When/How should I make my first move?

Question

I am a 13 year old boy, and don't get me wrong I'm not one of those teens who is obsessed with girls and goes out with them for popularity.

I really like this girl and she knows it, and she really likes me. Everyone in school knows it, and we are kind of going out but not really. We have liked each other since April of last year and we talk about anything we are feeling. I know she wouldn't feel awkward if I made a move, but I don't know what to do, how to do it, when to do it.

My twin brother is always nagging us to hug and go out and has been from day 1. I waited to see if she was right for me, i didn't go out right away. I don't believe that just because two people like each other that they should go out.

But, I don't know when to do something with her or what to do. I'm not talking sick-like, I mean hand holding or hugging or something. Any Advice?

We are together a lot and My twin is always there***

I'm not meaning how should I ask her out I'm meaning what should I do first and how. But the answers are great so far (hoping for more :) )

My brother doesn't annoy me when he is with me, he actually makes things easier and less awkward. :)

Answer 1

What a sweetheart! I remember your age. Guys would usually just ask the girl if they want to be boyfriend & girlfriend. Then the guy usually calls her at night and they hang out together at parties. Does this answer your question or were you thinking more technical? Good luck.

Answer 2

if your twin is always around and thats whats worrying you maybe you should politly ask him if you and this lovely lady could be alone together or go for a 'private' walk.
there is no 'really right' time to do anything, you just need to feel it, if your walking together glance down at her hand and want to hold it just do it and if she recipricotes and gives you a squeeze keep it there, the most important thing would be not to be afraid or embarrased about your feelings, the best way to find out what she's okay with you doing is to ask, keep it smooth and expect some awkward moments but mostly just enjoy the time you have with this person, be happy my young friend

Answer 3

When you guys are hanging out just give her a kiss on the cheek and if she likes then then move to her lips. Good Luck.

Answer 4

you should ask her if you could have her number. then you call her and ask her if she wants to go out with you. she's the right girl for you if she waited a year for you then that's means she likes you ALOT. and you should ask her right away before she moves on.

Answer 5

mayb ur just to young for this but u will know when the time is right. there is no need to be afraid it is just holding hands and dont be afraid to give her a kiss or sumtin it would be perfectly normal

Answer 6

Yes, people who like each other do go out, just ask your mom & dad, that's all where it starts on a first date, just walk up and ask her to go out with you, tell your brother to butt out.

Answer 7

you seem pretty smart for a 13 yr old. i'm sure she'll like you. just ask her to go to the movies with you and then try to make your move there. i know it's kinda cheesy but it should work.

Answer 8

yea, deff give her a hug and tell you twin that this is something personal and he doesnt need to be there all the time. good luck!

Answer 9

i say if you really like her there is no reason u shoudn't go out but if you arent ready for a relationship then you should jus be friends.

Answer 10

dont be scared juz dont it she is probly wanted u to do it for a long time so juz do it when ever u feel its the right time


GOOD LUCK !!!!):