Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

I am a 13 year old boy, and don't get me wrong I'm not one of those teens who is obsessed with girls and goes out with them for popularity.

I really like this girl and she knows it, and she really likes me. Everyone in school knows it, and we are kind of going out but not really. We have liked each other since April of last year and we talk about anything we are feeling. I know she wouldn't feel awkward if I made a move, but I don't know what to do, how to do it, when to do it.

My twin brother is always nagging us to hug and go out and has been from day 1. I waited to see if she was right for me, i didn't go out right away. I don't believe that just because two people like each other that they should go out.

But, I don't know when to do something with her or what to do. I'm not talking sick-like, I mean hand holding or hugging or something. Any Advice?

We are together a lot and My twin is always there***

2006-11-01 09:59:44 · 11 answers · asked by kire8650 2 in Singles & Dating

' I like you I dont love you'?

2006-11-01 09:59:26 · 21 answers · asked by Queenbee 1 in Singles & Dating

heres what happened:

this guy found out i liked him somehow and now he's acting weirder than usauall like today when everyone was expose to be sitting against the bleachers he was standing over me and i was all like get off he he didn't move so i pushed him off and he was like i thought you liked me and i was like ummm maybe.......then after gym in the cafiteria i was sitting next to his cousin (which has a major crush on me)and he walks over to me and is like cann i sit there so i like scoot back one and the he turns around in his chair and starts talking to me and then i swear i saw him blow a kiss at me but without the blowing part.then my bus was called and he was all like bye taylor and i didn't answer then he said bye again and i was like bye then he was like taylor i sdaid bye and i turned around and was like i said bye then he waved.......so does he like me and what should i do


oh and i'm like one of those shy people so....

please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!?

2006-11-01 09:58:40 · 17 answers · asked by mohenjo ♥ daro 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy named Alex but he is sooooo TALL. Like, the size of my dad and my dad isn't exactly what you call "short". I come only up to Alex's(the boy that I like) waist. But I like him so much. Its not even a crush. I really, REALLY like him, sorta like love him. Anyways, i'm not sure I will ever grow as tall as him. Should I stop liking him? Or wait, because he is in 7th grade, and i'm in 6th. When he goes to 9th grade, I probably won't see him again unless he is going to the same high school as me.(I already know what high school i'm going to) I wish he wasn't so tall, or I wasn't so short!!!

2006-11-01 09:58:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone have advice and be serious cuz this is a really sensitive subject.;

2006-11-01 09:57:48 · 4 answers · asked by nicole 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have always been suspicious and uneasy (without good reason) about this guy and my GF(of 3 years) is friends with. He lives in the city my GF used to live in. My GF has told me that he has a thing for her but shes isn't and never will be interested. About once a year she goes back home too hang out with friends. Me being the terrible and suspicious BF, I read the e-mails that they send back and forth. The one I read last night was from him telling her how he dreams of the time that they "cuddled" in bed all day last summer when they were hungover. She told me they just hung out watchin movies. Now I don't know what to do because if I confront her then I've betrayed her trust with the e-mails. If I dont confront I won't know what has happened between them. HELP!

2006-11-01 09:57:33 · 14 answers · asked by G M 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently just got out of 5 ½ years relationship. He wanted space that I never really gave him. I cried to his friends for help. I argued with him in front of his house and things I shouldn’t have done that would involve with others. He said I did not respect him. He was upset because he felt I have announced to the world about our breakup but he should’ve understand where I m coming from. Until one day, he finally called me and told me “now that I called, ask me all the question you want to know and stop asking people to people about me. he felt stalked. What hurt even more was he is seeing this girl for about 4 weeks and told me he really likes her a lot. He told me to move on and he can’t see me in his future anymore. I don’t understand how he can move on so quickly. After he told me that, I still call him and trying to be friends with him but he didn’t pick up. He couldn’t forgive me for what I have done to him. Things I have done to him were quit neurotic and obsessive. But only because I love him so much. Is just the last year that were together has gotten so bad. The other 5 years was great. When we were together, he was very faithful and helped me out so much, financially and mentality. In this relationship, I have done more wrong than he had to me. I was never there for him. I always made things worse for him in fact, and never really listen to his problem when he wanted somebody to listen. I hope leaving him alone for a couple of months from now, he would be able to take me as a friend again because he doesn’t even want to talk to me as friend when he already seeing someone. Yet, I’m still alone dwelling on the past. All I ever wanted right now is for him to know that I have changed. But will there ever be a chance for us to get back again. Is it possible that he will get serious with the girl he is seeing now? I’m so worry…

2006-11-01 09:57:27 · 7 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so me and my boyfriend was talking about strippers and he said he was gonna have one at his bachelor party i dont know i just dont feel confortable with a stripper dancing for my boyfriend his brother and bestfriend and my brother is gonna be their but to me it just feels wrong am i wrong for thinking this way, i know he wont cheat on me and i dont wanna sound jelous or not trusing of him. Do all guys have a stripper b4 they get married?? Please help

2006-11-01 09:57:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My daughter has progressively gotten worse with talking back, lying,sneaking out of the house, being somewhere she's not supposed to be, and dating boys we do not aprove of and do not allow. A couple of weeks ago the s**t hit the fan at my house. She was grounded and wanted to go to a friends house. After hours of back and forth saying no, I told her to get away from me. she kept on and this got my husband involved. He tried to give her a spanking for the awful way she was talking to me and it turned into a heated yelling fight. my husband said he couldn't take anymore,nor could I or her brother. She really was running the house with her selfish,unappreciated, hateful attitude. Her real father lives in Fla. and for 12 years he has not been involved in either of the kids lives. He had been calling for a couple of months and I was honest with her behavior, and he would say I'll talk to her. She now lives with him two states away, does anything, and has no rules. I'm worried. what to do?

2006-11-01 09:56:56 · 6 answers · asked by FANNY 2 in Family

ok, so how can i get more guys to notice me. i always feel like i'm invisible, cause my friends have a lot of guy attention, i want that... so please give some advice on how to get their attention! In and out of school.. thanx

2006-11-01 09:56:45 · 5 answers · asked by ily<3 2010 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it alright to want to date a 23 yr. old when I am 35. We have somethings in common, but the age difference concerns me. Alot of people have been telling me that age does not matter. So I figured I would take it to the people and see what others think.

2006-11-01 09:55:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mum is horrible to me. its like she doesn't love me or anything. its so annoying! if i have a problem and i come to her she shouts at me. if i am not in a good mood she shouts at me saying the least i could do is be in a good mood but she is in bad form every day!!! i just feel so alone because we used to be so close. last year she recovered from cancer unless thats it and if thats it am i a horrible person?

2006-11-01 09:54:41 · 4 answers · asked by ciara l 1 in Family

Is it true that one can love someone so much they would just hate her when things just doesnt turn out the right way after all these years?

2006-11-01 09:54:16 · 17 answers · asked by n707jt 2 in Singles & Dating

were going on 4 months this Satruday! so yeay!! we have gotten pretty far already, and he turns me on a lot and i want to turn him on like he does me!! so have no idea what to do to turn him on more!
By The Way He Is 16 And I Am 15!!

2006-11-01 09:53:58 · 9 answers · asked by steelers_heidi 1 in Singles & Dating

I am living in warmer climes at the moment - and may be attending a wedding in the uk at the end of March. What do women wear to weddings at that time of the year - bearing in mind the temperature?

2006-11-01 09:52:28 · 13 answers · asked by Rose 5 in Weddings

i have been in a relationship for 3 years with a muslim man my mum and him are always at each other all the time all ways having aruguments and its not fare i am always in the middle i also have a daughter with this man i would like them to stop aruguing but it does not i dont know why they hate each other so much i know she is not raciest because i was in a previous relationship with another muslim man who she liked so much

2006-11-01 09:52:21 · 2 answers · asked by HARLUN S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 44 yrs old and have been married 25 yrs. I workout on weights and am considered to be goodlooking. My wife is on the heavy side but she was a doll when I married her, I ask her to go to the gym with me but she never wants to go. My problem is that lately i have been getting alot of attention from other women. Should I start going out on my wife ? I don't know what I am feeling should I start having affairs?

2006-11-01 09:52:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is the difference beetween a woman and a man?

2006-11-01 09:51:45 · 13 answers · asked by Scott S 1 in Singles & Dating

I quit drinking, and now i notice i have a little less courage. what is the best way to walk over and start a conversation with a woman?

2006-11-01 09:51:24 · 15 answers · asked by J P 4 in Singles & Dating

My mother and father share a parent so there half siblings. But they really like each other, is it a bad thing?

2006-11-01 09:50:59 · 36 answers · asked by panties 1 in Family

When a guy always wants to put his arm around you in public and kinda pull you along with him, playfully, but forcefully, would this be a sign of a control freak?

2006-11-01 09:50:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a very difficult situation I would like your opinion on. My husband was killed suddenly a few months ago. I loved him very much. He was a good husband, good daddy, good friend. BUT I fell out of love w/ him somewhere along the way before he died. I stayed though for several reasons. This is beside the point. Anyway after about a month of greifing I began to feel myself letting go and I felt guilty. Then one day a friend of mine stopped to check to see how I was doing and if I needed anything. Well, this person was a relative of my husbands and I had felt sexually attracted to him around the time I fell out of love with my husband. Apparently this man felt the same about me. We never acted on it then for obvious reasons.This man is married but not happily. We started seeing eachother but never slept together. We ended it because of moral issues. Am I a bad person? If he ever leaves his wife would it be wrong to persue him again? I really do care for this man. I

2006-11-01 09:50:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a gap in my front teeth but it is small, and I was just wondering if the majority of people thought it was attractive or unattractive, because I know that when I see a guy with a gap in his front teeth I find him almost automatically unattractive...which I know is ridiculous and totally hypocritical...but anyways JUST ANSWER

2006-11-01 09:49:25 · 36 answers · asked by Smashley 1 in Singles & Dating

He has been jailed for an offense against his own children. I often wonder if he abused me as a baby because he is old enough to be my father.
He and his latest wife and daughter are coming to town for a visit. Everyone will meet at my house to see my other brother who is visiting too. I really am afraid I will not be very pleasant to him. I don't know if this new wife knows he is a pedophile. It is like he keeps getting married to these women and having babies. Just to have little victims.

2006-11-01 09:48:55 · 12 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Family

2006-11-01 09:48:28 · 88 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

I met an awesome guy online. His picture is so perfect, as is everything about him. The problem is that he lives far away, so how do I know if he is misrepresenting himself? I asked him to buy a webcam or go to an internet cafe, but he says he is just lazy or doesn't like to leave the house. I just want to know that he is being real. When I question him about my suspicions, it always ends up in an argument. Am I wrong to question him or not to trust him?

2006-11-01 09:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by bestexasgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and he got me really mad the other day because he stood me up. i love him with all my heart but that day i just broke up with him. i dont know what to do i gave him a chance to get back with me but he just stayed shut in the phone. he calls me but he acts like my friend and as if he didnt care about nothing that is going. what should i do and how can i get him back?

2006-11-01 09:47:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so here's my dilema. i like som guys named lane,justin,and auhsten. my bff like lane and justin isnt the type of guy id date(he plays like a kid too much) and my bff like auhsten too! wat should i do? my bff has asked out lane and auhsten and i really like all of these guys and i need support from a boyfriend right now-i need that intiimacy. wat should i do?

2006-11-01 09:47:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a guy on line . we have alked for about 2 weeks . he told me i love u and i told him i love u back . he says that he never met a girl like this before . now he is always messageing me and telling me he loves me and misses me . what do u think is this all true or is he just lieing to me . remember he told me he cares for me also and that i never made him feel like this before. please help me !! PLEASE !!

2006-11-01 09:46:42 · 10 answers · asked by sweet-girl 1 in Singles & Dating

It's a complicated story, but if you could just give me some suggestions on what to say I'd be forever grateful! Thanks in advance

2006-11-01 09:46:18 · 14 answers · asked by jennabeanski 4 in Friends