I met a lady a while back, I had strong feeling like it wasn't going to go any farther than friends, and I let her know this about 3 times. As time went on she would try to contact me, but my cell phone is garbage and people who have phones like this know what I am talking about. Anyway, I haven't been the best person in the world in regards of being friendly, and I haven't had time for my other friends either with work and everything. So she stops over to pick up a check that I owed her because my brother and myself playing on her flag football team, and she hands me this note, calling me one of the biggest jerks she knew, I am disrespectful, and a bunch of other stuff. When I asked her where she came up with these accusations and to give me details, she said she didn't have any. I know all of you who answer this don't know me, so whether I am a good guy or not is unknown, but I try to treat people with dignity, honor and respect, and my question is, what gives?
2006-11-01 10:00:36 · 9 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah, this was strange to. She actually traced out a key, on cardboard, and handed it to me, saying this is the key to our relationship. WHAT IS THAT!?
Note that she is 24
2006-11-01 10:02:03 · update #1
Anita b, um.....you caught me off guard, lol, but no is the answer, in a big way.
2006-11-01 10:14:33 · update #2
I think this lady has a problem, not just with you, but with her mind.You might have a fatal attraction situation.I think you should understand sometimes people take the smallest kindnesses as a way to intrude in your life. I think you should tell her once again that your not interested in her or having a relationship with her. I will say that never let anyone define you, You know who you are inside, so don't give her a second thought. I think your nice to even wonder about her, that does you have integrity and care about others feelings.
2006-11-01 10:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's a lovable tale. Animals and birds will also be very sensible and shrewd. I used to seek advice from anybody years in the past who had a Cockatoo, and each time we might take a seat down the chook might scream in a shrilly voice" hurry, the condo is on fireplace, get me out!". I believe in a truly fireplace that might are available in helpful but it surely might force each person loopy whilst the chook might begin. Sort of just like the youngster who yelled wolf too often.
2016-09-01 05:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by kushiner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...if you made it clear to her that you didn't think an intimate type relationship was in the future, there is always a chance that she has a perceprtion problem. From what you've writen it sounds like she digs you and perhaps let what you said go in one ear and out the other. She seems to be out of line, and disrespectful.
2006-11-01 10:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by tonka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really strange of her. Hm....sounds like she is testing you on how you'll react to the accusations, is my guess. Simply be courteous, and tell her that if she doesn't have any proof, that she shouldn't be pointing fingers. Ask her if it's about the cell phone thing, and see if she latches on to the bait. (Meaning that she'll be like, "Oh, that was my point! You were such a jerk about that, etc."
2006-11-01 10:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by Nyki Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you dodged a bullet on this one. It sounds like you have good instincts. You should't feel a need to explain yourself to her. She has emotional issues. Create some distance.
2006-11-01 10:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Celt40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you guys end up lovers.FALL deeply in love with one and other.Date awhile.Become ingaged.Get married and have a couple of kids.What do you think about this answer?
2006-11-01 10:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL sorry buddy, that's called psycho...RUN RUN RUN I'm sorry to say this, but us girls are very complicated. You shouldn't try to figure us out, just go with the flow until we show you CRAZY!! then RUN RUN RUN...good luck
2006-11-01 10:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to understand it. just eccept the fact that she feel rejected and it probably hurt her feelings. its easier to forget about it then to try and figure out how her mind works.
2006-11-01 10:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by eric s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm..... I don't no how to yell you this buddy but she in the slightest bit might be a CREEP and might be a PSYCHO and also might be a STALKER please contact the local police!
2006-11-01 10:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Angel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋