My GF and I are "sepperated" at the moment. I keep going to the same clubs with my buddies to see one of his friends. She is freaking HOT and likes to see me there. All we do is dance (provocativly) and party together. If my GF found out would she accuse me of cheating or am I in the clear?
We hug when we see eachother, but that is all. And we only talk to eachother when we are at the clubs.
2006-11-01 10:03:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is definitely cheating if you are still committed to this girl, or if you have feelings for her and are planning on getting back together. Just to let you know, if my boyfriend and i were on a break, and we were planning on eventually getting back together, and i found out that he was doing what you are doing, there would be no chance of me getting back together with him. It would make me think, "How much does he really miss me and how much does he really care if he's all on some other girl?" It would honestly make me feel like the smallest person in the world.
2006-11-01 10:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on what you're defining as "separated" did you two call it quits? taking a "break" from each other?
if you two called it quits then you're definitely in the clear.
and it depends on how her personality is about cheating for her to accuse you about it, you know her better than anyone here could at this point, so I don't think anyone else could accurately answer the question especially not without bias on the subject.
if you're just dancin with this chick and partying together, and talkin then no I wouldn't think so especially if it's already been decided that it's a split up between you and your gf.
2006-11-01 10:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being separated is ignorant. either ur with her or your not. there is no on the fence i need to think about our relationship type crap. u KNOW if youre into eachother or not. if youre seperated, its like a breather. i would say its fine what youre doing. youre not cheating yet. but if you think youre gonna start getting physical with this friend or pursue a relationship, you need to tell your girlfriend, because thats the right thing to do. just say u found someone else while you were seperated. thats what happens when you seperate. its for u to think about if u really wanna leave that person. so if u like this new lady better...just have the common curtosey to tell ur girl that its officially over b4 u go dipn and dabn...k! GOod luck! and have F-U-N!
2006-11-01 10:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your seperated then NO ITS NOT CHEATING and she wouldnt really be your girlfriend.. and if you werent seperated and she was your girlfriend, it still would not be cheating, let her call you a cheater, its not, and theres nothing wrong with going to the clubs with your buddies.. but the dancing depends what kind of dancing, some dancing would be acceptable, but hugging IS NOT CHEATING....
Good Luck
2006-11-01 10:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by ericamarie87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So do you have a girlfriend or don't you? If you don't, then dancing isn't cheating. If she's your girlfriend, you shouldn't be dancing at clubs.
What's with this "separated- together but not" business these days? You're either together or you're not. Separated by definition means apart, so how could anything be "cheating"?
2006-11-01 10:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not, but I think I might be a little jealous if I were her. When you're 'seperated' try to make sure you're clear on the terms of this separation. Make sure that what you can a cannot do are clearly outlined. That way, there will be no confusion. Maybe you should ask her, but I don't know her, that might make things worse.
2006-11-01 10:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is cheating because you and your GF are sepperated. Besides you and the girl are only having a good time.
2006-11-01 10:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by sakora38m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is if u do something n u cant tell her. so if u cant tell her dat u danced wit another grl and u hug them n go to clubs den datz cheating. i would consider dat cheatin is ma bf did dat.
2006-11-01 10:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Ross & Rachel from 'Friends' "WE WERE ON A BREAAAAAAAK!"
You're either together or you aren't. If you're not, then it's not cheating, but if you are, then it is.
2006-11-01 10:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are split up, who's to say she's not having sex with some guy, while you are out dirty dancing.
2006-11-01 10:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋