He's been working a lot lately and not paying enough attention to me. I acted like a brat about it and then started a big fight and called him a di**head and refused to talk to him. Two days later we saw each other and kind of acted like nothing happened. I feel bad about calling him a name. He never calls me names. We're not going to break up or anything. What should I do? I don't like saying I'm sorry.
2006-11-05 16:13:13 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Liking to say your sorry doesnt matter at all. Thats just ego crap. You are either sorry or you arent. If you think you did something wrong you should apologize. If you dont then you shouldnt. That all depends on how you feel about what was said and what went down, which are details that you did not give us.
2006-11-05 16:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes to admit they were wrong. You love your boyfriend right? How would you react if your boyfriend called you a name out of anger and then didn't say he was sorry? If you feel bad about it then you need to apologize to him. As far as him not paying attention to you because of a job, you need to calmly tell him how you feel and see if maybe you both can set up some sort of schedule where you can spend time together. You should be proud of your boyfriend for living up to his responsibilities. In fact you should tell him that. I hope I could help!
2006-11-05 16:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by angel l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should apologize because he sounds like a sweet guy and what he was doing was really a good excuse - not like he was blowing you off for nothing at all, and look how sweet he was, just to let it go without staying mad at you. Trust me. Those kind are hard to find! And what's great about it is, it'll make a sweet moment for the two of you, he'll love you even more for it and you'll find yourself smiling and feeling better than you even did before. Try it! What have you got to lose? He sounds like a great guy, make both of you feel good!
2006-11-05 16:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to like saying sorry and he doesn't have to put up with the name calling. If you are wrong (and you are), give him the respect that he deserves and apologize. You would expect an apology if he called you out of your name, wouldn't you?
2006-11-05 16:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, for starter's if you really love him then no because love don't need to say "sorry" but remeber love is kind,understanding,and neverless forgiveing. You,know the answer to this.Some times you have to say or do thing's you might not like but that's part of being in a relationship.Good Luck!!
2006-11-05 16:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by Cissey V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question then you already know that you need to apologize!! It's obvious you feel guilty for it. And just cause he hasnt said anything about it doesnt mean that it didnt bother him. Dont make a big deal about it..just bring it up, apologize and move on!! :)
2006-11-05 16:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good that you guys are not gonna break up over such a petty fight.you know, it was wrong for you to abuse him in words, so you should say sorry.at least he deserves,that, don't he? i ts understadable that you scolded as you were wanting some attention.if he could have wanted to, he would have called you by names,just like you did.but he did not.so, why can't you say sorry and explain yourself to him? what is so difficult about that? i'm sure he would forgive you.or maybe, he had.if not, he would have not acted as if nothing happened right?
2006-11-05 16:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, if you don't feel bad about calling him that name don't worry about it. Just pretend nothing ever happened. I'm sure he will because he won't want to think of the time that he was called a di*k head by his girlfriend. So, just ease your mind and don't worry about that. DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF!
2006-11-05 16:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only apologise if you intend to allow the situation to continue unchanged.
it is enough that you have opened up about how you feel.
if you apologise for the name calling you must also point out that your motive and point of view haven't changed, namely that he is neglecting you by working too much.
try to remember that he's only a guy. he thinks he's doing the right thing by trying to make life better for both of you, and he probably hasn't realised how bored you are getting.
2006-11-05 16:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For heavens sake apologize to him. Just be thankful you have a boyfriend who works and is responsible about it. Your reaction was immature, it wasn't like he wanted to be away from you he had to work. No one likes to have to say they are sorry, since it is admitting they were wrong. But, in this situation you were and Sorry is what you need to tell him.
2006-11-05 16:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋