006-11-05 16:17:51 · 7 answers · asked by steve s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-05 16:16:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anthony O 2 in Singles & Dating

People use it a lot and I asked before but no one tells me!!

2006-11-05 16:16:12 · 17 answers · asked by rainyfriday09 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that being called one is supposedly better than the other. Please clarify?

2006-11-05 16:15:51 · 15 answers · asked by Acerus 3 in Singles & Dating

Am 38, happily married and have a child. I met this 23 year old guy online, chatted with him, spoke to him on the phone and became emotionally very close to him very fast. We met after a month. I was not prepared for anything further. But as it happened he made the first move and i didn't stop him. Now i feel am in love with him. We both don't want any commitments or to get together permanently. But we are deeply attached to each other and want this friendship. We are separated by distance and he wants me to visit his city. Am both worried and also wondering what that visit will lead to. I have no expectations from him but I can't break away too. Can i continue as a friend?

2006-11-05 16:15:45 · 7 answers · asked by amconfused 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend called me tonight and wanted to know if and how she can tell one of her bridesmaids that she doesn't want her in the wedding anymore. She has had a longer engagement than expected ( over 2 years) and she asked this person to be a bridesmaid when she first got engaged. Two years later they have drifted apart but the person is still expecting to be a bridesmaid. How can my friend tell this person that she no longer wants her in the wedding??

2006-11-05 16:15:26 · 7 answers · asked by georgia peach 3 in Weddings

I am gonna go crazy if I don't get a hott white boy. Damn...I gotta have one. They just don't know how hott they are. I wish they wouldn't mind dating a black girl. I love their hair how they fix it and the way they dress. Omg...I know this is crazy to say this but I really really gotta find one. I'm shy to talk to them becuase their soo freakin' hott and I think they won't wanna date a black girl. The boys that are in to rock, and are really really hott. I need one...omg...they are soooo hott. Man....I gotta have one. I live in dumb ole Texas and i can't find a good one. Do u know Garrett Hedlund??? I want ones that look like him omg...he's sooo hott. How do I find a good one that lives around me...I know some but I doubt they'd be interested.

2006-11-05 16:15:16 · 7 answers · asked by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend wants to keep a picture of me, and he says he likes how i come out in every single one, but i hate how i look in pictures. I've always been this way and I hate the idea of him looking at a picture that i dont like
should i just go take professional pictures?

2006-11-05 16:14:15 · 13 answers · asked by rainyfriday09 1 in Singles & Dating

He's been working a lot lately and not paying enough attention to me. I acted like a brat about it and then started a big fight and called him a di**head and refused to talk to him. Two days later we saw each other and kind of acted like nothing happened. I feel bad about calling him a name. He never calls me names. We're not going to break up or anything. What should I do? I don't like saying I'm sorry.

2006-11-05 16:13:13 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 16:12:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 16:10:20 · 15 answers · asked by Alexwonder 1 in Singles & Dating

is there something you have not told anyone, even your closest friend?

2006-11-05 16:10:05 · 32 answers · asked by tanner1ie 2 in Friends

Im still young and i love to go dancing and have a good time like anyone else the problem... I feel like my friends dont invite me out because i dont drink or smoke or like to act all crazy. I dont dress all hoochie and curse like a sailor. So they always tell me oh lets go out but i think they are just saying it becuse when the weekend comes around.. i dont get a phone call. I think im really mature for my age (early 20's) im married, but still. I want to have fun. Is this why they dont invite me out becuase they think i will judge them or just cant relate on that level?

2006-11-05 16:09:52 · 9 answers · asked by no name 1 in Friends

I've tried, but as soon as I tell someone of my cicumstances, they shut down all contact. Am I a bad person because I don't want to die alone?

2006-11-05 16:09:44 · 19 answers · asked by cynical 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 16:08:13 · 19 answers · asked by fe2bsho 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so i met this guy about five years ago. We went out for a few months, didn't work, and stayed friends. Last week he stayed the night, cos it was late. This weekend he came over friday and left sunday. He has been sleeping my my bed, with me, and made no 'moves'. Just cuddled me. What the hell is going on? We have never been cuddly friends, more jokingly hitting each other. so, what the?

2006-11-05 16:07:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend recently developed strong feelings for my best friend. He cares so much about her. Right now, she's with a guy that is possessive and obsessive and won't let her be herself. He practically lives with her and doesn't like her being around other guys. He doesn't like her family or her friends and discourages her seeing them. He thinks all her time should be spent with him. How can I make her see this guy is totally bad for her? She just got out of a relationship just like this one that ended VERY badly. My other friend is the complete opposite and she won't give him the time of day. He's depressed about it. How do I help them both???

2006-11-05 16:07:16 · 2 answers · asked by *Kacie* 2 in Friends

HELP ME and i am 16 if that helps you

2006-11-05 16:06:52 · 12 answers · asked by Jeremy Traver 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiancee's mom doesnt want her son 2 marry me. and hes tryin real hard 2 marry me. not she doesnt want her son 2 marry me. should he stand up 2 her and tell her he wants 2 marry me. hes 30 yrs old by the way.

2006-11-05 16:06:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please tell me what to do!

2006-11-05 16:06:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating