Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

Ok, so i'm going out with this guy, right. The thing is, he has this other friend, "Jane", and she's always telling him that I treat him bad, and that he deserves someone better. Someone that doesn't make him change for them, and someone that cares about him. She doesn't even know me, and yet she says that i'm suck up and mean and who knows what else.
The worst part of it is, he eats up everything she says and then starts to believe it himself.
Everyone who knows me thinks I can do way better. Way, way, better. But they care enough about me to let me be happy with him. They don't go and meddle in my business. They know how much i really care about him, and that i would do anything for him. Then there's Jane that 'advices' him to dump me, just to see that i wouldn't even care. No, wait. Here comes the good part: he actually said that I WOULDN'T give a sh it if that happened......yeah, I know. i'm sick and tired of this. Should i just end it, or try for the 100 time?

2006-11-01 10:13:45 · 16 answers · asked by Yay! 4 in Friends

What exactly are aphrodisiacs and are they good for your body?

2006-11-01 10:13:30 · 3 answers · asked by Ms. Nee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-01 10:12:21 · 14 answers · asked by Uub 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 10:12:15 · 1 answers · asked by ladybug 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

When they have been cheated on, or treated badly by a rogueish lover, people often say, "It's not so much what he/she did, it's the lies and deciet that really hurt."

Does this mean I would not only be successful, but considered a wonderful lover if I were to start approaching women by saying, "I'm not single, I have no intention of ever loving or respecting you, but I'd like to have sex with you - preferably several times - you look like you're a bit thick and quite easy, so I thought I'd push my luck...no offence...?"

Or is it not so much the lies and deciet after all?

2006-11-01 10:12:04 · 17 answers · asked by lickintonight 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 10:12:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He got drunk a few months ago, and completely betrayed my trust. It seemed so unlike him, especially since he's had bad experiences with drunk people... it made me reevaluate everything i thought he was, and now we are back together. But I can't leave it behind. I can't let it go. It still repulses me to think about it, and I am still so disgusted and ashamed. He is madder than hell at me because I can't "Let it go and forget about it." I can't just forget about it. We've been together for almost 3 years, and it's so bad that I think he is about to break up with me. Advice?

2006-11-01 10:11:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am running out of excuses at work to say why I always have black eyes, bruises, sick days and the like. My cat is out of control with the drinking. When she adds catnip it gets much worse. I want to call the police, but I love her and don't want to see her in jail eating no name kibble. HELP!!

2006-11-01 10:11:27 · 13 answers · asked by judge_smails_sir 3 in Family

Now that I have your attention, how many ppl on here get fed up with these women that think we know if they are pregnant or not??????

2006-11-01 10:11:13 · 10 answers · asked by shirley e 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 10:08:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

looking for my best-friend, beautiful smile, bright eyes, love sushi, pointless drives to no where....and like fishing trips...

2006-11-01 10:07:39 · 9 answers · asked by Tommy T 1 in Singles & Dating

what are the hottest looks a girl can have?
what is the best personality a girl can have?
what turns you on?

2006-11-01 10:07:33 · 1 answers · asked by iluvcheer618 4 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy in my classes...
i dont wanna explain his appearance cuz thatll take a long time, but he's really good-looking to me, at least.. and he's nice.
and i go for nice people.
soooo well, i've had a bit of a crush on him since last yr, and recently ive been thinking maybe he likes me too?
some of the reasons i've thought that is becuz...
*he seems to talk to me a lot... although i dunno if its just being nice.. or in another way
*he seems to know a lot about my friends and family
*my friends and his friends says he likes me
*he doesn't have a gf
*once in gym, when my hair got tangled in the volleyball net, he took it out carefully for me because i couldn see it, not caring that he was gonna b l8.... so nice.
*he's always nice to me
*whenever he passes me in the halls he smiles and says hi...
but he could do that to just anybody, couldnt he???
help!

2006-11-01 10:07:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 10:06:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is a guy @ my skool who likes me and wrote a 2 page poem 2 me front and back.....he's really weird...(he wore cape 2 scool)
he keeps telling me 2 read it and keeps making this weird face at me in class.
my friend savanna read it and said it was about how much he likes me......i dont want to read it he keeps telling me 2 tho!!!
what do i do!!??!?!??!

2006-11-01 10:06:11 · 15 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Singles & Dating

The other day at work I had my phone stolen which I'd bought only 2 days before & the fact is that some1 who I work with stole it.I only showed it to 1 person and so its obviously a huge coinsidence that it went missing on the first day I brought it in to work and only showed it one person.However the person who I showed it to is the person there who Iv'e had the most social contact with and I even though I don't him very well hes seems like a genuine and sincere kind of person so I don't want to believe its him but condsidering he was the only person who I showed it to and no-one else knew I had a new phone I somehow think that it was him. Also he said the following day to me 'I bet your parents think it was me because I'm the only1 who you showed it to'-which sounded a bit strane like he was trying to cover himself.I somehow am sure that it was him and I thought about asking him whether he did steal it.But if I find out whether is was him should I forgive him or not trust him again??

2006-11-01 10:05:06 · 22 answers · asked by Seriously Though 4 in Friends

bf to get off his laptop! i cooked a really nice meal for tea tonight ran him a bath for when he got back from work and all he has done is work on the laptop! im not knocking the fact he has to do work but he promised he would be off it at half ten and i would get a little action but is still glued working

2006-11-01 10:04:26 · 6 answers · asked by crunchymonkey 6 in Singles & Dating

This guy is always looking at me and even walks beside me in the halls but he doesn't say a thing.
Wth?

2006-11-01 10:04:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok...my ex from like four years ago has been in n out of my life as in we would see each other and kinda kick it for a while n then not see each other for a while again but recently as of this june hes been around alot alot and he has my number now n i have his and from the way things are going i think i like him again and from the way he talks to me and looks at me he does to.......we havent actually talked about us yet but he has constantly asked me to kick it a lot..............i duno wat to do.......give first love a second chance or not???...

2006-11-01 10:04:04 · 3 answers · asked by shortyWannaRide513 2 in Singles & Dating

My GF and I are "sepperated" at the moment. I keep going to the same clubs with my buddies to see one of his friends. She is freaking HOT and likes to see me there. All we do is dance (provocativly) and party together. If my GF found out would she accuse me of cheating or am I in the clear?
We hug when we see eachother, but that is all. And we only talk to eachother when we are at the clubs.

2006-11-01 10:03:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 10:03:22 · 5 answers · asked by applegrl005 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey! Alot of boys have been flirting around me. And I've gotten PRETTY nervous! HELP ME WITH THESE 2 LIL PROBLEMS!
I Don't really like them. But they have been pretty WIERD these days
P.S One of these problems are my friends problem she just wanted to go on . She's typing the 2cd question about her.

1) Guy is : Justin

OHMYGOSH! What can I say about Justin?!?!?! Seems like he has been flirting with me and my other friend ! He keeps saying " SEXY DRESS ! " To us and we are like " You too! " ... Im really scared! Is this a sign?!

2 ) ( My friend wrote this ) hi im jamie we prononce it like jam-mii lol. ok so i have a boyfriend his name is um sattwic,
he is really cute. but it seems like he is flirting with other girls.
he loves me. very much . him and girls were fighting together . and he said that he still loves me and stuff.
is he fighting with them because he doesnt want him to be with me? help i like him . he has been sending me alot of e-mails . about if i like him.

2006-11-01 10:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by נessιcα. 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 10:02:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he likes me too. problem is, we don't talk. we've both said that we never talk, but have done nothing to fix this. i'm afraid i'll say something stupid and he won't like me anymore. but if i don't start striking up a convo, i might lose him to someone else. help!!!!

2006-11-01 10:01:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Oky now... what is it really that you men are looking for in a woman?? And why if women have all the qualities your looking for you guys usually go after someone else?

2006-11-01 10:01:25 · 15 answers · asked by MoLLy A 1 in Singles & Dating

I would prefer if I could hire 1 of these cars in scotland as im getting married in glasgow.

2006-11-01 10:01:14 · 4 answers · asked by Vicki C 1 in Weddings

Only serious workers need to respond!! I am on a mission and need some help! I do not wish to hear about not being able to access accounts on the grounds of out-of-state accounts. I have alraedy found out that you can access accounts from other states. I only need a password on the one from sprint, and a address on the one from cingular. Any one up for a challenge? Reason? Possibility of an affair. Need to confirm for sure! Any workers please help!!! This is my last alternative, have tried everything else..

2006-11-01 10:01:14 · 3 answers · asked by Precious1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a teen w/ low self esteem amd ill admit it but how do i get a guy to like me w/ out being odvious and iv tryed bein my self!!! plz help

2006-11-01 10:00:54 · 24 answers · asked by abitachick 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a lady a while back, I had strong feeling like it wasn't going to go any farther than friends, and I let her know this about 3 times. As time went on she would try to contact me, but my cell phone is garbage and people who have phones like this know what I am talking about. Anyway, I haven't been the best person in the world in regards of being friendly, and I haven't had time for my other friends either with work and everything. So she stops over to pick up a check that I owed her because my brother and myself playing on her flag football team, and she hands me this note, calling me one of the biggest jerks she knew, I am disrespectful, and a bunch of other stuff. When I asked her where she came up with these accusations and to give me details, she said she didn't have any. I know all of you who answer this don't know me, so whether I am a good guy or not is unknown, but I try to treat people with dignity, honor and respect, and my question is, what gives?

2006-11-01 10:00:36 · 9 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Singles & Dating

The XXX kind.

2006-11-01 10:00:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating