I have always been suspicious and uneasy (without good reason) about this guy and my GF(of 3 years) is friends with. He lives in the city my GF used to live in. My GF has told me that he has a thing for her but shes isn't and never will be interested. About once a year she goes back home too hang out with friends. Me being the terrible and suspicious BF, I read the e-mails that they send back and forth. The one I read last night was from him telling her how he dreams of the time that they "cuddled" in bed all day last summer when they were hungover. She told me they just hung out watchin movies. Now I don't know what to do because if I confront her then I've betrayed her trust with the e-mails. If I dont confront I won't know what has happened between them. HELP!
2006-11-01 09:57:33 · 14 answers · asked by G M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust your GF man, she wont go anywhere. And if she decides to cheat ,she will find the way. You can not stop her, can you? Moreover it was last summer.....past
2006-11-01 10:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by long_joy_stick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's been with you for three years she cares about you a lot... so she would probably never cheat on you. She would love you and care about enough to just straight out leave you rather than go behind your back. (I'm NOT saying that she will) Now to get info from her you don't have to accuse her of anything, just ask. Ask how her ex is doing, then respond accordingly. If she lies and says that she doesn't know because they don't talk then outright confront her, OR she may tell you that he's doing fine. THis will open up a chance to talk about her ex.
Most importantly just talk, stay cool, and trust that she loves you.
2006-11-01 18:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Melvina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hangin' out and watchin' movies could be called cuddlin'. It's just being comfortable together.
Don't confront her, stop reading her e-mails and when you feel insecure; show her why you are the man she will never want to cheat on.
2006-11-01 18:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Steve M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her then break up with her you have a right to be suspicious and uneasy with that guy and her you are jealous and that is ok but before you confront her ask her about him and her friends and what they all did but if she lies kick her to the curb (I would)
2006-11-01 18:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by tt_2011_86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... I wouldnt say its wrong of you to confront her, because theres reason why you checked her email, because you had a feeling she was hinding something.. She may be mad at you for looking at her emails, but you should be more mad that she has kept that from you for this long. I think that if anything she has already betrayed your trust for her, by keeping that from you. Do what you think is right, but I believe that its wrong of her to hind that from you to start with... Good Luck!!!
2006-11-01 18:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by ericamarie87 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cuddle
2006-11-01 17:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by Carameltye 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh...kay...
i don't cuddle with any man. ever. unless there is something sexual going on. and if i have a relationship with one man, i will NOT engage in any cuddling with another man. EVER. you need to let your "girlfriend" know that any activity you cannot do when the partner is there, shouldn't be done at all.
for a boyfriend of 3 years.....why aren't you going with her for her visits anyway???
i take my boyfriend everywhere i go. now he's my husband...i still won't go anywhere he can't come with me.
2006-11-01 18:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her that you read it but somehow you can say you over heard someone like her or a friend talking about it and you want to know what that means.
2006-11-01 18:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Emma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy only hurts the jealous one,confront her and get this strait or keep on fretting over it .. your choice
2006-11-01 18:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say away from your girlfriends Emails and trust her
2006-11-01 18:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by dreson k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋