I have a boyfriend...?

Question

I HAVE A BOYFRIEND ALREADY AND I REALLY LOVE HIM...I DONT KNOW IF HE LOVES ME BECAUSE HE NEVER TOLD ME SO...BUT I AM STARTING TO FALL FOR THIS BOY BIG TIME AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT ANY OF THIS...I AM FALLING FOR THIS BOY FASTER THAN YOU WOULD THINK AND I REALLY NEED HELP...

Answer 1

Break up with your boyfriend now, regardless of whatever happens with the other guy. You appear to be one of those girls who always has a boyfriend and only ends their relationships by cheating.

That is because you are a selfish coward. You fear being alone, and you value your own desire to have a boyfriend; any boyfriend, at all times; above the trust they place on you.

Oh, and he's never told you he loves you because he barely even LIKES you and is just using you for sex. Duh. He probably deserves to get cheated on, but that doesn't make it right.

Do the right thing, realize you wouldn't be thinking about other guys if you were serious about this one, and break up with him, and if nothing happens with the other guy, deal with being single.

Or get angry at me and rate me down and choose to listen instead to a flock of dumb hoes with XxxXes around their names and big-eyed pixel avatars who are going to answer this and tell "u" what you want to hear.

And then just ignore them too and get it on with this other bastard behind your boyfriend's back until you've decided you "really love" him instead. Like you probably intended to before you even posted this question.

The truth hurts sometimes.

AND FOR FECKSAKE...TURN OFF YOUR CAPSLOCK...

Answer 2

well, some guys don't talk about their feelings so much. you need to stop & look at the big picture. if you don't stop & breathe, you can get in much further than what you are ready for, or think you are in love when you really aren't. infatuation is often confused with love. love takes some time & doesn't happen over night.

also, it is a huge tendency for girls & women to fall into this fantasy world. from experience, i often have to pull myself back into reality with a little rational thinking.

Answer 3

I was told once that women feel more than think whereas, guys think more than feel. I think since you are new to the whole I have a boyfriend now feeling and you feel you love him, but you aren't sure. I say slow down. Don't express your love for him just yet. Just wait until the time is right and then tell him or wait until he tells you.

Answer 4

If you love your boyfriend, you wouldn't be trying to look for someone else really. Its common sense but if you find yourself looking at other guys than that's not really being faithful. I'd be honest with your boyfriend and ask him if he would like to seek other people cuz it's not fair to him if you cheated.

Seems to me, the reason you're looking else where is cuz he ain't saying he loves you, but how does he act? If he acts in a way you don't like, tell him so and solve this relationship first befor you get into a new one.

Answer 5

Most guys are pu$$ies and can't handle a woman's emotional intensity. They get all scared and stuff, like little weenie boys. If you hit him with all your emotional stuff right now, he will run away from you like a spooked horse. You need to introduce your feelings to him slowly, much like spoon-feeding an infant. If he is worthy of you, then he will accept you. If he can't handle it, then he will run. This is not your fault, it's a flaw in the emotional makeup of most men. Note that I said MOST, not ALL, for anyone wanting to accuse me of generalizing.

Answer 6

The only thing you can do is ask him. You have to talk to him about it, there is no other way around it.

Answer 7

slow down