Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

Is it to make sure they know what they're doing? or which is it? guys?

2006-10-31 15:14:20 · 9 answers · asked by Sma 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I want to get married now, like in the old days when you could wake the judge up in the middle of the night and get married in his living room... How is it possible to have a wedding like this, or is it possible these days? What do you have to do to have a legal marriage?

2006-10-31 15:13:00 · 8 answers · asked by Beckwith 3 in Weddings

My mom-in-law does stupid ****, like spends $$ on vacations for her & her hubby & then tells her adult kids, "Sorry, there won't be a Christmas this year cuz we spent our extra money on a trip to Greece, Florida, etc!" I'm sorry but that just seems outright ignorant. She loves 2 talk & when you try 2 talk, she just starts talking right over u like u weren't even saying anything. It drives me nuts, but do I say anything? No! Well, a few weeks ago, my hubby's dad got remarried 2 a lady that no one likes. My sis-in-law was supposed 2 B in the wedding, but decided the day of the wedding 2 call & say she refused to be in it, cuz she doesn't like the lady her father is marrying. Okay, I posted a vague blog saying some1 was "Disrespectful", cuz I didn't agree with the way she did it, waiting until the last min. Well her mom (my mominlaw) ripped me a new 1 cuz "i have no clue what her poor baby went through as a child, etc, " Now none of his family will speak 2 me, cuz of this. What do I do?

2006-10-31 15:11:48 · 10 answers · asked by LynetteG84 2 in Family

My friends and I were wondering. Thanks

2006-10-31 15:11:16 · 11 answers · asked by Caligirl 3 in Singles & Dating

im really afraid of white guys and i need help with that b/c its so bad, i cabt walk when they are around.
and plus im going to the uk and i fear them the most.

i dont care about white girls but its the guys that i fear.

pls help.............

2006-10-31 15:10:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know what it feels like, can anybody tell me...

2006-10-31 15:10:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i love my mom, and i wanna know if she feels that i'm a good kid/if she's proud of me...
from the view of a parent, would I be a good, ok, or bad child to have?
i dont really fight a lot with my mom, just occasionally when we're both really stressed over something...
i get reasonably grades... As, Bs... i try not to get anything that would make my mom upset, cuz all she wants for me is to get to a good college and have a great life
i usually listen to her when she wants me to do something... not always, but almost always
i don't say bad things about my mom to my friends... nor would i try, because i would feel immensely guilty...

going off-topic here, but whenever i THINK about doing something bad or risky... my mom's head pops into my mind, and she's all upset... and i back away from w/e i was trying to do... is this usual? do i have a problem?

yes.. i know this is a weird question, but i want real, honest answers.. thnx.

2006-10-31 15:10:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to forgive but shemakes it hard!!!!! She is a very demanding, controlling, bossy person. She nevers sees herself as wrong!!! I have tried to talk to her but she can be very nasty at times.

2006-10-31 15:08:31 · 5 answers · asked by purpleone726 3 in Family

How do i tell my boyfriend it hurts when he looks at porno video game characters and anime porno...I don't feel sexy and i don't feel he wants me, when he does it hurts so much..do i have a right to feel this way?

2006-10-31 15:07:31 · 29 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 15:06:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-31 15:04:57 · 5 answers · asked by kellydarcey 2 in Singles & Dating

ok im dateing this guy and i think he wants to take the relation ship to the next level. im not sure i want to yet. wat do you think i should do? do think i should take the risk?

2006-10-31 15:04:36 · 25 answers · asked by lil 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 15:03:36 · 18 answers · asked by Danielle L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy in my school and ive had a friend ask him if he likes me and he said only as a friend. Well every day he stops by the class and says hi to the teacher and comes and sits next to me for the rest of the time tell class starts. One of my friends said that when i was talking to another guy they saw him stairing at me. im kinda confused?

2006-10-31 15:03:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does SHE want?
3 months ago i spent alot of time together with this girl, but never officially was dating she wanted to stay single. I wanted to be more but she wasnt ready cause she still loved her ex boyfriend. Things turned nasty when i found out she slept with her ex boyfriend, and then another one which happened to be my friend. After all this occured i stopped talking to her for 3 months. She did her own thing without communicating to me what she planned on doing. Even though we talked about the possibiltity. She said she doesnt want a boyfriend at all. I have her on msn but has been blocked forever and her names are always like I feel so bad and stuff with what has occured. I am stubborn and have not given into her pretty face. And her name is like i would do anything to hear your voice again? What does this mean after all that has happened? She saw me the other day and was making out with my friend righ tin front of me? ya immature.. i no but what do you think she wants? i just dont get it.

2006-10-31 15:03:00 · 4 answers · asked by canuck131986 2 in Singles & Dating

Everytime we talk on the phone we never spend more than an hour. He'll end up whining to me, talking about he's tired and how he wants to go to sleep because he works early in the morning. But, I found out he talked to this girl on the phone for 110 mins only once though (I checked his phone bill). It makes me jealous even though they are friends bc he hardly will talk on the phone with me that long. I know he loves me.. but I keep bringing up the situation to confront him with it when he refuses at me. I know it bothers him but, I can't stand the fact that he will talk to someone unsignificant for that long instead of me. I tried to leave him but he won't let me go. We been together for 2 years and everything is going well, but we argue a lot. Another time I asked him to go to this city with me. He refuses.. talking about he just wants to stay home and chill. 30 mins later he calls and asked if I wanted to go bc his cousins are planning to go now. Refuses me but not others!

2006-10-31 15:02:35 · 15 answers · asked by simply_complicated 1 in Singles & Dating

I meet a man we start go out for dinner, and he bought me expensive gifts which I cannot accept. What is that ?

2006-10-31 15:02:17 · 7 answers · asked by Tania D 1 in Singles & Dating

anybody have any funny stories of putting something down someone's crack or seeing others do it?

just for laughs...

haha once I was at a basket ball game, and there was this girl in front of my who had a HUGE butt crack showing. So me and my friend took little bits of granola bar, and we started throwing them at her, seeing if they could go in. that sounds stupid, but it was so funny, especially because the girl didn't notice, and there was a lot of granola in her crack. wonder if she was confused later on? lmao.

if you're going to whine and complain, don't bother replying. this is all in FUN and jokes.

2006-10-31 15:02:11 · 5 answers · asked by Marcy 1 in Friends

There is this girl who hugs me a lot and at a dance she asked me to dance like 3 times. Do you think that she likes me?

2006-10-31 15:01:42 · 10 answers · asked by chiefslover 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 15:01:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think this girl likes me but when i do the love struck loser thing she seems to lose interest. But when i mess around a taunt her she likes it.Oh and i already told her I like her, but were frends. Come on i need help her!

2006-10-31 15:01:18 · 4 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

I love her she is great.. but I just met her family and apperently they do not think I am good enough for her.. what can I do? Some body told me to break up with her but I love her! and she loves me too! I can not do that... and I am more then sure her family hates me by the way they talk to me and things they say also, trying to get their daughter with another guy..... I really need a good answer please !!!!!

2006-10-31 15:00:29 · 11 answers · asked by good guy 1 in Singles & Dating

and we trust our friends more then our elder bother or sister
and tell our friends that i like that girl or that boy(in case of a gal).

2006-10-31 14:59:39 · 5 answers · asked by loveice33 2 in Friends

what are the signs you have seen or that you do if YOU yourself are a cheater?

please list...

2006-10-31 14:59:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like in a table as we put up on our website.I need it urgently so plz if ne one knows do temme

2006-10-31 14:58:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-31 14:58:06 · 27 answers · asked by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 in Singles & Dating

WHY DO I keep calling? obviously the man will not pick up tonight.....

he always picks up in a heart beat. but I suspect him of possibly cheating. I have heard messages that I have access on his cell phone last year. BUT, he denies any relation to the girl up and down.

once a cheater always a cheater? what are your views?

how do I keep myself from calling him over and over till he calls or answers my calls?

2006-10-31 14:58:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so if u remember i asked about dating my friend on saturday since we were going out on sunday well......
it went great actually! we were in the movies for a while then we held hands and then i eventually ended up leaning against him with his arm around me and yea...he actually kissed my head/forehead/cheek....but i DIDNT kiss him.
ur probably thinking wtf! buuut i had thought about it but now i realize i should have...

2006-10-31 14:57:15 · 2 answers · asked by coolgirllove2 1 in Friends

I call it my penitentiary retirement plan. If the social security go broke before I retire. I have to have an alternative plan. I heard some federal prision are ok. Maybe be in there with some drug dealer and white collar criminals and play cards all day. lay around and rest and watch T.V.

2006-10-31 14:56:48 · 4 answers · asked by Robertus911 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my bf live an hour and half apart on the weekends we try to meet eachother and spend the day together. last week was really hard because we didn't get to see each other so i bought this beautiful card that said i miss you so much and i wrote him a whole page letter and put it inside of the card. he called me a couple of days later to tell me thank you. tonight on the phone ... something brought up the card and i asked him what he did with it. and he said he read it and then threw it away! i was so pissed off. his reason was that he said he thought it was ridiculous to keep christmas / birthday cards. and i was like but that wasn't just any card. i spent alot of time on that card. and he said well honey i loved it i read it and thought it was great. i just don't think there is a purpose in keeping stuff like that. so, is this normal? if he had sent me a card ... i know that i personally would have kept it forever i didn't get mad at him, but i am kinda pissed why would he do that

2006-10-31 14:55:53 · 15 answers · asked by doodlebug 1 in Singles & Dating