He got drunk a few months ago, and completely betrayed my trust. It seemed so unlike him, especially since he's had bad experiences with drunk people... it made me reevaluate everything i thought he was, and now we are back together. But I can't leave it behind. I can't let it go. It still repulses me to think about it, and I am still so disgusted and ashamed. He is madder than hell at me because I can't "Let it go and forget about it." I can't just forget about it. We've been together for almost 3 years, and it's so bad that I think he is about to break up with me. Advice?
2006-11-01 10:11:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, and the main reason why he is so mad is because he says that it was six months ago and i should forget it. IT doesn't feel like six months to me. And six months is nothing compared to the three years of who i thought he was that was completely destroyed.
2006-11-01 10:45:08 · update #1
He is madder than hell? You should be the one who is mad because your trust was violated. I guess the question is if he is really sorry then are you willing to forgive him and let it go? If not then you both will be miserable in the future. But if you are willing to forgive him then he first needs to build back that trust and prove to you that he won't do it again.
2006-11-01 10:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is he madder than hell about - that he betrayed you. If you want to stay with him you are going to have to learn to deal with this. If you can't, your relationship is doomed.
2006-11-01 18:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he betrayed your trust he will probably do it again. You can't be with someone if you can't trust them.
2006-11-01 18:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by miss m. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love him u gotta forget about it and be with him. but if it really bothers u, dump him.
2006-11-01 18:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by champ22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋