its not really a big deal, i think its dumb but its nothing to be mad over, the only thing is he ordered it 2 months ago he says and he says "he called and ordered "every channel" the direct t.v. people just so happened to give him the playboy channel too. he did it without telling me, which makes it all the more sneakier....i checked today and we do not "get every channel" i think he is lying about that and just called and blatently ordered it.......i hate liers in a relationship......how can i find out if he lied about this or not??
2006-11-01 08:01:14 · 16 answers · asked by nikel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its not the fact that we have the playboy channel, its just boobs anyway what do i care? im a pervert in ahalf so it doesnt matter, i just dont like the sneaking around and lying about it, i mean.....why lie about somthing soo stupid? im not even mad, i just want toknow i can trust him....
2006-11-01 08:11:29 · update #1
okay, so i just called the company and i asked if that really came as part of the package and they distinctly told me "no" it was ordered on our account seperatly. Plus i have the bill and it is a seperate charge........now that i HAVE caught him in a lie, i want to confront him any suggetions?
2006-11-01 08:22:07 · update #2
I do know where you are coming from,and i am not sure how long you have been with you`re fiancee.But having a sence of humour when you are dealing with men is some times best !I say 2 things ,one at least he is`nt doing anything with a another human behide you`re back and 2 it would be so more shocking if it was a channel for the opposite sex !
If it was me i would get him back in a wee matter ,but not going to far just see how he likes it ,take a real look at the next fit guy that walks pass both of you .When some hunk comes on telly just say "hes alright" It just seem strange to us woman because we are not in to porn in any way ,but if you accept it ,and be cool he will love you more !If you want ,ask him why he likes it so much and may do things in your`re relation ship that you haven`t yet explored !But to be honest in life if you are`nt meant to do something it makes it more daring and naughty ,once you accept it and may even say can i watch one with you ,it will be come boring to him and he will stop ,as it is`nt naughty behide you`re back stuff ,and if he does big deal ,as you can please him for real !!!
2006-11-01 08:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you may just be starting something that you should just let go. Ordering the Playboy channel is not a big deal. I mean come on how many times have you took a peek at some adult websites and not told him. As I tell my husband you can look as long as you come home to order. We enjoy watching Playboy sometimes together it can make things interesting. Give him a break he's a man if he wasn't wanting to check our some boobies then I would worry cause he is proberly not straight. Some things is not even worth a stupid fight
Good Luck
2006-11-01 08:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by MommaG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you don't actually have a problem with him getting the Playboy channel but that it upset you that he lied about it. Let him know that he does not need to lie about it and that he can tell you honestly. If you are able to have him understand the difference between the 2 and why you were upset, maybe he will be more open about it the next time, if he decides to order another channel. Good luck!!!!
2006-11-01 08:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your cable company and see if Playboy is offered as part of a package and see if you actually pay for that package. I always thought Playboy was a separate pay channel and that it was not included in any bundles. Just call the cable company. They can tell you what he did.
2006-11-01 08:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to catch a sneak you must think like him, first call company and say your his wife if you know his personal info this is not hard to pass yourself off as his wife. but if you think he's lying about his do you question the man in other things if so get out because a good relationship is based on open communication and honesty and trust. sounds like you don't have this and its time to either sit and talk or walk.
2006-11-01 08:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him you know you don't get "every" channel, and tell him that this is about honesty, and you expect it from him. Ask him how you are supposed to trust him in the big stuff, if he can't come clean about the little stuff. Also let him know that if he'll come clean now, you can forgive him and put it behind ya'll.
2006-11-01 08:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by kookndene 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he ordered it, but maybe he was afraid of how you would react, so thats the reason he tried to cover it up. I don't like liars either...so you should talk to him about it, explain to him, you don't care if he wants to look at other women's boobs, you just don't want him to lie about it to you.
2006-11-01 08:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Gaia Weeps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably embarrassed that you caught him during "special time". If it really surprises you that much, maybe you should reconsider marrying him. You obviously don't know him as well as you think you do...my fiancee knows I'm a pervert and I don't try to hide it from her!
2006-11-01 08:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by ajax138 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,,, well either you do not like this guy to begin with, or you are hunting a reason to break up with him, sounds like to me..
Playboy channel or not,,,,,
good luck
2006-11-01 08:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a big deal since it appears he lied. Call Direct TV and cancel it. if he lied about this what else is he lying about?
2006-11-01 08:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jim from the Midwest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋