Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

Some of the questions lately have been so depressing I had to add some humour

2006-11-01 08:12:28 · 25 answers · asked by The Guru 4 in Singles & Dating

im a college student lookin to rent two rooms in my three room apartment > how do i know if im renting those rooms to a suitable someone i can live with >> the last flatmate i had was really lazy and would never ever help clean the house or anything > i can get along with most people but i really want to find some good flatmates >> what can i do ?

2006-11-01 08:12:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-01 08:12:19 · 5 answers · asked by hhii j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I shared a beautiful love together but after a few months split because although we got along like a house on fire, when we didn't get along we just could not see eye-to-eye and things got nasty. 6 months after our split we are talking again and yes, once again feel in love with one another. He wants me back but I told him that I don't think it will work because we will end up having the same problems as before, that I am devastated and will always love him. Then he emails me back and says....

I guess I expected you to take longer to form a
negative decision, just to be sure your sure, but I
accept that you are

What does his response mean? Is he mad, hurt, angry? I don't understand it.

2006-11-01 08:12:13 · 10 answers · asked by applecheeks 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-01 08:11:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A friend wants to know your honest opinion on whether they are pretty or not- Would you lie if they weren't pretty?

2006-11-01 08:11:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been dating this guy from work,i like him alot and we get on great. He recently told me he loves me. Can he really love me after 4 weeks or is it too soon?It takes me time to fall in love so i havent said it back to him yet.

2006-11-01 08:11:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know how to tell my boyfriend i am sick, it's serious. and i am afraid of him takeing this too deep like being worried all the time, and not doing good in school because he is worried about me i don't know how to handle this my self?? all i know is that lately my mood has changed and we have been fighting a lot i don't want to leave him but would if be a good idea so he would do better off in his life with out someone like me stressing him out???

2006-11-01 08:10:22 · 16 answers · asked by *********** 4 in Singles & Dating

a) a always happy and loving familly
b) a loving family, but not so happy
c) a family full of hate and violence
d) nothing happens, very independent....ex. father, mother, daughter never talks about personal stuff, or wat happened that day
e) a broken family
f) familly is just unknown

2006-11-01 08:09:48 · 10 answers · asked by chrissy... 2 in Family

my friend (guy), told me he was going to break up with his gf of the last 7 months, they are my best friends and i would do anything for either of them, (in case u were wondering, i am a guy), he said he finds her annoying now, but she seems to be in love with him, and doesnt seem to know anything thats going on. this whole mess seems like a recipe for disaster for me, because when he finally breaks up with her, she is going to ask why i didnt tell her it was coming, ill lie and say he didnt but she'll never believe it. What do i do? How do i save both of these friendships?

2006-11-01 08:09:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

to stop give out your phone to men that they meet. Who there are not interest in, but think that he would be okay for you to date.

2006-11-01 08:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by foxy b 2 in Friends

2006-11-01 08:08:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy (not mentioning any names) but he has a girlfriend. i am really close friends with this guys girlfriend. they are forever nonstop fliritng, huggin, and kissin. when he is not around his gf he is always flirting and huggin on me. i don't really know if he is feeling me the way i am feelin him. i don't want anyone to know because my best friend likes him too. his girlfriend thinks that she can't trust us to be around each other (me and her boyfriend) but i just don't know how to get this guy to like me. i know it sounds like im back stabbing my best friend but i just can't help it he is so cute!?

2006-11-01 08:08:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-01 08:08:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I still have strong feelings for my ex.he has no experience with girls,I'm the first that liked him back.he's 22,I'm 24.we went out last winter break for a month.1 night we talked about kissing.so the next time we went out I was real nervous cuz I liked him so much.to summarize we went 2 fast(clothes on,no sex)got overwhelmed,said he didn't know what he was doing/his mind was racing a mile a minute/he was confused.I was beating myself up(mentally)during the car ride home.I leaned in 2 kiss him on the lips but he took it a step further(tounge) I cried n said I didn't wanna confuse him anymore.I called,he said 2 give him a couple days.he never returned my messages.In August I saw him at work w/his bro.told him I didn't hate him,he stared at me shocked n said he had 2 go. Read below 2 see what happened a week ago. I want to know if you think he might still have feelings 4 me and needs me 2 come n talk 2 him 2 give him confidence I still like him,or does it not mean much.thanks

2006-11-01 08:08:13 · 4 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a high sex drive and hubby has a low 1 the only prob is its v. frustrating can i do anything to increase his sex drive???

2006-11-01 08:07:51 · 11 answers · asked by shells 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems love making is hard because i am never in the mood...any advice? we have been married 10 months we are 21.. and both virgins.. when we got married..

2006-11-01 08:07:32 · 14 answers · asked by chosen_isaiah61 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a dear frind who has been my freind for the last 15 years, I have been seing bruises on her alot lately & she always blew it off as something else.....I went thru her phone & got the proof I needed, I talked to her boyfreinds mom & she had admitted to her that he has hit her.. She has 2 kids that I adore & her of course I love more than anything, I dont know what to do to help her, I just wrote her an e-mail & she is still deniying it.. Why wont she open up to me, she knows I will notjudge her ever, I am scared to death for her & her kids.. HELP how do I get her to see this is a dangerous situation to be in That could end up with her dead

2006-11-01 08:05:48 · 32 answers · asked by bite_me_harder_28 2 in Friends

he left me and is still saying he dont want to come home yet he says he dont want me to get with anyone else either

2006-11-01 08:05:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shes always in my bissnus

always trying to figure out my secretes

it is completely anoying

2006-11-01 08:05:01 · 5 answers · asked by sugar baby 2 in Family

2006-11-01 08:04:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah i know that being single is a way to know myself better & just enjoying & appreciating the single life in my mid 20's. been trying to tell myself 'good love will come my way'. So i comfort myself to have fun.
Drinking with friends & having a great time wishing the nites wouldnt end till we pass out, it seems like an endless cycle of fun. But in the end its all temporary. When everyone is occupied one day. & you end up being alone, thats when I finally realize the drinking, the lust & infactuation, the good-times in general to me is all just my way of escaping from being alone & i know its not healthy. Most of my friends & relatives are in a relationship so i usually find some things to do on my own. Some would call me to see how i am doing but that makes me pitty myself even more. What can i do to appreciate being single & prove it to everyone? Have you ever felt like this before? (Pls no immature answers.)

2006-11-01 08:03:46 · 7 answers · asked by flipnburger 2 in Singles & Dating

He keeps asking me about old boyfriends and stupid stuff like what was I like in collage. That was 19 years ago. I didn't even know him then. If I tell him anything he gets upset. Should your past be just yours or should I share every thing with him?

2006-11-01 08:03:28 · 35 answers · asked by irishlady 3 in Singles & Dating

When we first started dating, D.H. and I discussed our thoughts on marriage and weddings. Until I received the revelation that he was my husband I did not believe in marriage. Marriage, to me is a misconception. I did not want to be married to anyone. I wanted a commitment. My best friend at the time told me that I was crazy, “marriage is a commitment, Shani.” But I still had to beg to differ. It is sad to say that we live in a society where people can remember exactly how much they spent on their wedding dresses, what type of cake they ate, what their bridesmaids wore, but they can not tell you their wedding vows.
Marriage is about relationship. The key to making it work is communication. People grow and change everyday, even when they don’t see it, and if you are constantly working on your relationship, you will get lost and one of you will have grown in one direction and the other person in the other direction. Am I wrong?

2006-11-01 08:03:19 · 4 answers · asked by Shanigirl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my girl, for some strange reason, doesnt like skin to skin contact anymore when we get close. like, i'll try to put my hand down up her skirt and she'll keep moving it away from her crotch to a completely different area. it never used to be like this. i'll suggest sex, and it's pretty clear we both want it but she never goes through with it. she likes to dry hump instead. and then when she's all satisfied, she just leaves me hard, sometimes telling me i hafta go cuz her parents will be home soon.

i love to please her, but she's not letting me. i dont want to ask cuz i think id ruin any type of sex that we could possibly have for a while. we havent had sex in months. any ideas on why shes acting like this? am i the problem somehow?

2006-11-01 08:03:08 · 16 answers · asked by sh8dybrady120 2 in Singles & Dating

ive got cold and was cold in bed last night but my wife says i was hot in bed, was she having a laugh at my expense.

2006-11-01 08:02:46 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-01 08:02:21 · 24 answers · asked by long_hard_thick9 1 in Singles & Dating

..can u fall in love with someone u can't even stand....??

2006-11-01 08:02:08 · 11 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 7 months and we're really happy but i want to make sure we maintain good communication and that we don't "over do it" by suffocating each other, etc. what are some good tips on keeping relationships healthy?

2006-11-01 08:01:55 · 5 answers · asked by moooo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

its not really a big deal, i think its dumb but its nothing to be mad over, the only thing is he ordered it 2 months ago he says and he says "he called and ordered "every channel" the direct t.v. people just so happened to give him the playboy channel too. he did it without telling me, which makes it all the more sneakier....i checked today and we do not "get every channel" i think he is lying about that and just called and blatently ordered it.......i hate liers in a relationship......how can i find out if he lied about this or not??

2006-11-01 08:01:14 · 16 answers · asked by nikel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships