Am 38, happily married and have a child. I met this 23 year old guy online, chatted with him, spoke to him on the phone and became emotionally very close to him very fast. We met after a month. I was not prepared for anything further. But as it happened he made the first move and i didn't stop him. Now i feel am in love with him. We both don't want any commitments or to get together permanently. But we are deeply attached to each other and want this friendship. We are separated by distance and he wants me to visit his city. Am both worried and also wondering what that visit will lead to. I have no expectations from him but I can't break away too. Can i continue as a friend?
2006-11-05 16:15:45 · 7 answers · asked by amconfused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i thought you said you were happily married, woman this boy is 23 yrs. old, if you leave your husband for something you might regret, then you are going to feel so low, what if this young man decides later he rather be with someone his age. what will happen when your age starts showing is he going to want you then.you have a husband and a child, your letting this flattery of a young man get to you and you are going to do something that you will soon regret. think about what may come to this and your imature actions. think, use your head, what are you doing to your family...!!!
2006-11-05 16:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age distinction isn't the subject! you're saying you're thankfully married! yet while that have been genuine then you definitely does no longer be fooling around with anybody, no longer to point a 23 yo new child. that's not something that merely occurred the two. You went online & chatted, & step by way of step took it extra & extra until you went too a techniques. If something is inaccurate inclusive of your marriage then you definitely can not restore it by way of bringing in a third celebration, & coming up an outdoors relationship. you haven't any longer have been given a male/lady "friendship" you're having an affair with a youthful guy. To proceed this on any point from this element on is fairly certainly cheating! So make up your ideas! do you decide directly to stay "thankfully married"? Or do you decide directly to trash all of it the way by way of getting an affair? i choose to advise which you provide up annoying approximately your relationship inclusive of your boyfriend, & initiate questioning approximately your HUSBAND. Do you like your husband? I guess you think of you will no longer get caught, yet what in case you probably did? How might he take it? What might this do on your infants? If it is your purpose to stay "thankfully married" then end this outdoors relationship NOW, & get returned on your marriage, & wish that your husband on no account figures out what has occurred.
2016-12-10 03:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband that you have a boy toy and can you go and do the nasty with him, I am sure you will still be happily married after this bit of news. In the olden days you would be called a slut. but I am sure there is a new tech name for it
2006-11-05 16:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Mrs RObinson- you can expect heartbreak, disease, confusion and divorce papers- you can not be the friend of the young stud muffin- you are married- did you forget??? `How would you like your husband to do this and ........ destroy the life of your child- quit it- be faithful-D
2006-11-05 16:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about the friend or love thing but i am goin to tell you this hun age is just a number ;)
2006-11-05 16:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plane and simple you are cheating. would you want your husband doing the same thing?
2006-11-05 16:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by tamara s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats soooooo wrong..your married for goda sake...how would you feel if it were your husband cheating on you...
2006-11-05 16:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by free-spirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋