OK, I think to meet the right person you need to know about them. I love having fun and goofing off and don't like a girl that is too serious. Can I get some feedback on these things?
1) I feel like all women deserve to have, the door opened, the chair pulled out, the offer to have the meal paid for....and other similar things....is this too old fashioned?
2) I think it is okay to compliment a girl on her body and her looks and also (after dating a while) tell a joke that is a compliment about thier nice features (no matter what they are) as long as she is comfortable with that. Is that wrong?
4) I enjoy dancing with a girl at a club and only want to date a girl that can let loose and shake it a little. Would you say that is fair?
5)Even though I am just 18, but my pay, my car, and clothes are really nice (computer job), but I don't want her to brag about them or like me just for those things. Is that fair of me?
So I'd love to know if there is any girl out there like me
2006-11-01 08:28:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds all good.
2006-11-01 08:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) No, it's not too old-fashioned but some girls are uncomfortable with it. Don't let that bother you.
2) No, it's not wrong but if she's uncomfortable with her body you have to factor that in and be careful with the words you choose.
4) No, it's not unfair. You are attracted to that and there is nothing wrong with it, it shouldn't hurt anyone.
5) Yes it's fair, you don't want someone to use you or go out with you for status purposes. If you don't make an issue of the subjects, she shouldn't, unless that's the type of girl your attracted to and don't realize the association.
You're only 18 sweetie. Keep it real as it sounds you are. There's lots of girls out there for you, you've got plenty of time.
2006-11-01 16:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) I think that is great that there are guys out there like you! that is soo great that you believe that! Iwish I could find a guys like that, but I am pretty young. lol
2) I think any girl likes a guy with a sense of humor! That is also fine to compliment a girl on her looks.
3) you have no three lol
4) I would say that that is fair.
5) That is fair of you, but you have to let her brag about you just a tad lol
That is just my opinion.
2006-11-01 16:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are most girl's dream guy. A girl would love to have a guy like you. You're perfect to most girls. Not my type, but any girl I know will most likely love to be on your arm. And if a girl does brag, that's what girls do. It's our nature. If you had a girl who did something great, you might brag a little. If you're scared of a girl to be using you for nice things, just make sure she has a job and doesn't depend on you to get her everything. If she buys you cute gifts or something you like, that's your girl.
There's somebody for everyone so just keep looking. Trust me, if you look as good as you sound, you are certainly a catch.
2006-11-01 16:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 no' and 2 yes's. That is so sweet! (#1) That's always good (#2) That's definetly fair and reasonably hot (#4?) Girls shouldn't ever brag about a guy's job or anything that would make him uncomfortable (#5?)
Hope This Helped!!!
2006-11-01 16:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Best Kept Secret/Biggest Mistake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fair enough, but from a girl's standpoint it is kind of awkward to constantly be complimented. Girls like to feel loved-not obsessed over. There's a fine line between sweet and creepy there.
2006-11-01 16:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi i think its 1) no its not old fashion 2)nope 4) yeah its fair 5) yes its fair
you know i like a guys that can let lose 2 lol
2006-11-01 16:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You write all the nice things. Truthfully, most of this generation learned their manners and ettiquette from MTV. It might be hard to find a girl that will respect #5. Good luck in your hunt.
2006-11-01 16:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by adgmonkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't brag about your pay or your car. Dont be too flashy. The girls that fall for you even though they think you're broke, add your ideals and go for it.
And no you are not wrong in your ideals. Thats what my bf likes about me and I like about him. Keep the respect no matter what though.
2006-11-01 16:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. it's nice
2. no, complimentng her body is ungentlemanly. You can say her blouse makes her eyes look pretty. Don't make any jokes about looks.
3. there was no #3
4. I would say if dancing is what you enjoy, your potential partner should enjoy it as well.
5. It's fair to keep quiet about your finances.
2006-11-01 16:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think ur really sweet and any girl would be lucky to have u the thinkgs u mentioned is what i like to have done for me so i hope u find someone like u and that ur very happy with them and im sure u will best of luck sweetie!!!!
2006-11-01 16:50:09 · answer #11 · answered by UR COUNTRY BEAUTY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋