i dont know how to tell my boyfriend i am sick, it's serious. and i am afraid of him takeing this too deep like being worried all the time, and not doing good in school because he is worried about me i don't know how to handle this my self?? all i know is that lately my mood has changed and we have been fighting a lot i don't want to leave him but would if be a good idea so he would do better off in his life with out someone like me stressing him out???
2006-11-01 08:10:22 · 16 answers · asked by *********** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want him to feel bad for me eather...............
2006-11-01 08:17:16 · update #1
Lily,
If you and your boyfriend care about each other, you should tell him whats going on with you. If he loves you, he'll be there to help you out.
Your stressing him out, because you're upset about it, and trying to hide it from him.
If you love him, tell him!
2006-11-01 08:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by Gaia Weeps 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're giving him no credit at all. Imagine how hurt he will be when he finds out (and he will) that you didn't feel you could lean on him at such a bad time in your life.
He must already be wondering what he has done wrong.
Tell him. Give him the chance to be there for you & support you through this.
Get better soon, honey. Don't take all of it on your shoulders. You have enough to deal with already.
2006-11-01 08:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by belmyst 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are anonymous here- it would be better to have told us what the illness is so we can give you better advice on how to tell him. Whatever it is tell him right away as if some tragedy just occurred to you (which may be the case) and you should get lots of good sympathy and support from him.
2006-11-01 08:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him honestly. It is not good to hide things from your significant other if it affects the both of you. If there was something wrong with him, wouldn't you want him to tell you even if you would be worried about him? Let him know that you guys can get thru it together and talk about it openly. Please don't hide it from him...you will end up hurting him if you do. He obviously cares about you. Good luck!!!!
2006-11-01 08:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him because since you guys have been fighting alot hes going to think its just because youre trying to get rid of him for bad reasons.Just explain to him that it's not that serious so he wont over stress.If he really loves you hes going to be by your side to support you,dont worry too much.
2006-11-01 08:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you and your bf should take a break for awhile and if your having all these stress problems you need to eliminate so things out or get a punching bag or tell someone about these feelings you have don't keep it inside you let it out. Trust me you'll feel a whole lot better about yourself.
2006-11-01 08:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the real question? Are you afraid to tell him you are sick, or are you wanting to leave him?
Either way, the truth is always the best way. Lies have a tendency to come back and bite you, whereas the truth is always the truth!
2006-11-01 08:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by buddha bill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its just a phase of the relationship. you guys need to give each other space and chill for a bit. Then talk it out and see what happens. You guy are just flustered with each others it happens all the time . take a breather from each toher then talk.
2006-11-01 08:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by Chris T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have left out too many peices of this question to have an accurate picture of what the problem is.
Your ages
Your illness
2006-11-01 08:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him know your condition. that is the best way to solve the problem. If can't handle the fact that you are ill, and get bad scores, than he can't do well in the future. right? so just talk to him
2006-11-01 08:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋