Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

My girlfrind's son is 9 years old. He lives half time with his father and half time with her....He seems to get jealous when I try to hold her hand or hug her...Things like that....He does the same things I do....He tries to hold her hand or hug her also......I get along great with him...I am pretty sure that he likes me....She even tells me that.....

2006-10-31 14:55:47 · 11 answers · asked by blazerbrazil1969 1 in Singles & Dating

OK my sons father is the best dad even tho we're at a young age ok the thing i didnt tell u is tht hes 21 n hes names steve not thomas. hes the best guy ever hes been with me for about a year now on and off n are son is the most cutes thing ever! its just at tiems when he dont get his way steve flips out he hits me n then when i cry he says he sry n he wont do it again but i know he will theres just no gettin away from him! hes a really sweet guy just has an angry side to him tht i hate, he take cares of me n his son n was there when no one els was! plez no one tell me im stupid or tell me tht i mad a bad chose just help me :'( plez i need som1 to tlk to!

2006-10-31 14:54:25 · 20 answers · asked by No~bodys~angel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with a few guys in my lifetime, and during it all I don't believe I have ever had an orgasm. Sure the sex was great and felt good, but the thing that has been described as an orgasm to me has never happened. I have tried to get off by myself with my fingers or a vibrator, but that has not helped either. It can't just be the man because more than one has tried, and after awhile the man gets annoyed that I don't get off. Is there something wrong with me?

2006-10-31 14:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by Mia Anne *6.6.09* 3 in Singles & Dating

ok heres my opinion and im sure a lot of ppl will disagree but hey,, i think that if you need a piece of paper to confirm your love for each other than its a disgrace to the name of love itself, it takes trust and if your askin some 1 to sign a legal document than wheres the trust in that, the only true marriage is a marriage of hearts

headline is the question, just thought id say that cuz ppl always seem 2 forget what the question is once you add details about your own view point

2006-10-31 14:53:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What does SHE want?
3 months ago i spent alot of time together with this girl, but never officially was dating she wanted to stay single. I wanted to be more but she wasnt ready cause she still loved her ex boyfriend. Things turned nasty when i found out she slept with her ex boyfriend, and then another one which happened to be my friend. After all this occured i stopped talking to her for 3 months. She did her own thing without communicating to me what she planned on doing. Even though we talked about the possibiltity. She said she doesnt want a boyfriend at all. I have her on msn but has been blocked forever and her names are always like I feel so bad and stuff with what has occured. I am stubborn and have not given into her pretty face. And her name is like i would do anything to hear your voice again? What does this mean after all that has happened? She saw me the other day and was making out with my friend righ tin front of me? ya immature.. i no but what do you think she wants? i just dont get it.

2006-10-31 14:52:43 · 5 answers · asked by canuck131986 2 in Singles & Dating

well sophmore yr, at the end part me n my best friends 3 month girl friend were caught doing something illegal in a publc bathroom n got arrested, and i was the only one arrested, and they asked me who the other was, and i caracked under pressure n told them, then later on i told them it wasnt her, n then i cursed her off n my friend got mad so i stopped chillin those group of kids for about 2 months, and most of the time i was home since i didnt have anyone to chill with, n one of my best friend was never allowed out, n my other one had a boyfriend so she was out a lot too, n my other best friend was being really mean so she was doing her own thing, so i was home, and my mom was moving to singapore and i didnt want to stay in that town so i left to singapore, another country n a year later i came back...i left in bad terms that even though im fine with everyone, my past haunts me because how i left things...what should i do?

2006-10-31 14:51:57 · 6 answers · asked by jerzeygrl420 2 in Friends

Help, My Husband has a bad Gas problem, I swear it stinks worse then my 2 - 100 pound dogs put together.....I love him to death but i'm tired of getting up every night and sleeping on the sofa....He always says he is sorry, But Holy Cow.....We eat the same food, Whats up with this? Does anyone else have this problem or am i married to the only guy like this....We have been married 4 years now....Hope it gets better.....

2006-10-31 14:51:44 · 29 answers · asked by Happy_Wheatland 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I like one guy and my friend know it. I now that he like me to , actoally i think he liked me before my friend talk to him.
I am new at school. And my friend said to me : "I did best for u 'cos he is one of the coolest guys at school, he is not good for u"
So when he called her to ask about me she started to saing to him how bad i am for him and after that he not even look at me. My friend don't want to explain to me what she did and what she said to him.
I really like that guy What should I do?

2006-10-31 14:51:40 · 8 answers · asked by RockStar 1 in Singles & Dating

is it possible for a divorced men age 56 to be so busy (as he claimed to be) and only wants to meet and have sex for like once or twice a month? he said he dont have anyone, and is too busy to have sex. and its hard to keep him hard - its all hard work for the woman - and it sometimes go soft easily... why why why and many more whys.. bec he seems attractive to the opposite sex and he used to be not that busy. but yes, going soft so easily and hard to get a hard on is what he was since i knew him......but he is physically fit and strong even at his age...what could be the prob here?

2006-10-31 14:51:37 · 10 answers · asked by The Punisher 4 in Singles & Dating

I was at a Halloween party this week end and I got kind of tipsy. While in my drunken state I accidentally slept with my best friend. The worst part is I know that he has been wanting us to start dating very badly. (Our other friend went as far as to say that he loves me) but I have always viewed him as kind of a brother. I feel so bad! What do I do now? How can I let him down nicely?

2006-10-31 14:50:15 · 23 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

I prank called this one person on my cell phone and then hung up because I was scared. I feel aweful because I don't normaly do stuff like that. It was peer pressure. I have never done something like that before. My heart is pounding. What should I do? and Do you think that person would call me back because it sounded so much like a prank call. Please I really need your advice!
~jks~

2006-10-31 14:50:11 · 7 answers · asked by Werido3 2 in Friends

Lets see. Well when I was about 3 years old my mom and dad got divorced because my dad fell in love with another woman. I'm 13 now but I still feel a stinging pain in my heart over that. My mom says I should go to a counselor...again. What should I do?

2006-10-31 14:49:29 · 18 answers · asked by HikariTaiyou 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 14:49:19 · 13 answers · asked by livinhapi 6 in Family

I'm just curious.

2006-10-31 14:49:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 14:48:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and mygirlfriend have been going for about two months and two weeks or something like that. and she has been a ***** to me lately and i am fed up with it but she says she still loves me and still insist we have sex. what should i do. i also have this other girl that is really nice to me like everyday but im afriad to just dump my gf and go out with her cause she will feel like a rebound girl. in other words i love both of them and i dont know what to do.

2006-10-31 14:47:40 · 6 answers · asked by Brad C 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I are having an argument. I just had a baby, so I'm not allowed to have vaginal sex yet. But, my bf and I share a birthday, so I want to give him a bj for our birthday. I am not nearly as experienced as my bf, and although I was able to make an ex-bf *** when giving him a bj, and I managed to make my current bf *** twice doing it, I usually get tired first or he gets frustrated, so we just use it as foreplay and then go straight to regular sex. Well, I've been chewing gum to strengthen my jaw, watching the movies he's given me, and looking up pointers online. It started out well, and he said I was doing good, but then out of the blue, he pulls away and tells me to "Stop. Just forget about it." I take that to mean that I'm so bad at it that it isn't even worth the effort, so I don't want to try it ever again. He thinks I'm overreacting, and his "solution" is that we bring in a third person to "show" me how to do it or to use it to "start" him. Who should be upset here?

2006-10-31 14:47:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My question is for all you people that hate being single because you tend to have a lonely feeling.

Being single is not ALL that bad, I mean its drama free in the relationship department (okay maybe not fully but its less dramatic).
but, being single also brings me the lonely feeling which I hate!
I know alot of people will say "well go get a boyfriend...."
it's not that easy for me, I don't and can't talk to guys easily and the ones I can get along well with are already taken.

so my question is what helps you get the lonely feeling to get away? it can be anything. any suggestions would be great, thanks.
or any tips to talk to guys better/easier would be appreciated also.

2006-10-31 14:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Im a junior in college and im in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We see each other about once a month and i really love him. Recently he has become more spiritual and decided that we should be celibate until we get married. I have every intention of being with him and i am also a chrisian so i understand why he chose to do this. He asked me if i would go along with it because it was a decision that involved the both of us. I felt like saying no because i love sex but knew that it was the right thing to do. Its gonna be so difficult. But i want to know what you all think and what you would do and anyone being celibate with their partner how is it working for you?

2006-10-31 14:46:51 · 7 answers · asked by lovesickprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

i am married and here is the problem i want to kiss the girl i work with. i know its wrong and i am a **** but we hugged a few times and it feels good should i go for it be happy with one kiss and never do it again or am i a big piece of ****. oh just to let you know i have not slept with my wife for a year i quess the marriage is over and we only stay together because of our son and we sleep in diffrent rooms now . the reason for us not sleeping together is many one being i got sick and took a long time to recover after that we just lost intrest in each other sexually. but now that i fell ready for sex again it is not with her and my mind wanders to diffrent women my god have i got problems.

2006-10-31 14:46:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a sister I have not seen in many years, she was taken from my mother years ago. There was a time when I would visit her in the summer. The people who cared for her were older. The couple worked in a laundermat in Philadelphia. I tried to call the owner of the laundermat and he told me that my sister was still alive and had moved probably down south.....Please help me if you know of a African American female approx 40-45 years old who has no real relatives and was raised in Philly. She could be my big sis and I would have a few questions to validate the possibility. Peace in Christ....thanks for the real leads......

2006-10-31 14:44:18 · 7 answers · asked by firstladynfm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in my relationship for a year and a half. We live together, and I know he is the one. We have discussed the idea of getting married, and he says he doesn't want to rush into anything. In my logical mind, I know marriage is forever, so what is the difference in getting married now or 3 years from now? But, in my girly mind, now would not be soon enough. What's up with me? What can I do?

2006-10-31 14:44:08 · 15 answers · asked by honk2goose 4 in Marriage & Divorce

youre kissable and cuddly

your lovable and sweet

you thrill me every minute

and seep me off my feet


your charming and disarming

you inpire and impress me

and thats why i love you.......

2006-10-31 14:43:22 · 10 answers · asked by dominic c 1 in Singles & Dating

a girl d0ggy style an she had lots of zits on her butt would this put you off . or would you like grab a pen an have a game of dot to dot

2006-10-31 14:42:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend but there is this guy who is extremely attractive but 8 years younger than I. My boyfriend is also younger but only by 3 years. I love my b/f very much but he seem to be torned between myself and his ex girlfriend. I have been holding on trying to make my relationship work because I know all relationships have their ups and downs. The guy who is persistent in asking me out is aware I have a b/f and I told him I don't cheat. I am however very attracted to this guy who is 29. I am concerned that he is only interested in a sexual relationship. He is Greek and never been with a black woman I am assuming. He also wants kids, I don't. My b/f is Puerto Rican and I have to say I love him. My heart say stay in it but I am worried if I snooze I might lose out on something worthwhile. What should I do?

2006-10-31 14:42:00 · 9 answers · asked by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 in Singles & Dating

this never seen me talk with on chatt and says he loves me, i mean don`t understand he say their no such need to see u coz i can feel u in my heart, he says u r very polite, humble, self made girl.this is enough for him , should i say yes or no

2006-10-31 14:40:15 · 5 answers · asked by asshi 2 in Singles & Dating

In my high school, evryone who has a game has to dress up to look 'professional.' What do you think?

2006-10-31 14:39:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

SHE is NOT sitting close to me in class and we didnt have conversation before. how can I start? Is it OK to ask her if she has a bf or not in the first conversation or should i ask later?

2006-10-31 14:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by goody_goody 1 in Singles & Dating

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

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34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it.

2006-10-31 14:38:41 · 9 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just taking a pole.

2006-10-31 14:37:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating