Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

that she will go and stay with her father or her sister if i was to move to a different area. i felt like that was a threat. she is only 14 and im still her mother. i dont know if she was joking or what. but i told her if she wants to do that then why wait go and do it now. i feel im the adult and if i decide to move to a better area its not up to her. so was i wrong for reacting that way. now she is in her room with a little attitude.

2006-11-01 09:19:00 · 19 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

Is chatting over net an incomplete means of communication?
I am in contact with this guy since 8 months and he seemes to be a decent one.Never talks crap.Initially he showed a lot of interest in me and wanted to know the in and out of me. He has talked to me about his plans for marriage as well,a lot of times. I feel linked with him in a strange, unexplained way.He knows about this, has asked me to take it lightly and still wants to be in touch. I am zapped. Don't know whether to stay in touch with him or not. I don't want him to think that I am after him and/or that I am available. Is there something that I am missing out on , that you guys can figure out from
the description I've just given? What do I do?

2006-11-01 09:18:17 · 6 answers · asked by niki 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 09:17:47 · 9 answers · asked by angelic_234 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend wants me to tell her what I think about her, and she wants me to completely be honest about everything, good or bad. I am afraid it might ruin our relationship. She demands to know the truth, and it is one of the "bad" thing about her, too demanding, I may add. I am putting our relationship on the line here, and I need help on how to handle it and what to say or how to say...anything. Shite ! I may have to lie, but I don't want to. Something is just better not to know ???? Should I just let her know what I really see in her, honestly?

2006-11-01 09:17:38 · 4 answers · asked by dn.dan_6575 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 09:17:31 · 14 answers · asked by greygirl06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This took place in Montana and I need a copy of it because I am worried about my children in his care.

2006-11-01 09:17:30 · 6 answers · asked by DandCMom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

"Love means never having to say you're sorry " do you guys agree with this quote? why or why not. The angels have surrounded me with beautiful pedals

2006-11-01 09:17:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 09:16:58 · 37 answers · asked by vegetable soup 5 in Weddings

2006-11-01 09:16:42 · 9 answers · asked by bebo 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is trying to set me up with my other friend who id just met like 2 months ago. I really do like him, but choose not to annoy him with it since he is already surrounded by girls(and he hates the attention) and because he does have a girlfriend. I talk with him a lot and stuff because i actually get along with him better then my best friend of 4 years. How should i stop her? Her first step is was "love" letter that i supposedly wrote. he knew instantly that it wasnt me because, he knows that i wouldnt do something like that.
HOw can i get her to stop this before i end up getting hurt?

2006-11-01 09:16:18 · 16 answers · asked by ╣♥╠ 6 in Friends

M wife is pregnant. I don't ask for much but to keep a clean house since I work. Most of the time she doesn't clean, but always goes over to her moms house to help her clean. So, what the hell is the deal?

2006-11-01 09:15:55 · 4 answers · asked by Sleazy P. Martini 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Girlfriend of over a year just told me we needed a break. I was caught in a small lie that escalated because I was trying to avoid a fight. She told me that she could not trust me anymore and that a break was needed. The thing that hurts the worst is that she is also my best friend. We were friends before we started dating and now not only am I losing a girlfriend but my best friend also. Is there anyway to salvage this relationship? What can I do to show her I am trustworthy and regain the trust that she has lost. I do love this girl very much and need advice on how to handle this. We have been speaking but the conversations are not long and usually suck in general. Do I act like nothing is bothering me or do I keep trying to talk it out with her? How long is a good break? A week, two , a month? I have not had to deal with this kind of problem and any info would be appreciated.

2006-11-01 09:15:22 · 15 answers · asked by Mike L 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my BFF is going out.I'm happy but the boy she is going out with is not that great.I'm afraid that if I say something that she will get mad at me.How do I get them to break up??

2006-11-01 09:15:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is a drunk and is verbally abusive< I know that I must leave for my and my son's safety. The problem is that I have no place to go for a long time, I know that I should get a place of my own, but how can I make him leave the house that belongs to both of us. My son is from a previous marriage. There is too much involved to speak of. Bottom line...How do I get him out of the house till I can sell the house and finalise the divorce?

2006-11-01 09:15:03 · 9 answers · asked by tdybear 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for 6 months now and i really enjoy her company, My family tells me its very wrong because i am way too old for her.

What do you think?

2006-11-01 09:13:38 · 25 answers · asked by P a t o 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 09:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by Sam C 1 in Singles & Dating

i went out with this guy on IM and i finly met him and his ugly sould i dump him?

2006-11-01 09:11:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15 years old and i have a thing for this girl. Ive known her for a while and we were pretty good friends. We would talk on the phone and chill at each others houses alot. Yet she has changed from a sweet little girl to a girl who just gets high and drunk and than sucks random kids off. The weird thing is she hadnt even kissed a guy 4 months ago. I know its not like her but she started hanging with a pot head crowd. Smoking weed is not a huge deal to me but i know its not her at all. I have talked to her about it one-on-one and she gets upset with her self and cries when i do. But she goes back on doing everything within a day. Its not that she is a crack whore but she is easily influenced by the "cool kids" around her. She doesnt have any family trouble and her parents care about her but are not overly strict. i know i love her but i hate what shes become what should i do? what will it take to get her to wake up from whoever she is becoming?

2006-11-01 09:11:20 · 7 answers · asked by theacademy123 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, how often?

2006-11-01 09:11:10 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-01 09:10:38 · 23 answers · asked by Lady Singletary 2 in Singles & Dating

we always hear guys asking girls what THEY look for in guys...truth of the matter is, woman are the most picky finicky and most confusing people on this planet! I MYSELF being a woman, can admit to that! haha. but what i wana know is what men really look for in woman...whether it be for relationship monogomous, just dating, or even casual screwing! tell all..tell what you like or dislike or hate or love in girls. what turns you on most, what turns you off about girls' habits....tell all seriously..itll help both of us!

2006-11-01 09:10:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is kind of a followup from my other questions...

2006-11-01 09:09:42 · 13 answers · asked by Dnndsnddbusdbdbdb 2 in Singles & Dating

My one month son's father signed a declaration of paternity in the hospital when he was born. We live in different houses and the child resides ONLY with me. I have been trying to work things out with the father but I can no longer tolerate his emotional abuse. He had a huge anger episode last night over the phone and I have refused his phone calls. Now he is sending me messages telling me he is going to call the cops on me for "refusing" to let him see his son..and that I am "abducting" his child!! I am scared and unsure what he means. I do not want him in the house..it is just me, my mother, my daughter, and my son. I am alarmed he is going to do something drastic. I have been toying with calling the cops all day but am afraid to piss him off further..any advice would be most appreciated..especially in terms of him telling me he has half the custody! We NEVER agreed on any form of him having custody at all. Please help..thanks.

2006-11-01 09:09:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have dirty blonde hair. What I am wondering, is: DO you think I look better with my natural curly hair, or flat ironed straight hair? http://gerardarthurway.myphotoalbum.com Thanks.
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ALSO:
Overall, do you find yourself more attracted to girls with straight or curly hair?

P.S.-Please don't call me ugly, I've heard it enough.

2006-11-01 09:08:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents were married for 17 years. All those years my mom cheated on my dad with many different men and women. Finally about 9 years ago my parents divorced my mom leaving my dad for a women. My mom abused me for all of my childhood, and once my parents divorce and she got with her girlfriend, her gf did it even worse to me. She broke my jaw with bat and a whole bunch of other things. That stuff never really mattered to me because i wanted to protect my sisters. But now i have moved out with my dad, and i can no longer protect them. Chris {gf} never touched my sisters when i was there, but im scared since im not, she will. My sisters come over all the time with bruises and such but i cant do anything because are scared to talk. should i confront her? but i dont want to get my sisters in more trouble. What should i do? Btw my mom and her gf are pathological liers.

2006-11-01 09:08:08 · 18 answers · asked by raelynn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

of cheating on my husband? i've never acted on any of these thoughts, well, since i've been married. i have cheated on boyfriends in the past. but, seriously. why can't i quit plotting, or whatever?

2006-11-01 09:06:38 · 24 answers · asked by practicalwizard 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-01 09:05:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I tell if my guy is cheating on me because I have a feeling he is but I can't really tell.

2006-11-01 09:05:23 · 23 answers · asked by Jennifer N 1 in Singles & Dating

people that claim that they love fall by the way side when the situation demands that they stand by you.What makes them be a mere spectator?isn't it their business?how they can be so cold-blooded?so indifferent?

how can these people still think of connecting with you on a different plane?how can there be something when they weren't there when you needed them?

when you are being harshly treated by your employer you find that your lover does nothing to express his concerns but still shows up to extract what was due to him....

when your colleagues are treating you like a piece of meat to be pounced upon..your lover looks on....does this person really like you?makes me lose my faith in love

when life seems difficult for you,your lover looks on....worse laughs at your condition....still professes that he loves .....

what is love? to love and be loved unconditionally.....why is it so difficult to find true love?aren't animals better than human beings?

2006-11-01 09:05:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why or why not?

2006-11-01 09:03:27 · 14 answers · asked by truthyness 7 in Marriage & Divorce