if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
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and then she just sent this message to him today
"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
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i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it.
2006-10-31 14:38:41 · 9 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and you are with her why??? it sounds like she's stringing both of you along-and yet you can't even see it-c'mon now, she should be emailing YOU, texting YOU, calling YOU. but yet, she's not. hmm.....think about it....(p.s. i'm sorry for being so mean sounding, but i figured you wanted a honest opinion) if i was you, i'd go find someone who wanted me and only me. its not fair to you at all what she's doing.
2006-10-31 14:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by *MaE* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 07:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by predmore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you confused us with your question. It is possible for a woman to hide her feelings and pretend to be happy on the outside simply because she is or be in denial. I am in a similar situation but it is my b/f who is having the ex issue. Listen if she is still in love with the ex, she will just have to get that closure in order to completely move on, and if it is getting back with the ex and getting hurt again then so be it.
2006-10-31 14:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is rather confusing, but it sounds like she misses him. Which is ok, people often have some residual feeling for their ex.
By the way, how do you know the full text of her emails? That's kinda freaky...
2006-10-31 14:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some have to learn the hard way,always wanting something that isn't going to work.
2006-10-31 14:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still wants to mess with him she can act like it doesn't bother her but it does if she didn't want to be bother with him no more she wouldn't keep trying to contact him but you have nothing to worryu about because he doens't want her the one it sounds he probaly found somebody to occupy his time he doesn't want her but you might wanna talk to her about still trying ti contact a ex that dont wanna be contacted
2006-10-31 14:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb she still loves her EX..its really hard to forget whom u have been for 2 1/2 yrs..trust me!!!!
2006-10-31 14:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by meee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have no clue too confusing!
2006-10-31 14:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh?
2006-10-31 14:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by `LAURADiZZLE*; 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋