My bf and I are having an argument. I just had a baby, so I'm not allowed to have vaginal sex yet. But, my bf and I share a birthday, so I want to give him a bj for our birthday. I am not nearly as experienced as my bf, and although I was able to make an ex-bf *** when giving him a bj, and I managed to make my current bf *** twice doing it, I usually get tired first or he gets frustrated, so we just use it as foreplay and then go straight to regular sex. Well, I've been chewing gum to strengthen my jaw, watching the movies he's given me, and looking up pointers online. It started out well, and he said I was doing good, but then out of the blue, he pulls away and tells me to "Stop. Just forget about it." I take that to mean that I'm so bad at it that it isn't even worth the effort, so I don't want to try it ever again. He thinks I'm overreacting, and his "solution" is that we bring in a third person to "show" me how to do it or to use it to "start" him. Who should be upset here?
2006-10-31 14:47:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 25 and I'm not going leave him anytime soon. He just thinks I'm being unreasonable and I think that him getting mad that I'm mad at him is an unreasonable response. I just want to cover my bases to make sure that I'm not being too sensitive here.
2006-10-31 15:05:00 · update #1
Ummmm.... this one is a no brainer! (pun intended). You did your best and went out of your way here, and his solution is for him to have sex with another girl! well darling, you need to kick his behind out!
2006-10-31 14:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by lwrdimport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all how old are you? 2nd of all A 3rd PERSON R U CRAZY! SO he's got u suckn his dick and now he wants someone else 2 do it"so u can get pointers" Ur bf's a bit of a freak and i don't know if this is a really healthy relationship. No wonder ur pregnant.
2006-10-31 14:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every mans fantacy is to have a threesome, remember that. tell him how you fel about that, do you want to bring in a third person?? if not then tell him. how would it make you feel to see another girl give your man a bj??? think about that befor you do anything else
2006-10-31 14:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by ang. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He showed his true colors....get rid of him.
2006-10-31 14:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋