Okay, right know I have having some money problems because I got layed off of work. Don't get me wrong I start another job on the 13th. I asked one of my dearest friends can I borrow a little change until this coming Friday and she said she was broke. I just went with her to pick up her check and she had 2 checks. I have been taking care of this person for the past 3 years. She had no job and I gave this person whatever I had and everytime I got paid I gave her $10-$20 just because.and j she tells me no. Please Tell Me What Kind of friend Is that?
2006-11-05 15:52:39 · 8 answers · asked by KoKo_512 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-11-06 00:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd call this a "fair weather" friend. If what you say is objectively fair and correct, then you couldn't really call this person a friend.
If you really resent it that much, then perhaps you should look for other friends that are more genuine. On the other hand, if there is value in this person's companionship, advice, ability to listen, etc., then you might want to limit your monetary generosity while continuing the relationship.
Ultimately, it's what you're willing to accept from someone else.
2006-11-06 00:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur friend is sick, she is just using u as far a money is concerned and by this u straight away come to know that she is dead selfish. Leave her alone for sometime and get a part time job maybe as a baby sitter so u can atleast earn some cash to get u thru till the 13th.
2006-11-05 23:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by candicecocolove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a friend she's a user who's only looking out for herself. Don't worry about her. Start focusing on your new job and remember that kindness is always rewarded. Your willingness to help others is why you had no trouble landing on your feet after losing your job.However, you can't win at everything. In the case of your friend this is simply a case of kindness being taking for granted. So, find yourself some friends who'll appreciated you. Be blessed.
2006-11-06 00:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you see that this person isn't a true friend and you need to cut her *** a loose. She when you let her go pray on her and the lord will bring her to your foot stood. If you have a friend like that who need enemies. She isn't your friend she is a free loader and a ungrateful *** cow. She is selfish and cut all your services to that little cow. The lord will bless you with plenty and she will be on your door step again when things start falling apart for her. I only suggest that you don't open up your door, heart, or wallet to her.
2006-11-06 00:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a friend, you had her when she was down and out. She seems like a user, if I were you I would let her go slowly but surely, she isn't helping your "friendship" just herself, anyways, let her see that she will be missing out on a true friend, which is so hard to find these days. Sometimes it takes situations like this to really see who your real friends are!!!!!
2006-11-06 00:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
takola if u want to help its ur wish but if u seek help its a chance.u may or may not get it. just because we have helped someone he or she will not help us. there are people who are born only to take help but not to lend even to those who have helped them in the past.
so don't regret, u will get help from some others whom u might not have helped till now. God is there is c.
don't worry be happy.
2006-11-05 23:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess she isn't really a friend. what more do you want. learn from your pain
2006-11-06 00:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋