Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

I saw him one day put one of my ebay bought clowns in hishooded sweatshirt and I asked him to take it out and he called me a "ho" and walked out. I approached my daughter but when I tell her what happened she says I only say it was him because he is black. She got his name tatooed above her butt and has cornrows now and I don't know how to get her to tell him to stop robbing my house I don't want him in my house but she lets him in when I'm not home. I think they might be having sex in my house thats why she lets him in, why does she call me racist when my 2 year old is half black, I don't understand. How can I be racist when my son is half black? Maybe he splits what they steal? I keep finding burnt tinfoil wrapping around like it was burned with a lighter. Is that something?

What should I do?

2006-11-01 08:37:33 · 27 answers · asked by Another Chubby Feminist 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well there's this guy that lives across my street and he's like 30 and lives with his dad and grandma. and he alwasys yells and curses.The cops come a lot. And today my dad was rakeing leaves and the person across the street had a leave blower and he blew leaves onto my lawn and he was just starring at my dad and my dad saw him laughing at him. and then they were fighting for about 10 minutes and then an hour later he calls the cops on my dad. what should I do!!!!!!??????

2006-11-01 08:35:51 · 13 answers · asked by divachick95 2 in Family

2006-11-01 08:35:43 · 30 answers · asked by itsyouandmebb 2 in Singles & Dating

also she sometimes makes plans with me but her family keeps holding her up what should i do about that, its hard to get mad at her but at the same time its her car.

2006-11-01 08:35:38 · 8 answers · asked by roadburner2616 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hear all these guys on heresay if there dude is masterbateing that she needs to do better in bed!!!! I dont think so guys! It is a well known fact that men even married masterbate and yes they get addicted to it over a woman! If they do it alot the vagina doesnt have the same pressure they apply themselves so come on woman tell the guys u wont listen to them !

2006-11-01 08:35:36 · 10 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i told my dad that i was bi and he flipped out. he sid he wanted nothing to do with me and that he hated me WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-01 08:34:48 · 9 answers · asked by bubbles 1 in Friends

2006-11-01 08:34:38 · 16 answers · asked by i luv God 1 in Singles & Dating

theres a little boy on my street who is a bad seed... he's 11 in the 4th grade.. and he talks soooo much trash, its not even funny, and he smokes... a lil black kid acting like he's in the streets... no were in the suburbs. He has a small cute little white poodle... but he treats it very bad, which saddens me cause i cant do nothing about it ( i called animal control thing 3 times) and one day some trashy girl dared him to kick the dog in the face. You should of seen this.. he called his dog name... and the dog came over to him wagging his tail all happy ...then out of know where, the boy kicks his dog in the face real hard... then in his private part.. i have never heard anyone or anything in that much pain. I bawled out crying... i called animal thing but they didnt do nothing. Do you think this boy will turn out to be a serial killer or something... he has no sympathy for what he has done.

2006-11-01 08:34:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i lost my dad only a year ago (my grandma's son!) we were absolutly devastated. i have not recovered from the trauma yet, my grandmother is 86 and she raised me with my father. i love her to death. she is stubborn sometimes and hard to deal with but just thinking of her dying, is killing me! that feeling i had when i got to my fathers hospitol room 2 minuets after he passed away i fell to the ground, screaming and crying histericaly. i am getting more and more dpressed because my only parent left is leaving me soon- how in the world do you prepare yourself or get rid of all the guilt of things that i have done that i cant take back. i dont know how to deal with this pain of the loss of my father and soon my g-ma. she did get to meet her 4 great-grandboys. my father only met 3 of his grandboys and my last baby i named after him as he was concieved after his death. i just need some words of inspiration...thank you so much!!!

2006-11-01 08:33:19 · 6 answers · asked by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3 in Family

im 15 years old and i have a thing for this girl. Ive known her for a while and we were pretty good friends. Yet she has changed from a sweet little girl to a girl who just gets high and drunk and than sucks random kids off. The weird thing is she hadnt even kissed a guy like 4 months ago. I know its not like her but she started hanging with a pot head crowd. I have talked to her about it one on one and she gets upset with her self and cries when i do. But she goes back on doing everything within a day. Its not that she is a crack whore but she is easily influenced by the cool kids around her. i know i love her but i hate what shes become what should i do?

2006-11-01 08:33:17 · 5 answers · asked by keepitfresh1313 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i usually every now and then will have a dream that has a baby girl in it that has brown hair and hazel green eyes she is my kid and i thought she was sooo cute, she was close to me in my dream and i do not have any kids yet. i am 22 years old and i have no kids but have always wondered what our kid would look like , has anyone experianced this or what?? i dont know what this is trying to tell me,,,,,,any explanations??

2006-11-01 08:32:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do parents flip out when you tell them that you are gay? when i told my dad he said that he wanted nothign to do with. why is that??????????

2006-11-01 08:31:56 · 10 answers · asked by bubbles 1 in Family

divorce is pending can this person stop the divorce proceedings in pennsylvania and file a new divorce in maryland ( this person is in in the military)

2006-11-01 08:31:17 · 7 answers · asked by junetwin2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he's adding these ugly girls to his profile and im getting jealous and i dont know why. he was the first guy and i think he's doing it to make me jealous. he wont add me as a buddy but he looks at my profile alot

2006-11-01 08:30:38 · 2 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

that if you can open a starburst in your mouth your a good kisser?

2006-11-01 08:30:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not sure I can do this. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 and a half years. We started when he was 18 and I was 20. We work well together,but lately he's not happy. He's one of those who want fireworks and adventure. A while ago he developed a crush and almost broke up with me. Not because of her, but because he wanted to be free. After we talked about it he told me that he'd almost made a big mistake and that he didn't deserve me. It might be true. At a party on the weekend he spent the night with his arms around this girl and then got offended that I was jealous. He said that it meant I couldn't trust him. I do phsycially, but emotionally it feels like he's cheated on me. He said he'd try to get over her. It's so hard to get him to talk with me. I know things aren't good right now and he said that he's still torn. And I can't take that anymore. I think I deserve someone who loves me. How can I break up with him? I still love him, but sometimes that's not enough

2006-11-01 08:29:28 · 18 answers · asked by Jacqui 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 08:29:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been living in the same house in 'separation' for over 2 years. Health and money issues have kept us from fixing our house and selling it and moving on. It is no longer a healthy environment for my kids or myself and I need to find the best way to move out without completely distrupting their lives. We can't afford for one of us to live in the house and the other in an apartment. We have medical bills and a child in college, plus I've just started back to work after 11 years. I fear if I don't get out, I never will and what kind of environment is that for my children? Anyone have any suggestions besides to just leave? It's not that simple. I'm trying to get my house in order to put on the market, but that's costly, too. I would like to ask him to leave.

2006-11-01 08:29:10 · 4 answers · asked by J N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

which one sounds better??

"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger"

"That which does not kill you makes you stronger"

"What doesnt kill me makes me stronger"

or "That which does not kill me will make me stronger"


or maybe any other with these words??
It's for a tattoo!! ^_^ thanx!!

2006-11-01 08:29:03 · 7 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Friends

They say once a girl is hurt emotionally by men she will grow up to abuse men. I've been hurt by men and I'm think I'm on the verge of becoming bad.

2006-11-01 08:29:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, I think to meet the right person you need to know about them. I love having fun and goofing off and don't like a girl that is too serious. Can I get some feedback on these things?
1) I feel like all women deserve to have, the door opened, the chair pulled out, the offer to have the meal paid for....and other similar things....is this too old fashioned?
2) I think it is okay to compliment a girl on her body and her looks and also (after dating a while) tell a joke that is a compliment about thier nice features (no matter what they are) as long as she is comfortable with that. Is that wrong?
4) I enjoy dancing with a girl at a club and only want to date a girl that can let loose and shake it a little. Would you say that is fair?
5)Even though I am just 18, but my pay, my car, and clothes are really nice (computer job), but I don't want her to brag about them or like me just for those things. Is that fair of me?

So I'd love to know if there is any girl out there like me

2006-11-01 08:28:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK, I think to meet the right person you need to know about them. I love having fun and goofing off and don't like a girl that is too serious. Can I get some feedback on these things?
1) I feel like all women deserve to have, the door opened, the chair pulled out, the offer to have the meal paid for....and other similar things....is this too old fashioned?
2) I think it is okay to compliment a girl on her body and her looks and also (after dating a while) tell a joke that is a compliment about thier nice features (no matter what they are) as long as she is comfortable with that. Is that wrong?
4) I enjoy dancing with a girl at a club and only want to date a girl that can let loose and shake it a little. Would you say that is fair?
5)Even though I am just 18, but my pay, my car, and clothes are really nice (computer job), but I don't want her to brag about them or like me just for those things. Is that fair of me?

So I'd love to know if there is any girl out there like me

2006-11-01 08:28:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a guy is soft and sensual with you,
Or when a guy is rough and pulls your hair and slaps you on the a$s?

2006-11-01 08:27:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 8 1/2 yrs and we have two kids. I am 3 yrs older than him and I feel that now that I am in myu 30's we are wanting different things- I get irritated with him. I mean everything he does irritates me, he is needy when it comes to people doing things for him(like me) he pays no attention to me and all he does is complain. I mean he is a big time whiner -I honestly do not like to be around him . Is is me or should I honestly consider not being with him

2006-11-01 08:27:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im 15 years old and i have a thing for this girl. Ive known her for a while and we were pretty good friends. Yet she has changed from a sweet little girl to a girl who just gets high and drunk and than sucks random kids off. The weird thing is she hadnt even kissed a guy like 4 months ago. I know its not like her but she started hanging with a pot head crowd. i know i love her but i hate what shes become what should i do?

2006-11-01 08:26:28 · 13 answers · asked by keepitfresh1313 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well my guy friend want me to go over his house tonight(sneek out of mine to go to his place) and we're just friends should i do it or not

2006-11-01 08:26:12 · 24 answers · asked by clair 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with a classmate of mine, am not sure if he knows it or not. But regardless shld i tell him or let it go. I think about him everyday and nite, i cry knowing that i dont have him. I've never asked out a guy in my entire life, now that am 23, am more confused about it. I'm used to guys asking me out and making the first moves. This time around, i've waited for couple of months and he hasn't made the moves yet. I'm thinking maybe he doesn't want me. We talk occassionally, but it makes me uncomfortable.

2006-11-01 08:25:58 · 5 answers · asked by Monica 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife really enjoys back rubs and sometimes right before sex.
They get pretty intense, as she likes, hard rubbing, light - to moderate scratching and bites. Yes, bites on the back of her neck, lightly, but when I move down to her back, I can leave teeth marks and she really likes it, she gets very excited. Just wondering if any other women also enjoy this?

2006-11-01 08:25:54 · 10 answers · asked by jairman2004 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 08:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Patrick P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont feel comfortable having my daughter around my brother-in-law. When my husband & I want to go out, he usually suggests that we have his brother watch her & I just dont feel right about it, I dont know why but I get very nervous & feel terrified that he might do something inappropriate. I have yet to give my husband the real reason why I dont want her there. My daughter is 4, & my brother in law is a single man; 31 yrs old. I dont feel this way about any other man in her life. What should I do about this?

2006-11-01 08:25:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce