Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

We've been talking online for 3 months and I won't be able to meet him til January when he gets back from Iraq. He'll visit here for one month then he will go back. I know I am falling in love with him but I am afraid if we have sex within the month he is here he won't feel like he had to work hard to get with me, then he won't appreciate me. I am really attracted to him and I want him as a best friend and lover...whats ur recommendation guys?

2006-10-31 16:21:04 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend got involed with a guy name well. when they started they realtionship he told her he din't want no children,beside she acknowledge his wishes and respected them. asssuring him that she had a physical condition that prevented her from being pregnet. now here the problem they broke up 3 months later and life is never without a suprises, and interstingly enough, she reavealed she was pregnet. according to her she met with him to restate his desire not to be a father and discuss the possibilty of adoption, but talks quickly broke down. well i relly felt bad for the guy because he recived a second suprise knowing he already had the first! he found himself served with child support papers! he was order to pay$475.00 a month and in addition half of all realted health care expenses for the child. the judgement forced him to sell his car and move with a roomate to meet expenses. poor guy!:( should he be forced to pay childsupport? even when he told her he din't want kids??

2006-10-31 16:19:23 · 15 answers · asked by g2daezo 1 in Singles & Dating

I would walk away from her in a heartbeat, but she has some deep down issues w/ trust and commitment. I know if I did she would only blame herself and add to her self-abasement. WTF would you do if you really did care for them?

2006-10-31 16:19:15 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

A few girls who like me won't leave me alone and keep bothering me and now other people are starting to notice. Now it is becoming a problem because the girls I do like are starting to think I like the girls who won't leave me alone. I have already made it clear I don't like them and I am being nice about so far. So what do I do?

2006-10-31 16:19:03 · 11 answers · asked by ??? 4 in Singles & Dating

I was at Target and I almost ran over an attractive married woman. When I said excuse me, she just looked at me for 4 awkward seconds and gave me "that look". I just walked away but she followed me (very closely) with her kid! Should I have gone for it despite her being a married woman?

2006-10-31 16:18:24 · 11 answers · asked by JOhn M 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to love someone so much and yet hate them with everything you have at the same time?

2006-10-31 16:17:45 · 11 answers · asked by jennyve25 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-31 16:15:47 · 25 answers · asked by cravala 1 in Singles & Dating

He works a LOT as a mortgage banker (about 12+ hrs a day during week, and usually at least 4-5 hours on the weekend). I work too, but usually 40-45 hrs/week. I'm also trying to pass the CPA exam... he stays at home when he's not working, which I appreciate, and we watch tv etc. but I've asked him nicely, on several occasions, that I would just love it if he took me somewhere - even something very simple like taking me to Barnes and Noble to hang out. He just wants to sit around! What can I do that will make him want to make more of an effort? Serious answers only please.

2006-10-31 16:15:16 · 9 answers · asked by Mishy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this girl on an online dating site last night. we talk on messenger, saw each others pics (shes very cute), and then she said "im going to my room now i think, but you can call me if you want". so i ask for her number, call, and we talk for about 20-25 minutes about school, family life, san fran, halloween plans, clubs, drinking, etc etc. at the end she says "so can you call me tomorrow night" i said yes, we both say goodnight.

so now its the next night. im looking forward to talking to her again. its 9pm...she said she was taking her younger siblings trick or treating at around 7pm for like 2 hours.

when should i call her? i dont wanna seem desperate or needy lol...help girls!!

2006-10-31 16:14:29 · 10 answers · asked by seth c 1 in Friends

I believe guys and girls can be just friends..but I can't find any guys that just want to be my friend. Its too wierd for me..Even close guy friends that I thought were my friends seem to disappear. I don't mind if they have GFs so why should they care if I have a BF I really don't get it.

2006-10-31 16:14:04 · 7 answers · asked by drop_it_likeithot 1 in Singles & Dating

this is the situation...
were 4 months married here in abroad, i knew before that he has a son to a divorce woman...now his asking my permission to allow him to have a 2 weeks vacation to our country 'cause it's his son's birth day!!! do you think it's ok?! they will stay in 1 house for two weeks together w/ the son's mother?! shall i believe in him that nothing will happen?! though i know that he loves me! but do you guys have the control?! i knew that the woman still like him and i was afraid what will happened for that 2 weeks...

2006-10-31 16:14:00 · 9 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I started losing feeling of my gf approximately six months ago (we have been together for 2 years) I did not break up with her because I didn't want to hurt her. Instead I changed my attitude towards her and etc. Now that she can't take it anymore and broke up with me. I really don't want to commit in this relationship; i'm just not ready. Am I really bad?

2006-10-31 16:12:39 · 18 answers · asked by itguru5354 1 in Singles & Dating

Ugh ok my BFF is being really annoying lately, She keeps ditching me for her 'other' friends, being really annoying, and ok well im 13 and i have so many friends so its not like shes my only hope lol.I have 2 bff's.

another thing she does is comment on my outfits alllll the time, (badly), especially cause she wears hollister and abercrombie crap and i go to kohls, target, normal ppl stores. (and she says im too 'flat' when i wear a sort of tight shirt.) (most annoying) (AND, sorry im rambling on, she believes EVERYTHING she says.)



PLZPLZPLZPLZPLZPLZPLZ help im soooooo lost and i dont know what to do, everyone of my friends are pissed at her and dont say to dump her im not doing that aint that easy.

2006-10-31 16:11:46 · 3 answers · asked by chittybang1021 3 in Friends

This guy and I have been kind of playing eachother, saying that we didn't want anything serious, but we are really close friends too. Then we kissed, and I realized that I want our relationship to be either dating or nothing, I cannot just play around. It has been 2 weeks, and I have no answer from him. We text each other and he says he wants to talk in person. But we don't live in the same town. I just want to know how he feels. This is really frustrating me. What am I suppose to do? Are all men this incapable of telling a woman how he really feels?

2006-10-31 16:10:18 · 21 answers · asked by lizzy 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so here's deal... I lived with/dated this guy for 4+ months, and we broke up cause of drama between mutual friends... Well about a month later we started seeing eachother again, for about 2 months, then he just quit calling, and I haven't herd from him in like 6 months or so... I found his profile on myspace, and I want to e-mail him, but I am scared... I mean I am not even sure why we arn't together... I am in LOVE with him, but I never told him how I felt... I have dated sever other guys since him, but I always come back to him... Since I last spoke to him, I have moved 300 miles away... Am I just crazy, or could I be in LOVE with him..... I am so confused.. and I need help as to what I should do....

2006-10-31 16:09:28 · 6 answers · asked by ஐ♥Kaylee's mom♥ஐ 4 in Singles & Dating

and he often go to her residence to deliver mineral water which he can send it thro' his staff also but he went personally y'day and she is friendly with my hubby she was alone at home with her little son, my hubby speaks to her husband also over phone but never met him, she was saying come over with ur wife, we will have dinner together etc. looking at this scenario everything seems to be normal but i m feeling insecure, i told this to my hubby he said i m not hiding anything from you but still u r suspecting me..........what should i do? someone please guide me...........

2006-10-31 16:08:45 · 21 answers · asked by virgo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

todya i fight with my office employed, he pupuselly doing stupied things, and argue with me?

2006-10-31 16:08:38 · 2 answers · asked by Jasmita P 1 in Friends

There is this really friendly girl at school that I want to ask out. While I've casually spoken to her several times around school, we have only hung out once. We went golfing together recently, but it was with one other guy (so that wasnt quite a date).

She seems really friendly and maybe is into me, and I want to try to "seal the deal" by taking her out. Is it premature to just go up to her and say "hey, wanna see a movie this friday?"

2006-10-31 16:07:44 · 11 answers · asked by sjlantry 1 in Singles & Dating

My girl want to go away from, for some stupid reason. I tried to explained her, tried to please her. Nothing works. Now I am getting wild these days. I know 100% she is very happy with me, she is avoiding me only because her family will not accept me. How stupid of her..
I cannot let her accept the fate and feel sorry later. Am i doing justice to my love? Or should I let her go?

2006-10-31 16:07:04 · 11 answers · asked by Ramses-the son of light 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 2 years went to have dinner with friends, (guys and girls) and even though he did invite me (he knew i couldnt go anyway) i felt kind of wierd, cause he never goes out with GIRL friends.... should i be alright with this if its only once in a while or listen to my jealous feelings and tell him honestly i dont like it....
(people say guys are like little kids, they test you to see how far u allow them to go)

2006-10-31 16:05:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I use to go out with this guy named Brandon and we broke up about three weeks ago. Well one of my bff's liked him and after he found out he started liking her. Now today (halloween) he asked her out and she said yes. Do you think that I should forget about him and move on or wait for him... someone please help... in ahead of time <33 ya and thx!

2006-10-31 16:04:45 · 18 answers · asked by soccerkickchic23 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it just me or does it seem that guys are jerks!!!! What is the most romantic thing a guy has ever done for you??? haha i need to be reassured that some guys aren't all assholes

2006-10-31 16:04:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay,

im in need of help.

is there a name or sickness of when you're afraid of white guys?

i think it has a name but im not sure.

please help........


im going to the uk very soon..

2006-10-31 16:03:48 · 12 answers · asked by Um, okay. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 16:03:18 · 3 answers · asked by solid as a rock 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, here's the deal. The Sadie Hawkins dance at my school is a couple of weeks away and I wanna ask this one guy to it. I asked him last year and he said yeah, we had a fun time i guess. But the thing is, is that i wanna ask him in a creative way, not just "hey will u go to sadies with me?" lol. yeah, but then again, im scared that he would say no....haha. have any suggestions? i need help.

2006-10-31 16:02:39 · 8 answers · asked by wow 1 in Singles & Dating

I have only been with my boyfriend for like 3 months and already we end up spending our time together at home just sitting on the couch. I need some cool ideas of things we can do on week nights that are fun and get us out of the house, we cannot be stuck in the no where to go rut after three months help!!!

2006-10-31 16:00:16 · 9 answers · asked by preped_up_princess 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there any way to ever trust anyone else again after being hurt and deceived in a past relationship? I am a good girl (loyal and extremely honest) and my EX was a real ***hole and hurt me very badly. I didn't know he was lying to me and now I am so afraid that I can be so easily duped. How can you EVER trust a man again?

2006-10-31 15:59:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this girl on an online dating site last night. we talk on messenger, saw each others pics (shes very cute), and then she said "im going to my room now i think, but you can call me if you want". so i ask for her number, call, and we talk for about 20-25 minutes about school, family life, san fran, halloween plans, clubs, drinking, etc etc. at the end she says "so can you call me tomorrow night" i said yes, we both say goodnight.

so now its the next night. im looking forward to talking to her again. its 9pm...she said she was taking her younger siblings trick or treating at around 7pm for like 2 hours.

when should i call her? i dont wanna seem desperate or needy lol...help girls!!

2006-10-31 15:59:18 · 17 answers · asked by seth c 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got strung along and dumped several times by this man. He told me back in July that he wanted to break up because he couldn't handle the idea of being "stepfather to a child with a disability" because my son has Asperger's Syndrome. Well, he wrote me an email 2 or 3 weeks later saying "I suffer as my heart longs for you," so I called him (stupidly) and asked him out. Since then, it's been me begging to have sex (ridiculous, as most people consider me quite beautiful!) with him and him being reluctantly horny. Finally, we agreed to stop trying to even be friends, much less "friends with benefits," because the truth is I'm madly in love with him and he's just not that into me (though he claims to love me). I'm humiliated at having chased him for so long. But that's my pattern: if I am into a man, I cling and smother the relationship. How can I stop this pattern and find love? How do I keep away from him? What if he calls?

2006-10-31 15:59:13 · 5 answers · asked by nondescript 4 in Singles & Dating

I have to rely on VA transportation to get to the VA hospital in my area. I have called the Van Driver at least 4 times this evening to find out what time in the mourning I will be picked up. I have had no responce at all. I take medication that makes me very drowsy and I then go to bed. If the van driver does not call soon, I will have no idea as to what time I will be picked up. I am thinking about just saying the hell with it and not even bother going or waiting a little while more and then say to hell with it if no call. What would you do?? I have never had this problem before.

2006-10-31 15:57:59 · 5 answers · asked by Richie 4 in Marriage & Divorce