im 15 years old and i have a thing for this girl. Ive known her for a while and we were pretty good friends. We would talk on the phone and chill at each others houses alot. Yet she has changed from a sweet little girl to a girl who just gets high and drunk and than sucks random kids off. The weird thing is she hadnt even kissed a guy 4 months ago. I know its not like her but she started hanging with a pot head crowd. Smoking weed is not a huge deal to me but i know its not her at all. I have talked to her about it one-on-one and she gets upset with her self and cries when i do. But she goes back on doing everything within a day. Its not that she is a crack whore but she is easily influenced by the "cool kids" around her. She doesnt have any family trouble and her parents care about her but are not overly strict. i know i love her but i hate what shes become what should i do? what will it take to get her to wake up from whoever she is becoming?
2006-11-01 09:11:20 · 7 answers · asked by theacademy123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she doesnt listen to you talk, get help from her parents. trust me, she will thank you later.
2006-11-01 09:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes feeling hurt about something and shes just finding something to hide behind. You just have to ask her if theres anything you can do for her and tell her that your worried of what shes becoming and what she might be. Tell her that it hurts you to see her the way she is when shes drunk or stoned. But all in all theres nothing you can do unless she comes to you about her problem. Jsut hint to her that you think something is going on in her life and you jsut want to help
2006-11-01 17:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Whos your mama? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hard as it may seem to do , you have to allow her to choose her own path. voice your opinion to her about her bad choices, but you have to let her live her life, and make as many mistakes as she needs to. she obviously dosnt take your little talks to heart or she would have stopped for her own good. i wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-01 17:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good reality check get peoples involve
2006-11-01 17:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you have to let her see the light for her self since
2006-11-01 17:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by da unknown poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont b a rat just talk to her and show your consern. show her u really care and make her feel welcome with your nice friends
2006-11-01 17:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ali D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You write too much, just dump her.
2006-11-01 17:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋