Am 38, happily married and have a child. I met this 23 year old guy online, chatted with him, spoke to him on the phone and became emotionally very close to him very fast. We met after a month. I was not prepared for anything further. But as it happened he made the first move and i didn't stop him. Now i feel am in love with him. We both don't want any commitments or to get together permanently. But we are deeply attached to each other and want this friendship. We are separated by distance and he wants me to visit his city. Am both worried and also wondering what that visit will lead to. I have no expectations from him but I can't break away too. Can i continue as a friend?
2006-11-05 16:19:03 · 4 answers · asked by amconfused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have you completely lost your mind????? You're taking a huge risk, not only with your marriage, but with the stable home of your child, because you have the hots for some young stud?
If you spent half as much time working on your "happy" marriage as you spend thinking about doing this guy, you'd be much more committed to your marriage, your hubby would be even happier, and you'd secure a solid life for your child. Stop talking to this other guy, period. End of discussion.
2006-11-05 16:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can continue as friend but can your emotion take it? Bearing in mind, he is 15 yrs younger than you are and what he is feeling towards you is just pure infactuation and wanting an experience with older woman. I am not objecting having older woman with younger men but just a work of caution and do not felt into their curiousity trap...esp you still married and have a child....
2006-11-05 16:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you will destroy your marriage if you haven't already. if you don't stop contacting him, you WILL destroy your marriage. if you truly love your husband, stop the relationship with this younger guy NOW. also, if you have any sort of self-respect you will stop the relationship.
SLWrites- is 110% correct as well.
stable life for your child... do you not love your husband?
2006-11-05 16:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visit him, sex him and get it out of your system.
Then be friends, only.
2006-11-05 16:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋