Should I tell my boyfriend that my best friend likes him???? Cause the last time I told my ex boyfriend that she liked him,he dumped me for her and Im scared that this guy might dump me for her too!!!! What should I do tell him or keep it a secret!!!!
2006-11-05 15:56:59 · 26 answers · asked by ferretgirlsnickers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Jeeze then if you know it could happen do not tell him this. Keep it to yourself. You are not required to tell things to be her friend period. Date him and just have fun.
2006-11-05 15:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how she feels....every minute detail. If your boyfriend really likes you then he'll never ditch you for another female no matter how much she likes him. If it's not your best friend then tomorrow it will be another female. I always thought that best friends ought to respect each others relationships. It actually hurts to think that someone who you think cares about you would do something like that but my ex-best friend of 14 years tried the same thing and we don't speak anymore but at least I'm not paranoid anymore and for that it's definitely worth it : )
2006-11-06 01:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by Cherie C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you tell him that? And what kind of friend do you have to tell you that she likes your boyfriend? She has done this to you on more than one occasion? I think you need a new friend. She is showing you that she has no respect for you and the relationships that you are in and you just allow her to do it. She is not your friend.
2006-11-06 00:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by shellese2 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say just keep it to yourself. But I would think about getting a new best friend. That's an unwritten code you don't go after your best friends guy. Not even like them like that.
2006-11-05 23:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by texaschick 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
nice friend. a best friend isn't supposed to like your boyfriends. it's just wrong. and this is the second boyfriend! and she tells you that she llikes them! did she go out with your ex when he dumped you? that would be the lowest. with friends like that, who needs enemies?
no i wouldn't tell him. maybe i would sort of feel out the situation, how he feels about her. and i would definatly not hang out with her when he's around. (or at all). if you have no control over how often they hang around together, i would watch them like a hawk.
2006-11-06 00:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by scintillating69 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have to tell him for many reasons.
1) you need to know if he can be drawn away from you by a friend or someone you know.
2) If he really cares about you and only you.
3) And if he does leave you for her you'll see what kind of friend you really have !!
2006-11-06 00:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by nyblkrose 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok...im curious why ur best friend would tell you that she likes ur guy?? I mean she can have a thing for him, but there is that line that "friends" dont cross. And she already seems to have crossed that line with your ex. I dont think u should be worried about ur guy..i think u should be worried about ur "friend"!! :(
2006-11-06 00:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should get a new best friend who doesn't like all of your boyfriends!!! No, don't tell him that she likes him, and tell her that is messed up! My best friend is drop dead gorgeous so I know how it is to worry abou that kind of thing, but she would never do anything like that!
2006-11-06 00:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by charlottesamanthamirandacarrie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep it a Secret! and lose that friend. She's not a friend at all if she likes your man.
2006-11-06 00:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell him, he'll probably do the same thing as the other guy dump you for her.
2006-11-06 00:02:21 · answer #10 · answered by prsweetheart34 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋