I work at a Movie Theatre, and my co-workers are mainly male. Well, being teenage boys and all, they tend to be a bit immature, which is understandable. They are constantly giving me a hard time though, teasing me, poking my sides, grabbing me and scaring me, sexual inuendos, etc. My guy friend that works there said several "like" me and told him I was "beautiful" and "hot" which of course I don't believe. I just don't understand why they are constantly giving me a hard time, I just laugh it off with a smile knowing they are just having a good time, but why do they act this way with me? I'm always smiling and laughing so I don't know if that has anything to do with it, but it makes me wonder if they even like me if they are constantly teasing me, I always thought if a guy liked a girl he'd try to be as sweet as possible.
Thanks for any help!! :)
AND GUYS-if you do this why?
I'm 17 by the way!! :) thanks!
2006-11-05 15:59:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh dear.... they SO like you. my husband has done all that crap to me & still does-- it is a little boys way of letting you know he likes you.... he tickles my sides because he likes to see me laugh & squirm... he scares the crap out of me constantly because it amuses him somehow & it is a good excuse to touch me....
so, if you don't like this (especially the sexual inuendos) you need to talk to these guys seriously & tell them to stop or you will go to the manager. otherwise, enjoy being 17 & have fun back! they are having fun with you because you are so cute!
2006-11-05 16:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to do the same thing to girls when I was a young boy. I didn't spend a whole lot of effort psychoanalyzing my behaviour at the time. Looking back at it now, I can see that my behaviour was a product of my own insecurity. I believed that the types of stuff to which you allude would gain attention, which it did. I just hadn't figured out at the time that negative behavior invites negative attention. Don't reward their behavior and it'll probably stop.
2006-11-05 16:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ken J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We do it for different purposes some to just make fun of u while for others is part of their habit,but normally teasing girls is a fun to boys and its sweet
2016-05-22 02:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys are teasing u becuase they like u and want to talk and make contact with you. They want u to see them as possiable boyfriends.
2006-11-05 16:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do they tease u in a mean way? Like calling u rude names.they dont like u then. they are just being immature.
2006-11-05 16:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in numbers guys tend to be more immature. otherwise it will result in being made fun of. and our fragile egos cant handle that
2006-11-05 16:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by spiffo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am girl..
couple of guys do taht too me.. they'll just playin with u.. but if u get really annoy then u should tell them to stop it.
2006-11-05 16:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by Sw33ty S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they tease just because they want to ease themselves.
2006-11-05 16:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are afraid of rejection.
2006-11-05 16:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋