A while ago I told a guy(married) to tell his brother in law I like him. It took him a month. Then I told him to give him my number a week ago. Im not sure if he gave it to him yet. What can u conclude from this person.
2006-11-05 15:58:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay I forgot to mention he is busy, and i cannot interact with the guy i like directly becuz he is a client.
2006-11-05 16:02:51 · update #1
Frankly, I must say the problem might not really come from this person.
That is, what if the other guy, his brother in law (BOL), is not so much interested and is avoiding the matter!! This would simply "Sandwich" the person between you and his BOL.
Furthermore, it also depends upon what values to them ,i.e. they may be considering how to proceed and whether their family would accept you as their potentially new member.
Therefore there are also many other factors that might be causing the problem. So without appropriate knowledge of the matter just do not jump too quickly to a conclusion as who knows perhaps you will ultimately need this person's help to better integrate the family and to adapt to your prospective new life!
Furthermore with the latest clarification you gave, I would also like to add that if he is very busy sometimes some urgent problems may also be more important for him!
I also think that though he is your client, you should personally try to contact him to know more about his social/private life. Sometimes it is also very difficult to understand people only through their professional work.
2006-11-05 16:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by rajivtee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a very typical guy.
The explanation could be one ,or several of the following:
1. He likes to mind his own business
2. He doesnt repeat gossip. For all he knows, you are just leading his brother in law on.
3. He hates his brother in law.
4. He doesnt like you
5. He knows his brother in law already has a significant person/girlfriend./common law wife.
6. He lost your phone number. Like I said he is a typical guy.
7. He doesnt think it is of any importance.
2006-11-06 00:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well either the guy you told is slow and forgets things OR the brother in law you like may be with someone right now
2006-11-06 00:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremy Traver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not invlove yourself with a client it would be bad for your career, if you cannot talk than having anything else would be more difficult. Wait until he is no longer a client than go for it.
2006-11-06 00:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure about the other person but from what I read, grow up and take care of your own bussiness. You're probably not in high school anymore.
2006-11-06 00:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by Reckless Ambition 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in his own lttle world , Do you see this person alot. If so gave him your phone number yourself. And if he calls you. That is great.Or you can exchange phone numbers with him, Ask him for his. Just i thought This way you are going may take longer.
2006-11-06 00:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by gemini19572001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lazy, forgetful or he doesn't like you.
Why don't you tell him yourself and cut him out of the equation all together? You're adults right? I don't understand the amount of grown people on this site, acting like kids in the playground.
2006-11-06 00:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that married man is plain forgetful, next time give your number and your message to the guy you like directly
2006-11-06 00:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's mentally lazy, or he does not want to get involved in your love life. He probably figures if you don't have the courage to face his brother in law yourself, your not worthy of him.
2006-11-06 00:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
conclude that you can't rely on this lazy bum. Get the job done properly by cutting out the middle man and doing it yourself.
2006-11-06 00:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by ...n... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋