2006-11-01 09:48:28 · 88 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No - no it's ok
2006-11-03 13:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by B N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not... Don't let anyone pressure you in to doing what you are not ready to do. Having sex is a big step to take in life. There are all kinds of things that could happen to a person these days. Like getting a STD or getting pregnant. I know it is hard to be a single mother. You will know when the time is right for you and you will have to make the decision for your self. If your friends think that you are geeky for still being a virgin, then i would rethink what kind of friends i have. Just ask them are they going to be there if you get pregnant? Are they going to be there if you were to some STD? 9 times out of 10 they will not stick around. Be wise and use your brain to think it over very well before you do. I hope you have a good relation ship with your parents and maybe you could talk it over with them. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-01 09:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by memedos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not geeky i'm 13 and i'm still a virgin but believe me it's better to b one because my friend isn't a virgin and i can't look at him the same way i used to so if u want to get weird looks lose ur virginity oh and my ex- boyfriend isn't a virgin and i found out after i broke up w/ him and to think i wanted to get back w/ him eww so i'm just gonna say it's not geeky cuz i'm gonna be 14 next year on May 31 and i want to be a virgin til the day after i turn 14. i'll probably do it with my boyfriend of 3 weeks
2006-11-01 09:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to your friends. If they think you're geeky, then you need new friends.
It's cool that you're still a virgin. There's nothing wrong with it. If most young women / women were honest about their first experiences, most of them probably would have waited.
Time is on your side. Don't worry about it; when the right guy comes along, who is worthy of you, and when you are prepared and ready, it will happen. Keep an eye on your friends...see how many of them get STDs or get pregnant because they didn't understand the importance of being educated, responsible and waiting.
2006-11-01 09:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not geeky. It's whorish to NOT be a virgin at 14! A lot of people actually lie about not being virgins because they want to seem cool. The last thing you need to worry about is STDs and pregnancy.
This is an interesting chart: http://www.childtrendsdatabank.org/figures/23-figure-1.gif
2006-11-01 09:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin until 17 almost 18
do you know how many gilr lost it and now wish they still have it
no you are not GEEKY
and I bet your friend are probably virgins but want to you to be the first one to lost it
So why don't you wait for the right person
2006-11-01 09:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not geeky for you to be a virgin. i lost my virginity at 14 and now i am 20 with a 5 year old. do the math. when i lost it i always wanted it. i would have sex any where with or with out a condom depending on the situation. i wish i would of waited because i did not get to have that teen life like all my friends. so please listen to a stranger and just wait. oh yeah and who says you'll be with the guy forever that takes your virginity. im not and i wish i was. cause some girls even get those nasty nicknames and it ruins their rep. be smart and just wait.
2006-11-01 09:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by nm_cpr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, okay. why do you feel geeky. does all people say that. omg. im only 15 and i am still a virgin. think about it, why would you want to lose your virginity at a young age? i guess its not a good idea. all guys like me and want me but im not dumb enough to give up on anything. i do, but i wouldnt lose my virginity because of being or feeling geeky or whatever. just stay as a virgin and i guess, it will come one day.
2006-11-01 09:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by sugar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Besides being below the legal age of sexual consent there are other issues. Dont allow peer pressure to push you into something you are not ready for. Be proud to tell anyone that you are a virgin, not that its anything to do with any one else. You are a very special person to have held onto this and if you go out with someone who really thinks something of you then they wont hassle you. At least you will keep clear of unwanted pregnancies and STD's, Good on you, keep it up, The western world really needs people like you and I mean that .. Thats really true, no joke. Good life to you.
2006-11-01 09:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by dobbinesque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's smart and emotionally mature to make intelligent decisions. You do what's best for you, not what makes you popular. Those kinds of friends will disappear when it really counts.
1. You KNOW you don't have any STDs.
2. You arn't pregnant, and have a chance at a real career.
3. You haven't lost your chance at true love. True love is not about sex. Once you give up your virginity, the guy will have nothing to "earn." Forget about marriage and a happy future.
Sexual maturity does not demand sexual behavior. Be your own woman and make good decisions. Remember, EVERY woman has breasts and a vagina. That's not what identifies you as you. Be someone special, not just a hunk of meat for someone to consume.
2006-11-01 09:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So u worry about what other people say eh? that's your problem...you should not do anything, i mean anything just to impress people or get pressured into doing things or do things cause everyone else is or it's cool...cause that's not the real you. so, what are u going to do? are u going to be pulled into peer pressure?
Well..it's up to each individual..Honeslty I think at 14 you r way too young...why would u want to have sex just because you friends tell you that u are a virgin..do u know most boys your age lie..lie lie..to be accepted. don't be stupid boy! stand up for yourself and respect yourself...tell them it's none of their business ...
well having sex should be about respecting the girl you are with..you need to care for the person and at 14??? hello...way to young to even understand what sex is about...a lot of girls have sex because of what your friends say and regret it ....
so i say don't.ok...wait till the time is right and you are mature..more like 17 or 18 and make sure it's a great experience for you and your partner...
2006-11-01 09:55:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋