im 15 years old and i have a thing for this girl. Ive known her for a while and we were pretty good friends. Yet she has changed from a sweet little girl to a girl who just gets high and drunk and than sucks random kids off. The weird thing is she hadnt even kissed a guy like 4 months ago. I know its not like her but she started hanging with a pot head crowd. I have talked to her about it one on one and she gets upset with her self and cries when i do. But she goes back on doing everything within a day. Its not that she is a crack whore but she is easily influenced by the cool kids around her. i know i love her but i hate what shes become what should i do?
2006-11-01 08:33:17 · 5 answers · asked by keepitfresh1313 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She must want a new start in a crazy life. But, friends can be friends. Lovers can be lovers. Just stay yourself though.
2006-11-01 08:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really have to tell her how you feel about the getting high and drunk thing especially if u dont do it. how old is she anyway. if she's older (close to 18 or over) it may be hard for you to convince her. also it is easy sometimes to try and fit in with the cool crowd but if you really show her your feelings towards that and the drinking and getting high thing she should understand if not it may be time to look elsewhere you're only 15 so you have plenty of time to find a real serious girlfriend. i'm 27 and my gf is 24 and we have different styles (she likes to go to nightclubs, i put those days behind me) but at the same time we love each other so i say really talk to her about the whole thing and she how she reacts. GOOD LUCK. AND LET ME KNOW HOW IT TURNS OUT.
2006-11-01 08:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by roadburner2616 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i am a 15 yr old girl myself and she sounds like she is a good person deep down but she could've had a fight with a loved one, etc and they got her while she was vunerable ya know? or she just feels as if she needs to fit in but she was liked better when she was being herself. she might feel when you talk to her about it that you are right ( which you are right) and after she feels like she can't go back now it's too late, when it isn't too late she can still go back to what she was and what she really is. you should be there to support her and get her through this. maybe tell a counsler or a loved one or try talking to her again and again until she realizes what she is doing is wrong and she can go back to her old self , her real self. hope this helped!!! i' ve had to deal with this type of thing before... good luck!
2006-11-01 08:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to her parents. It's not that you are telling on her you are just concerned. If she gets upset with her tell her you care for her and you are concerned about her. If you just sit back she might just get worse maybe her parents can help before it gets to that point. good luck
2006-11-01 08:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No advice. Life is like that. Go through it and come out a better person with more insight into life. Its more than she will get from it.
2006-11-01 08:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jason M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋