Shld i tell my classmate that i'm in love with him?

Question

I'm in love with a classmate of mine, am not sure if he knows it or not. But regardless shld i tell him or let it go. I think about him everyday and nite, i cry knowing that i dont have him. I've never asked out a guy in my entire life, now that am 23, am more confused about it. I'm used to guys asking me out and making the first moves. This time around, i've waited for couple of months and he hasn't made the moves yet. I'm thinking maybe he doesn't want me. We talk occassionally, but it makes me uncomfortable.

I asked this same classmate of mine if he will like to hang out sometime, and he said yes. This was couple of weeks ago, and we still haven't hanged out yet. He doesn't talk that much either, so it is hard for me to get into him. I can't even flirt with him since i dont get to talk or see him that much. I'm thinking if he likes me, maybe we would have hanged out by now. Which is why am not sure if i shld just tell him how i feel or keep trying to be friends with him and maybe something might happen.

Answer 1

Hi Monica -

This is Jim...I got your e-mail but it wouldn't let me respond.
Well, sounds like you've laid the groundwork. So, I guess the only thing to do now is just come out and ask him "Will you go out with me?" Don't mention that you love him....Good luck !

Answer 2

if he is one of those conceited types no cause he can make a fool out of you. Yes if he is a friend or knows you well. But I suggest make it obvious very slowly. Then you can tell him the truth

Answer 3

i think just talk to him first and ask him if he wants to go out sometime

Answer 4

Ask him out, don't tell him you love him. That'll scare him away.

Answer 5

Go for it. You'll never know unless you do.