2006-10-31 16:15:47 · 25 answers · asked by cravala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel and I say you should concentrate on your self and evaluate the reasons why you both are no longer together and if you think you need to make some changes about your self then now is the perfect time for doing so. Just remember everything happens for a reason so don't sweat it your time will come.
2006-10-31 16:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by klynna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how long ago did you break up? I had that episode with my ex once. It was around last Christmas time. I had been with my ex for about a year (around 2 years prior... around 2003) and suddenly, I started to miss him although our relationship wasn't that great. I got rid of that feeling by actually SEEING him. lol I went to dinner with him during xmas as a friend (this is a long story, which I won't bore you with). Anyhoot, after the dinner, I realized that I had nothing in common with this guy and couldn't see a future with him and that I was just lonely. A few months later, I met a great guy and now I live with him and am typing this on HIS laptop. You just need to move on and open your heart to another guy. Don't let your ex keep you down. Think of WHY the relationship ended and just learn from it. :-)
2006-11-01 00:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be frank and genuine, you cannot forget your "ex" 100% even if u get married with somebody else...but you can make your thoughts come down by stopping sharing your memories with your friends....This helps a lot...
But even then, most of the times when you meet some other persons who resembles your ex in their behaviour and appearance, your thoughts may go back, but still you can love those memories...as no one can deny this....
Best of luck....
Regards
Amal
2006-11-01 00:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Amal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's tough. Obviously she doesn't love you that way any more since she has moved on but maybe you should try to talk to her and see where her heart is at. If she shows no love towards you tha should help you shift to the right path. Don't rush into dating either, go slow. Just take some "me" time and it will all figure it self out.
2006-11-01 00:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Juicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha im in the same exact situation.. but my lovely ex keeps stringing me on and getting me to think there might be a time when we will get back together and hes being very childish about it.. but anyway just go and have fun with friends and occupy your time.. the longer you sit at the computer or wait by the phone the harder it is to move on. Try to go out on dates as well but dont commit to anyone yet.
2006-11-04 00:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by pinkcandiez871 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not easy, can't say that those thougts will leave all the way even if you do move on. Just do your best to not live in the past, cause it won't change, the only thing that you can do is try to make the future better.
Man I need to learn to take my own advice..err but its hard
2006-11-01 00:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by Laurel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kno its hard but u need 2 move on too find someone or something to occupy ur mind. Time heals all wounds. Right now u probably just feel like life/love sucks but u'll be fine. Keep ur head up
2006-11-01 00:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you stop thinking?
you obviously cannot stop thinking because you allow yourself to think.
you must be sitting thinking about all the good times, dreaming of your possible future with him... and because you are thinking so much about it, you think you seem him everywhere you go- de ja vu?
fact number one: he has moved on.
fact number two: it is already over.
sounds harsh? you will go through this again and again if you allow yourself to dwell on it for far too long.
distract yourself, get a hobby, pursue your life interests, make time for family and friends.. it takes CONSCIOUS EFFORT. but if you try, you will make it.
cheers.
be truly happy again soon.
2006-11-01 00:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get involved in clubs, communtiy or anything that keeps you busy. when your mind is busy with things you like to do you won't think of your ex. that is the key term "EX"... obviously the relationship ended for reasons, think about those reasons and move on but don't make the same mistakes, we learn from bad realtionships to have better ones, good luck!!! " KEEP BUSY"!!!
2006-11-01 00:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by rattagous70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book, He's just not that into you your daily wake-up call by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
This book is amazing and it really helps you to see how the relationship in your eyes totally differs from what he was thinking and it helps you to see that you deserve better.
2006-11-01 00:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by juniper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋