Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

If you are married and your sister(who is married also) keeps dropping cryptic hints that she has feelings for /or is in a budding romantic relationship with your hubby?.........If you accuse her bluntly she can blow you off very easily because you have no substantial proof......Everything she has said and done so far has been only vaguely suggestive..............

2006-11-05 16:05:57 · 9 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

few days ago, we broke up because he insulted me like a ***** and said hurtful things on my dad. It all happened because I danced at my cousin's wedding, he hates when I danced. But I enjoyed dancing, and he just cannot bear it. Now we are living separately, and yet I cannot stop thinking about my love, he means my world, my life. I love him too much. Please can anyone help me about this????

2006-11-05 16:05:42 · 26 answers · asked by SHA 1 in Weddings

2006-11-05 16:05:36 · 14 answers · asked by tanner1ie 2 in Singles & Dating

her court date is tomorrow, she has been in since Friday. I told myself if I won I would bail her out. A friend says NO.. What should I do?

2006-11-05 16:05:33 · 10 answers · asked by Pat R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 16:04:12 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it can be about your personality, your body or your lfe in general

2006-11-05 16:04:03 · 13 answers · asked by tanner1ie 2 in Singles & Dating

I just met this guy like a few weeks ago....but I can't stand to be without him, whenever I'm not talking with him, I feel dizzy and sick to my stomach. I think about him all the time. I don't think it's love, then so what is it?

2006-11-05 16:03:45 · 20 answers · asked by MeLovesYou 3 in Singles & Dating

okay see the thing is i was lokin over our cell phone me and my husbands and wehn i was was playin with his fone the other day some one called and that same number was on the cell fone bill several times i asked him who it was and he said i dont know c the thing is how can he not know when hes dialed that number several times should i call the number and ask who it is?

2006-11-05 16:02:31 · 19 answers · asked by mommyof3 3 in Marriage & Divorce

After being married more than 2 years, I feel that my marriage is different from the 1st year in a good and bad way.
How do you handle the stuff you do not like in the marriage?
Do you look at your marriage the same now as you used to?
Does the heat of love (sex) goes aways in every marriage?

2006-11-05 16:01:45 · 13 answers · asked by southbaybride 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK HERES THE DEAL...I HAVE A BOYFRIEND WHO I HAVE BEEN WITH FOR 7MONTHS AND I LOVE HIM BUT I DONT KNOW IF HE LOVES ME...BUT I AM STARTING TO FALL FOR THIS OTHER BOY FAST...IM NOT GOING TO CHEAT BUT I FEEL LIKE I BELONG WITH HIM BUT I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND BUT IT SCARES ME CUZ SOMETIMES I THINK HES JUST WITH ME FOR SEX...SO WAT DO I DO ABOUT MY BF, THE OTHER GUY AND MY RELATIONSHIP

2006-11-05 16:00:59 · 9 answers · asked by goodgirl_101 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of 5 years Mom and boyfriend moved in 2 months ago. Her boyfriend is a bum from California- he was seriously homeless and gross. well, he's not homeless anymore but he's still gross. Anyway- he is living here and does not work and i've had enough. my boyfriends mom is 53 works 40+hours , he's 35 and he wouldnt even pick up the laundry bag to put it in the car for her-on her day off - (i flipped out on him and told him to "man up") i complain about it which makes my boyfriend upset- he says he cant put his mom out on the streets. i understand that- but how the heck are we going to get rid of them (well HIM). ?
we knew better before they came and now i feel like we are stuck until THEY are ready which could be NEVER! There car is about to be repoed and they left there state and came to ours. What do we do? AGHH!!!
Top it off he talks to my boyfriends mom like **** and I CANT keep my mouth shut- i can and do speak my mind- it doesnt work....whats next?? getting physical?

2006-11-05 16:00:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I work at a Movie Theatre, and my co-workers are mainly male. Well, being teenage boys and all, they tend to be a bit immature, which is understandable. They are constantly giving me a hard time though, teasing me, poking my sides, grabbing me and scaring me, sexual inuendos, etc. My guy friend that works there said several "like" me and told him I was "beautiful" and "hot" which of course I don't believe. I just don't understand why they are constantly giving me a hard time, I just laugh it off with a smile knowing they are just having a good time, but why do they act this way with me? I'm always smiling and laughing so I don't know if that has anything to do with it, but it makes me wonder if they even like me if they are constantly teasing me, I always thought if a guy liked a girl he'd try to be as sweet as possible.

Thanks for any help!! :)

AND GUYS-if you do this why?

I'm 17 by the way!! :) thanks!

2006-11-05 15:59:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told u earlier that my guy friend is hard to read and that I like him. This is going to sound immature like I am in middle school or something. I am 20 and I wanna let my friend know without making our friendship weird in any way. How can I bring it up without making it awkward.

2006-11-05 15:59:38 · 5 answers · asked by Alternative Chick 4 in Singles & Dating

What do they expect from a man? All I hear is women like "tall" guys.. I am not tall at all.

2006-11-05 15:59:24 · 15 answers · asked by Alexwonder 1 in Singles & Dating

This past weekend my best friend told my ex bf that I was trying to ruin his life. When I haven't done a single thing to him. And she likes him on top of that. And today she started yelling at me b/c she thought I was daiting her ex when I'm not and I told her that and confronted her about it. She still won't believe me. And she has been telling my ex bf lies about me and his other ex gf. And now he believes that I'm trying to ruin his life. What should I do to win his trust back so we can be friends again? And what should I do to tell him? Even though he won't talk to me anymore b/c I hurt him.

2006-11-05 15:59:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl and I'm not too sure if she's into me...normally I'm pretty good with this kind of stuff, but this one I just can't figure out.

We've known each other for four years and we usually joke around with one another and it gets a little flirty. Lately she's been asking me about my housemates, my family, etc. etc. Also, whenever I bring up another girl she always gets insecure or changes the topic with something that has nothing to do with the conversation. However, when we spend time alone we usually get into an argument over something stupid and any "progress" we made goes to shits.

Anyways...her friends always bring up how her and I should date and yadi yadi yada. But whenever its brought up she always answers it would never work, our personalities don't mesh. I go along with this and say similar things, because I've got nothing else to say.

What do you guys think...does she like me? Is she doing this to test me? And should I even bother if we're gonna argue?

2006-11-05 15:59:23 · 2 answers · asked by dr.prah 1 in Singles & Dating

A while ago I told a guy(married) to tell his brother in law I like him. It took him a month. Then I told him to give him my number a week ago. Im not sure if he gave it to him yet. What can u conclude from this person.

2006-11-05 15:58:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Should I tell my boyfriend that my best friend likes him???? Cause the last time I told my ex boyfriend that she liked him,he dumped me for her and Im scared that this guy might dump me for her too!!!! What should I do tell him or keep it a secret!!!!

2006-11-05 15:56:59 · 26 answers · asked by ferretgirlsnickers 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was thinking about what would attract me to (and make me want to keep) a guy. Like if I were sick would he voluntarily come over and help me get better? Or maybe he's a got a certain way of looking at me thats endearing/mysterious/sexy/exciting. Someting that just grabs you about a guy.

2006-11-05 15:56:55 · 5 answers · asked by Confuzzled 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a big problem. i have this friend and hes the best friend i ever had. hes more like my brother. only the thing is that theres a lot of girls in school that tell me that hes talking **** behind my back and that hes just using me . and a lot of girls tell me that every day and they tell me to stop talking to him cause hes a **** talker. but see its cus before i met him, this girl had to do something with him and now she has a boyfrined but shes trying to bring back the problems to me by telling me to not talk to him. i already talked to him about evertything and he said that it wasnt true . and i say the same thing . ads long as i dont hear it from him personally then i wont believe it. but this girl keep putting things inmy head and sometime i really think its true . only my friend/brother said that he wouldnt do anything to hurt me cus im like his little sister too! what should i do . and i dont understand how hes talking **** behind my back if im always with him 24-7

2006-11-05 15:56:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When he is drunk my family hates him, he swears at me, my sister, and my mother. He breaks things and just freaks out. But when he is sober, i love him more than anything in the world. What should i do?

2006-11-05 15:56:03 · 9 answers · asked by Jimmy R 1 in Family

Most of my relationships tend to start in March and end around July or August. Its a pattern and I dont like it much. Makes the holidays hard ofcourse when family members question or feel sorry for ya. I dunno crazy stuff. If anyone has an answer thanks much.

2006-11-05 15:55:48 · 12 answers · asked by b 4 in Singles & Dating

k, my ex boyfriend is like creepy. like punkrocker- cutting type. i have no idea where my head was when i went out with him but whatever. now that i have a new boyfriend and that i dont talk to my ex, my ex is telling his friends to ask my bf and me stuff...like his friends are asking weird questions and i know it's all coming from him cuz he's a retard
and my bf think he's obsessed with me lol
but he's getting on my last nerves and i want him to stop checking up on me but without talking to him directly cuz i hate him.
what do i do

2006-11-05 15:54:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can hot girls do to make it less intimidating for you?

2006-11-05 15:54:06 · 11 answers · asked by Gina C 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, right know I have having some money problems because I got layed off of work. Don't get me wrong I start another job on the 13th. I asked one of my dearest friends can I borrow a little change until this coming Friday and she said she was broke. I just went with her to pick up her check and she had 2 checks. I have been taking care of this person for the past 3 years. She had no job and I gave this person whatever I had and everytime I got paid I gave her $10-$20 just because.and j she tells me no. Please Tell Me What Kind of friend Is that?

2006-11-05 15:52:39 · 8 answers · asked by KoKo_512 1 in Friends

First of all, she's in 9th grade and im in 8th. I told her how I felt and she blew me off. Well tonight I was over at her house with my friend. ( me hunter ) and ( kimmy and taylor ). We were all playing hide and seak in this dark house. Her friend was hanging all over me. So I flirted back. We both hid underneath the ping pong table. Dark room ( no lights ) we were facing echother face to face under the ping pong table. I was playing with her hands when she took my hat and put it on her head. Just then, the girl I onced loved walked in and thought we were making out. After that the guy (hunter) went home. So it was me kim n taylor. Taylor and me were getting really close, eye to eye. I wanted to kiss her so bad. So I made my move, I kissed her on the lips ( nothing ). And said woops. From there I kept staring into her eyes the rest of the night. Then I told her bye and went home. Should I call her? I really like her alot. I don't know wut to do. I can't stop thinking.

2006-11-05 15:51:26 · 8 answers · asked by Zack- 1 in Singles & Dating

I HAVE A BOYFRIEND ALREADY AND I REALLY LOVE HIM...I DONT KNOW IF HE LOVES ME BECAUSE HE NEVER TOLD ME SO...BUT I AM STARTING TO FALL FOR THIS BOY BIG TIME AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT ANY OF THIS...I AM FALLING FOR THIS BOY FASTER THAN YOU WOULD THINK AND I REALLY NEED HELP...

2006-11-05 15:50:51 · 7 answers · asked by goodgirl_101 2 in Singles & Dating

If man tells a woman that he is married/separated, and she still moves forward with pursuing a relationship with this married man.... will he ever fully respect this new woman?

I don't think so... but what do you guys think?

Especially the men. If you told a woman that you were married/separated.. and she still messed with you, could you ever hold her with the same high esteem you held your wife before marrying her?

2006-11-05 15:50:35 · 19 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Marriage & Divorce

we have a new employee working in the building with me. (different company, different office blah blah blah- so i dont wanna hear it ,')
shes really cute and seem nice. i meet her in the hallway here and there and have talked to her 2-3 times.
then on friday i met her in the hallway again, asked her to tell me that she got into at least a little trouble on halloween. she said no and i kidded her telling her i was disappointed etc...
anyway this time during our conversation, literally the second it started she grabs her hair (mid to mid/long) kinda twists it around her hand and pulls it to the top of her head and holds it there the whole conversation.
i didnt say anything but it looked NUTS SEXY and exposed her neck along with a head tilt.
was this her flirting or just getting comfy in a wierd way... WHAT.
given the fact that i see here here and there i dont want to go for her and get shot down unless i have signs that shes interested.
thanks

2006-11-05 15:50:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 15:49:51 · 13 answers · asked by HuM_TuM 2 in Singles & Dating