Ok, so i met this guy about five years ago. We went out for a few months, didn't work, and stayed friends. Last week he stayed the night, cos it was late. This weekend he came over friday and left sunday. He has been sleeping my my bed, with me, and made no 'moves'. Just cuddled me. What the hell is going on? We have never been cuddly friends, more jokingly hitting each other. so, what the?
2006-11-05 16:07:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Since the both of you have went out for a few month, there's a high chance that you two still feel a lilttle something for each other. What I think is going on is that he felt really comfortable being on the bed with you and he cuddled you because it's normal for people to be affectionate especially to those who they have (or even had) feelings for. Just try talk to him and ask him what did the cuddling mean to him. He might want another go at the relationship. All the best.
2006-11-05 16:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by Freaktarded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuddle back and give him a kiss on the cheek. See what happens, friends give each other kisses on the cheek and hug all the time right? So if does want more he'll kiss you back but in a diffrent way.
2006-11-06 00:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by no name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u gotta ask urself first, where are u trying to reach letting him sleep with u in bed..friends? u should have some limits. more than that? make sure about it first u don't wanna mess it up for a second time
good luck
2006-11-06 00:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by the freakin' analyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speculation will get you nothing but a headache with this one. Ask him outright or put the moves on him and see what happens. I hate guys like this - games, games, games.
2006-11-06 00:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you are in the bed together you make the first move.
2006-11-06 00:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's getting closer to you for his own reason. Possibly you should ask him. I don't have any idea why he''s doing that. I be guessing, but maybe you are a sister to him(virtually). But you're right, its confusing. I'd have to ask what's on his mind myself.
2006-11-06 00:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by relaxed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you need to tell him that you don,t feel right when he stay,s all night then see what he say,s then tell him you want love
2006-11-06 00:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by sara k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to take it slowly, and you should too no rushing, enjoy the moment, the mystery and all
2006-11-06 00:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's a ****** or ur just ugly.
2006-11-06 00:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him and want to be with him, why don't you jsut ask him or make the move?
2006-11-06 00:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Evangeless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋