-my bf and i have been together for 8 yrs
-he's my 2nd bf
-i still love him and im going to marry him
-i love him so much, but i got curious
-fyi: i had sex with only one guy
-he's always away for work, always busy
-i know he loves me
-i know he will be my one and only when we get married
2006-11-05 15:33:28 · 40 answers · asked by xoxoxocookiexoxoxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-better to try now than later when im
married
-my bf knows that i want to try having sex with someone else and he said only if he;s there
2006-11-05 15:40:07 · update #1
wtf no if he found out he would cancel the wedding. if u don't really like him then don't marry him
2006-11-05 15:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by Heyhey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have to ask yourself is .... Would you like it if he had sex with someone other than you. And how would you feel about that. Would you feel that it was wrong ? Call me old fashioned, but if you love him enough to marry him , then why would you want sex with someone else. You just need to think things through , try to make some plans to spend some time togeather, tell him how you feel , tell him you need to spend time with him. If him being away all the time and him being busy all the time bothers you now, trust me marriage won't solve the problem. It might even make you feel trapped.
2006-11-05 15:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Bonnie L. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask a question you already know the answer too? It is NEVER OK to cheat on someone you made a commitment too! If you feel the need to experience more than what you have, let him go and quench your curiosities. If you are serious about being with him in a long term commitment like marriage, do just that. Stop and think how he would feel if he ever found out? You would probably lose him forever. How would you feel if he cheated on you? I can't see you cheering him on...yeah, go ahead. You would be furious. Don't Do It!
2006-11-05 15:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by TKinMI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the facts you laid down, it shows married is not the option, since there is no trust in you (better now then after married???), how come there is man in the world will allow the bride to be, having sex with other man in front of his own eyes? This is not love, but logic, love will act and think differently.
2006-11-05 19:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by he he he 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but you're an idiot. If you are curious about other men, don't get married. How would you feel to know your fiance cheated on you. If he's gone alot now and you want to cheat, what's going to stop you when you are lonely after your marriage. If you love this guy, do the right thing. You just need to decide what the right thing is.
2006-11-05 15:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by schoolot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether engaged or just dating, you are making a committment to that person and a part of that is to be faithful.
If you don't think you can be faithful, then stop seeing him and break off the engagement now because your behavior will only cause problems in the future.
If you really love him, you will be true to him. If not, you don't have any business marrying him.
2006-11-05 15:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by mslider2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't live with regrets or what if's. Have sex with another guy before marriage, if that's the itch you need to scratch, or don't do it if you think it might be damaging to your future marriage. If it's only a one night stand with a complete stranger it might have no future psychological bearing, either way the ball is in your court there. Personally dudes will have sex with any girl given the opportunity. So the fact that this one guy loves, cares, and wants to be with only you, might be incentive to save yourself for him. We all have to live with the choices we make - so choose wisely
2006-11-05 15:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by dluvshistory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you REALLY love him you're not going to have sex with another man. but it seems you already did it. even if it's only one guy, you still did it. it's not an excuse that he's always away for work and busy. he's doing it for your future right? if you can't stop being curious now, what makes you sure that you're not bound to do it again when you get maried and he's always away for work? of course it's not ok.
2006-11-05 15:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i sure as hell wouldn't marry someone who cheated on me right before we were to get married. you are no longer trust worthy.. you never will be trustworthy to this guy.. I hope he finds out before he marrys you..
how would you feel if he did this to you..?
Trust is one of the major parts of a married life and you just broke all the rules before you even got started..
2006-11-05 15:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he is ur fiancee u should only sleep with him. Because he finds out that u have or wouldn't to cheat on him. He won't be able to trust u, when he is away and that can cause extreme martial problems in the future.
2006-11-05 15:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by Alternative Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasizing approximately yet another guy in the time of intercourse, desirous to have intercourse with him and desirous to change in the time of a visit is committing the act of cheating. In a marriage you're committed to one individual. Fantasizing approximately and desirous to have intercourse with yet another guy is cheating on that have faith and dedication. in case you relatively enjoyed your husband then you certainly does no longer even provide the guy a 2nd theory. i do no longer see any info which you relatively love your husband. perhaps infatuated with and prefer him a lot, yet no longer love. comparable on his side. He shouldn't ought to make certain you with yet another female. you need to be sufficient for him. You 2 ought to get out of this way of existence in case you prefer to salvage your marriage.
2016-10-15 10:30:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋