Is it possible to love someone so much and yet hate them with everything you have at the same time?
2006-10-31 16:17:45 · 11 answers · asked by jennyve25 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, sure is! Just learn to distinguish between the person you love and the things they say and do that you hate, I think the term is "happy medium", or if you are star-sign struck, deadset unlucky!!!
2006-10-31 16:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by renclrk 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is cliche, But there is a very thin line between love and hate.. The reason you "can" hate him so much is because you love him... for instance, to hate, takes alot of energy. if you did not care about him you could not bring yourself to waste so much energy on a person that you are indifferent to.
2006-11-01 02:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by milkmansbaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just think you love him, when what you really feel for him is contempt (hate, your choice). He doesn't bring out the best in you or you would not feel such strong animosity towards him. I've been there, and its not worth it. Love/hate relationships will suck you dry emotionally.
2006-11-01 00:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could be wrong here but I think what your going through is you love either the man he used to be or the man you want him to become.But you hate him for what he is or isnt right now!
2006-11-01 00:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by btsnpieces 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way about my relationship,so yes it is possible.
2006-11-01 01:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to have loved someone to truely hate them.
2006-11-01 00:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by kay S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible but reveals inner paradoxes. Get therapy and know yourself better and why you feel this way.
2006-11-01 00:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by cravala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe some people do.
2006-11-01 00:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Renew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, love hurts!!
2006-11-01 00:48:01 · answer #9 · answered by ~MEEEOW~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so, but it definitely hurts.
2006-11-01 00:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Rollercoaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋