OK, I think to meet the right person you need to know about them. I love having fun and goofing off and don't like a girl that is too serious. Can I get some feedback on these things?
1) I feel like all women deserve to have, the door opened, the chair pulled out, the offer to have the meal paid for....and other similar things....is this too old fashioned?
2) I think it is okay to compliment a girl on her body and her looks and also (after dating a while) tell a joke that is a compliment about thier nice features (no matter what they are) as long as she is comfortable with that. Is that wrong?
4) I enjoy dancing with a girl at a club and only want to date a girl that can let loose and shake it a little. Would you say that is fair?
5)Even though I am just 18, but my pay, my car, and clothes are really nice (computer job), but I don't want her to brag about them or like me just for those things. Is that fair of me?
So I'd love to know if there is any girl out there like me
2006-11-01 08:28:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They all sound fine to me. Please remember that when you find the right girl, everything you like will work okay for her too. You shouldn't have to change who you are or how you like to do things to make someone else happy. Be yourself and keep looking until you find the girl who fits.
2006-11-01 08:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) i agree that woman should be treated respectfully by men. I don't think it's old fashioned to open a door, pull out a chair, etc for a woman. But some woman think that that shows that they are dependent. I don't think that shows dependency just to let someone be nice to you.
2) i think compliments are fine but some girls have a problem when only certain parts of their body are complimented. Try complimenting what is on the inside first, rather than just the features we physically see.
3 or your 4)I think wanting to date someone that enjoys dancing is fine. If you're able to be yourself and "let loose" in public then you should wanna be with someone similar. If you are with some tightly wound chick, you won't have any fun and neither will she.
5)why would the girl feel the need to brag about what YOU have? I wouldn't want my bf to brag about what i got. It's fine to have nice things and be modest. Obviously if the girl brags so much about what material things you have, and you don't like that trait in people, then she isn't the girl for you anyway.
2006-11-01 16:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Brio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fine to me...somewhere out there is the right girl for you. You may not find her for awhile, but she's there. Don't settle for less than what you deserve or want, and don't change for anyone. You sound like a gentlemen, and that is very rare these days. Stick with what you believe, and you'll find your girl.
2006-11-01 16:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by KitKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there isn't a yes or no answer. You are who you are and the right girl will appreciate that. There are plenty of girls out there that are like you. You just have to be patient and wait for the right one. I personally think that all of what you said is way cool. Their should be more guys like you out there. I hope you find her!
2006-11-01 16:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by daniella26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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yes to all, keep looking you will find someone, and i want to congratulate whoever is responsible for raising you, you obviously learned very well. Are you sure you are only 18. God bless and good luck on your search. The key is if you want a girl who does not want you for what you have as far as material, don't let her know upfront. Until you find out where her priorities are at.
2006-11-01 16:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. YOU ARE NOT TOO OLD FASHIONED - I LOVE THAT
2. YOU ARE NOT WRONG - COMPLIMENTS ARE ALWAYS GOOD
3. SURE IT'S FAIR YOU WANT A GIRL TO ENJOY THE SAME THINGS AS YOU SO YOU CAN BOTH HAVE FUN TOGETHER.
4. YES IT'S FAIR. YOU WANT SOMEONE TO LIKE YOU NOT YOUR STUFF.
GOOD LUCK ON FINDING A GOOD LADY
2006-11-01 16:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you seem like really nice and mature guy. God will bless you with a very good girl, and yes, there are girls like you. just keep going, you are only 18
2006-11-01 16:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by snowdrop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very nice to know that there are still men out there who respect themselves and women. keep searching, you will find the right one for you. just remember that sometimes it is important to compromise a little.
2006-11-01 16:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by racer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is...trick is knowing its her.
2006-11-01 16:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by Gaia Weeps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no clue what your talking about so no i am not like you!
2006-11-01 16:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋