Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

2006-11-05 15:38:33 · 15 answers · asked by betsywilcox_40371 2 in Friends

Happily married for 8 years. Two beautiful daughters, one 5, and one 2. A wife I adore and a well-paying job that I enjoy as a head chef at a localy owned resturaunt. Everything came crashing down at once. My father died of cancer last June, 2 days before my birthday. 3 months later, my wife sends me to court for a divorce, I still can't figure out why she did. In the process of the divorce, I lose my job at the resturaunt, and now I'm giong from small job to job. Because I lost my job, she won custody rights to both of our daughters, and I get them 2 weekends a month. My (ex) wife has moved on, and is seeing another man, but I still love her, and I miss my daughters. Alls I have with me all the time is me golden retriever, Goldie, about the only thing I won from the divorce. I do pay child support, so I am always tight on money. Llook, I'm not the type to kill myself or anything crazy, but what do I have anymore?

2006-11-05 15:38:28 · 11 answers · asked by Don 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a sophomore in high school and there's this guy that's been acting kinda weird. A few months ago, he randomly started saying "hi" to me. A few weeks later he started trying to carry on longer conversations with me.

I'm a huge fan of the SF 49ers and a couple of weeks ago, he offered me a free ticket, saying he couldn't go. I offered to pay for it, but he said he didn't want me to. So, I took the ticket, though I soon had second-thoughts about it.

Last week, he said he had one extra ticket to the game next week and I could have it, if I were willing to go with him. I said I'd have to check and think about it. On the way home, I realized that I wasn't sure whether he'd just asked me out or was just being nice. He hadn't really made it clear, and we weren't really friends -- at least I didn't really think so.

I need to tell him soon and I'm trying to figure out if he wants to go out with me or if he's just being nice. What do you think? Help please...!!!

2006-11-05 15:37:49 · 12 answers · asked by Kelly S 1 in Singles & Dating

Is forever enough?

I know the answer to this btw.

2006-11-05 15:37:28 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering what guys look for in a girls personality and looks!

2006-11-05 15:36:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Read above....

I mean like if he is shy to be shy if he is outgoing to be outgoing. If he likes to talk a lot to talk a lot....

2006-11-05 15:35:26 · 20 answers · asked by The Overlord 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 15:35:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 15:34:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i rele like this girl (its driving me crazy i cant stop thinking about her) and i kinda think she likes me, were both shy any tips on how i can ask her out?/tell her how i feel?

2006-11-05 15:34:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 15:33:36 · 13 answers · asked by eric h 1 in Singles & Dating

Remerber high school "oh does he like me "? Well i liked this guy, saw him freshman year thought he was ugly and said i would never go out with him and now i like him! For about 2 yrs, Now we are seniors. I knew he liked me and I am shy and he is popular. Last year he was talking to this girl and I saw them, I thought they were going out and he looked over to see if I was looking and after that day he stoped talking to her. Last week I miss 2 days of school, I came back and he was flirting with her in front of me. He knew where i sit and l like him. It hurted, to like him that long and thinking he liked me. I feel stupid and clueless I want to get over him but i can't. I never talk to him but like any high school girl i fell hard 4 him! Now i go out of my way to not see them together and i don't know how to get over him. I know stupid, But for someone qiuet like me I put everything in those looks in the hall ways. Now I am a fool to his friends. I need a little comfort. Feel Ashamed!!

2006-11-05 15:33:29 · 4 answers · asked by Laura N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

-my bf and i have been together for 8 yrs
-he's my 2nd bf
-i still love him and im going to marry him
-i love him so much, but i got curious
-fyi: i had sex with only one guy
-he's always away for work, always busy
-i know he loves me
-i know he will be my one and only when we get married

2006-11-05 15:33:28 · 40 answers · asked by xoxoxocookiexoxoxo 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend is mad because i asked another friend out. My best friend is dating someone and I dont understand why he is mad? What should I do? I really like the person I asked out, but I don't want to ruin/destory my friend's freindship with me. Please I need some help!!!!!!

2006-11-05 15:32:53 · 1 answers · asked by Gordo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 15:32:51 · 5 answers · asked by pixie_stix34 2 in Marriage & Divorce

no onli is my boyfriend amost never around .. but one of my good friends is falling for me ! i feel like telling my bf (no names) but telling him how many guys are tryna get with me and telling him why should i be wasting my time trying to stay with him if so many other guys acctually WANT to be with me.

2006-11-05 15:32:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my husband has been talking to his ex-girlfriend from 14 years ago. He's has nothing to hide. I'm right there when he talks to her. They have no problems with each other and she seemed to be very nice. Until...........she is now bringing up the past about their relationship and how much she misses him. Should I be concerned. I know my husband will not leave. He has no feelings towards her whatsoever.

2006-11-05 15:32:14 · 19 answers · asked by Barb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have chosen Emerald green as my color, with silver accents. Since it's a wedding, there will also be lots of white.

Do you think I should pick a second color, like a yellow or a purple, or should I just stick with just the green? Any suggestions?

2006-11-05 15:32:01 · 14 answers · asked by Queen Queso 6 in Weddings

2006-11-05 15:31:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay im talking to 2 boys right now the 1st one i have been talking to sense last year so im like really in love with him but i start talking to this other guy a while ago and i can feel myself falling in love with himbut does this mean im falling out of love with the other guy???

2006-11-05 15:31:30 · 13 answers · asked by Shelby T 1 in Singles & Dating

does that seem needy or weird?

2006-11-05 15:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by Robert Z 1 in Singles & Dating

After being single for two years, and not even able to get a date, I am starting to become depressed, I would love to go out and able to be around testosterone, however I have a 5 year old daughter and I think when men hear that they run, It is not like I am asking you to pay child support I just want to go on a date, I am an attractive 21 year old, I am smart I have goals in life, I am almost finished with my BA, and about to start my masters, I just can't get a date for the life of me, what do I do?

2006-11-05 15:29:41 · 10 answers · asked by heynow 2 in Singles & Dating

Yea what the title says....

2006-11-05 15:29:20 · 13 answers · asked by The Overlord 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 15:28:11 · 7 answers · asked by BloodyCarrion 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 15:27:48 · 7 answers · asked by betsywilcox_40371 2 in Weddings

i met my sis and dad for the first time ever this time last year. over xmas dad and i had a massive fight, in brief im a f****d up 16 year old (17 now) and i screwed his life up.

now, he wont let me see my sis, and if i make any contact with her or him (i dont intend on talking to him), then hes going to get in contact with the police. ive sent bday n xmas prez, and nothing has happened.

any advice??

2006-11-05 15:27:10 · 4 answers · asked by *lil miss* 3 in Friends

There's this girl me and my best friend both like. She's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen and i'd want to be with her over anyone. She likes us both too, I dont know what to do. I normally don't get the prettiest girls and my friend does. The catch is he's already got a girlfriend and doesn't care. He's still competing with me for her. I dont know what to do. I need some help

2006-11-05 15:26:52 · 12 answers · asked by Bluedevilbadass 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had to choose between two girls on how they look who would you choose?
Girl #1: She is like 5'4, slim dark brown hair and green eyes
Girl#2: She is like 5'2, brown hair brown eyes and sort of, well bigger than girl#1(as in weight) By the way this won't change my decision i am just wondering what you guys think?

2006-11-05 15:26:02 · 5 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Singles & Dating

well I have liked this boy since the begining of the school year. and i had a b/f and we agreed if me and him split that we would go out. Well we did break up sadly and we never did i started going out with this other guy and then he got a g/f.now hes single. Well I've been with my b/f for like a month now. and all my b/f well all he wants to do is make out and crap. like i invited him to a family event and he said no b/c we couldn't hold hands and kiss. Well i wasn't sure if this other guy still liked me. and today I told him that i trusted him and he said i know thank you for being here for me your my best friend thats a girl and i was like I still like you and he said he didn't want to get between me and my current b/f and he would go out with me. is it wrong to like some one or tell some one you like them if you have a b/f? what should i do?? I NEED HELP!

2006-11-05 15:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by gingerg50 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother in law is always telling us we can't afford this or we don't need to buy that.Now she's told my wife she thinks I should get a vasectomy.

2006-11-05 15:25:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or the other kind

2006-11-05 15:24:45 · 13 answers · asked by Sweepy 3 in Singles & Dating