this is the situation...
were 4 months married here in abroad, i knew before that he has a son to a divorce woman...now his asking my permission to allow him to have a 2 weeks vacation to our country 'cause it's his son's birth day!!! do you think it's ok?! they will stay in 1 house for two weeks together w/ the son's mother?! shall i believe in him that nothing will happen?! though i know that he loves me! but do you guys have the control?! i knew that the woman still like him and i was afraid what will happened for that 2 weeks...
2006-10-31 16:14:00 · 9 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should trust him!!! he is your husband, he marry you because his love for you is strong and you show him the appreciation for that love... Love him and trust him as well...
2006-11-01 20:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how you can stop him Lovely. But I assure you there will be lots of celebration during those 2 weeks.
If this happens as you have said, all I can suggest is that you keep him sexually drained both before and after. Make sure you get him off 2 or 3 times a day. If you've fired all his bullets, he won't have a load to share with his ex.
2006-10-31 16:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would be very stressful. I have attended parties where my husband ex-wife would show up and I held it together, but it was tough. Can you find another place for the mother and have the son stay with you and your husband?
2006-10-31 16:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by docie555@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are married to his man, you should be able to trust him. He divorced her and married you so he loves you more. I think that he will be able to have control, especially if his feelings for this woman are not strong or are non-existent. But you should know your husband, but I think it is safe to trust him. Good luck!
2006-10-31 16:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
him and his ex are divorced i dont think he is going to want to sleep with the woman that took his child.if its possible go with him. trust him he is your husband...just make sure he is satisfied before he leaves
2006-10-31 16:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by carolyn t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you go with him? I wouldn't let him stay that long you never know what can happend.
2006-10-31 16:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your husband, he marry you w/c means he loves you!!! loving is trusting... its difficult but you have to...tell him that you trust him and that you believe in him, conscience speak!!!
2006-10-31 16:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They gonna make love! Don't do it.
2006-10-31 16:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Dumbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh no, I wouldnt let that happen... Why cant you go???
2006-10-31 16:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋