2006-10-31 15:06:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Though it would be difficult, I would probably forgive her. If it was a chronic situation (meaning repeated unfaithfulness), we'd have to split up since she was making it clear that she did not want to be with me. But, forgiveness is probably the first step since I would have my own faults that need to be forgiven as well.
2006-10-31 15:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by mrwitty29212 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well honestly i would be hurt humiliated and very very very angry.but you are not the first and would not be the last.be upfront and ask who they want don't give them the pleasure of asking why"and don't repeat the old mantra that i was not good enough i did some thing wrong"because that is horse poop! this is your mantra I AM THE BEST I CAN BE THEY ARE AT LOSS NOT ME AND I AM WORTH IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"EASY TO SAY AND HARD TO DO I KNOW but hold your head high and be in con-troll give them an ultimatum remember you have all the trump card they are the ones to grovel not you please try not to break down in front of them do it in your own room but you can express all your feeling and give them a good tongue lashing to get the anger out of your system if it is a spouse you should go to marriage councilor but always remember once a cheater always a cheater so you should move on to bigger and better thing and love has nothing to do with it if they loved you they would not have cheated and you may never gain back that trust so it is easier to move on it is for the best
2006-10-31 15:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by candice d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the situation and what the feelings of both parties were. if it was a one time thing, then i'd forgive. if he'd been having sex with someone else for six months behind my back then more severe actions would be taken.
2006-10-31 15:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by R-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from them,dump them, leave them whatever! What would be the point of staying with them? They would only do it again. And I wouldn't look back or feel guilty about it either.
2006-10-31 22:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump them in a heart beat,I can not stand a cheater,they would be dead to me and never though of again.they are the lowest scum on this earth.
2006-10-31 15:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would like to say dump but i didnt do that well i didnt get cheated on really? but mmm... he just held hands with a grl that he had just met in nicaragua.
2006-10-31 15:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by $$$ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my X HUSBAND cheated on me and i divorced him
2006-10-31 15:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump them!!! never forgive them......... as much as they make up excuses dont take them!!!
2006-10-31 15:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋